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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t mean this to sound sarcastic at all, but she is your wife not ours, hopefully you know how receptive she might be to the idea ?
Entering the world of swinging with a partner depends on complete communication and trust and this relies on the ability to have difficult conversations.
If it something you really want to explore, set a private time where you can sit down and have that conversation openly and honestly and go from there. There’s no easy way I’m afraid |
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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
I just said whoever it was fancied her and she flirted with him till it worked , now she likes flirting with anyone ! Especially married lads as it’s as naughty for both ! Oh and a bottle of red ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trust, communication, respect and honesty.
They are the top things you have to have in order to talk about swinging with a partner in my opinion.. If you have all 3 then just be open and honest about what you would like etc. |
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From experience, your wife needs to let you know that it’s something she wants to explore and enjoy, just telling her you want to see her take another guys cock will probably be an instant turn-off for her. It needs to be her idea and something she wants. |
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Dirty talk during sex. Start it off gently and see if she reacts
If she doesn't respond then just play it down after and say u don't know what came over u
If she's game, keep it going and explore further and talk filthier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us, we were doing DP with a toy as the 3rd party and we started talking about how good it would be to do it for real. It got mentioned a couple more times in the heat of the moment so we had a proper conversation about it and here we are |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
East Northamptonshire |
First thing is to open up when you are both excited and with lowered inhibitions. Ask if she has ever had, or imagined having, a threesome with another guy. Her initial reaction will determine if it is worth continuing the conversation. At the very least you can tell her that it turns you on to hear ot any fantasies and you would like to know what she likes no matter what it is, so you can better pleasure her. The first step is openness, the thing I think many Vanilla couples miss out on with the traditional sexual taboos. Many couples have very little ides what the other really likes or fantasises about when they are in bed together. |
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