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Regardless of sexuality, is a mouth a mouth or you?
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I’m not trying to label everyone as bi just noticed that it seems more and more people (especially when it comes to getting a blowjob) are not strictly in a category when it comes to their sexuality and are on more of a spectrum these days. Or maybe they still define themselves as straight despite receiving oral sex from other men/ TV’s cause the physical feeling of Being sucked just overrides who they’re sexually attracted to?
Myself, I’m only really into men but could definitely still receive oral sex from a women for sure and could probably still give her oral sex.
Just seems like many people are open to receiving an oral sex from the same sex whilst not necessarily defining or declaring an interest in the same sex cause a mouth’s just a mouth ?
Agree / disagree ? I’d love to know your thoughts… |
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"I think it comes down to whether you can separate sex from attraction. And whether you want to."
Totally agree, I love sex and not fussy where ot comes from, sex is sex. However I would not want a relationship with a man, only a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there’s a spectrum to sexuality and there are also plenty of people who can separate attraction from the act. Unfortunately there are also people who can’t get their heads round this idea and have to label everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not an 'any hole's a goal' kind of person.
There has to be appeal for me.
As I'm more about enjoying the body of a woman, and less about my own ejaculation, it's unlikely just 'any mouth' will peak my interest. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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nope no sexual attraction no fun saying a mouth is just a mouth is like saying a cock is just a cock no matter who its attached too or a vagina is a vagina no matter who the woman is massive no from me im fussy and picky with men and even fussier with women ... no attraction no fun ..even if its just mine or there mouth..
my mouth is attached to me and other mouths are attached too so its never just a mouth its part of a person and it the person that gives the horn no horn no action
reminds me of the anyhole a goal brigade those who will fuck anyone do anything type no matter who you are or how you look ...yuk |
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By *ashMan
over a year ago
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U will cum no matter who goes down on u, especially when u r blindfolded.. But whether that's what excites u sexually is the real question. If I like or want a guy to suck my dick then I'll enjoy it, else it's just a pointless cum.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its like when a guy messages me asking for sex and when i point out they dont even know what i look like and they reply its cool its only sex, nah not for me i need attraction |
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I’d say that’s an impossible question to answer really as everyone will have different viewpoints (guess that’s what makes life interesting!).
A perfect example is a party I went to which had some temporary glory holes setup (the guy was a builder and had built a simple stud wall with wood panel for the party). He openly said behind the wall was a guy and a girl and you wouldn’t know who was sucking you so you had to be happy with that thought.
Quite a few of the straight guys happily used the glory hole as they defined it as “just a mouth”. There were a couple guys who said they couldn't do it as they couldn’t bear the thought of getting sucked by a guy. |
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Think you’re right OP in more of a spectrum but possibly due to being more open, feeling the opportunity is there.
That being said, any mouth isn’t a goal for me personally, the attraction must be there. Though some situations are hotter - like when you’re looking at a wife as she watches her husband slip his mouth around you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexuality is such a spectrum and extremely fluid. Labels aren't always needed.  "
I don’t really agree with that. There are plenty of gay men and lesbians who don’t want to go with the opposite sex - and nobody tells them “it’s a spectrum” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexuality is such a spectrum and extremely fluid. Labels aren't always needed.
I don’t really agree with that. There are plenty of gay men and lesbians who don’t want to go with the opposite sex - and nobody tells them “it’s a spectrum” "
I'd say they're at one end of a spectrum, which is totally fine. I think the point is gay, straight or Bi doesn't really cover it, there's lots more points in between. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Back to the original question though, I'd say a mouth isn't just a mouth. I can tell the difference between a guy or a girl sucking me -- admittedly there isn't enough data points for statistical significance!
That said I love receiving blow jobs in general but they're a lot better when you're really attracted to the giver. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can't imagine being attracted to a man in terms of a relationship or even kissing, though I'd be open minded if someone ever proved me wrong.
However, I'm not sure I agree with 'any mouth is a mouth'. Even though I'm "predominantly straight" (is that a thing?), I'd much rather a nice bloke than an unpleasant woman.
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Oral sex from anyone feels good yet it's more about how they do it and how much they clearly enjoy giving. I'm orally bi yet straight otherwise. My recieving experiences have certainly been wide ranging yet my best have been from women, a man came close third a while back (I could tell he was enjoying doing it and that's a huge plus !).... Tony |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Using this logic would you also say “any holes a goal” ? An ass is an ass? A hand is a hand? An orgasm is an orgasm?
It doesn’t really make sense to me… I’m pretty fussy and particular about who I meet and physical attraction is a very very very important thing. If that’s not there then there’s no way I’d have any kind of sexual contact with someone.
I don’t understand how people can have any kind of sex with someone they claim they’re not attracted to? |
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So a mouth is a mouth, just close your eyes and let go.
