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over a year ago
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Agreed to meet a Women at a private Couples only party. Trouble was I had to pick her up 48 miles away and drop her home which would of been 4 trips 192 miles in total. She has a car and can drive over 30 miles to Silverleigh where we met for the first time,
She didn't show any interest to me socially or sexually but still wanted me to be her run around but no sex with me. I know it's not a given but really we're all here to enjoy ourselves have sex that's why we're going to a play party.
Be warned guys always meet them at a club and tell them to make their own way, dont be held to ransome by women looking for an easy touch. |
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"Petrol even "
She offered to pay half of everything but I don't think petrol money. Who was going to buy the drinks etc not sure but I can guess can you? |
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"I mean you could have just said I am not buying you anything Pay your on way What she going to do sulk at you about it ..
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She said we can go as friends and still have a good night, what she means is she will go off and meet her friends and play with them. Then go back to my hotel and just sleep no sex for me. |
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Always potential for someone who'll happily take advantage, and I'm sure it works both ways too sadly. I think many guys would probably do the same in the hope of a meet evolving into sex if they make an effort to be generous but I get what you mean, attending a play party together implies more than being a taxi! I can't imagine anything worse than getting home and feeling completely taken advantage of. Still, at least you were still a gent enough to take her home afterwards. I bet some would have just left her and gone home themselves if they'd not got what theyd hoped for at the party! You've been the bigger person, harsh lesson learnt and move on.  |
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"You don't have to do anything."
I've still got a place at the party but now I don't have a partner she's found someone else. I lose out now can't find anyone at this short notice. A kick in the teeth really |
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"I mean you could have just said I am not buying you anything Pay your on way What she going to do sulk at you about it ..
She said we can go as friends and still have a good night, what she means is she will go off and meet her friends and play with them. Then go back to my hotel and just sleep no sex for me."
Why agree then to do it if you knew that was the play
I have had people ask me to go clubs with them as a plus 1 as friends to get entry. I just then leave them once inside and get on with my own night and left when I was ready on my own . |
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Yeah she was leaving the door open slightly to the possibility of sex, she wanted me to tie her up and other things but once we met I'm suddenly not her type, I never was her type even if I had a six pack and 12 inch cock. It's was to get her in the club only |
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"You don't have to do anything.
I've still got a place at the party but now I don't have a partner she's found someone else. I lose out now can't find anyone at this short notice. A kick in the teeth really "
I'm sorry you've been played. It's not nice. People will take advantage of they think they can |
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"Yeah she was leaving the door open slightly to the possibility of sex, she wanted me to tie her up and other things but once we met I'm suddenly not her type, I never was her type even if I had a six pack and 12 inch cock. It's was to get her in the club only"
Sometimes you meet someone and the chemistry just isn't there.
She might have just been playing the game. But there's also a chance she was disappointed herself. |
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"Maybe just set out ground rules next time so it's clear from both sides
perhaps one of the ground rules should be 'Grievances won't be aired in the forum'!"
It's my fault I should of stopped the whole thing dead early on. |
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"Yeah she was leaving the door open slightly to the possibility of sex, she wanted me to tie her up and other things but once we met I'm suddenly not her type, I never was her type even if I had a six pack and 12 inch cock. It's was to get her in the club only
Sometimes you meet someone and the chemistry just isn't there.
She might have just been playing the game. But there's also a chance she was disappointed herself."
She was disappointed I wasn't interested in taking her. |
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"Agreed to meet a Women at a private Couples only party. Trouble was I had to pick her up 48 miles away and drop her home which would of been 4 trips 192 miles in total. She has a car and can drive over 30 miles to Silverleigh where we met for the first time,
She didn't show any interest to me socially or sexually but still wanted me to be her run around but no sex with me. I know it's not a given but really we're all here to enjoy ourselves have sex that's why we're going to a play party.
Be warned guys always meet them at a club and tell them to make their own way, dont be held to ransome by women looking for an easy touch."
I dont think most of us need to be warned, OP.
We'd have seen her game plan quite quickly and politely told her where to go
Sometimes people like her feed off the desperation or gullibility of others |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Agreed to meet a Women at a private Couples only party. Trouble was I had to pick her up 48 miles away and drop her home which would of been 4 trips 192 miles in total. She has a car and can drive over 30 miles to Silverleigh where we met for the first time,
She didn't show any interest to me socially or sexually but still wanted me to be her run around but no sex with me. I know it's not a given but really we're all here to enjoy ourselves have sex that's why we're going to a play party.
Be warned guys always meet them at a club and tell them to make their own way, dont be held to ransome by women looking for an easy touch.
I dont think most of us need to be warned, OP.
We'd have seen her game plan quite quickly and politely told her where to go
Sometimes people like her feed off the desperation or gullibility of others "
Luckily I met her before the party and saw her game, when I got home from the Spa I was thinking the best way out of this. Luckily she sent me a msg saying she was not going to play with me at the club and we can still go as friends, I told her to get her own way and be friends with me at the club. I immediately told the party organisers I'm not going. |
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"Maybe just set out ground rules next time so it's clear from both sides
perhaps one of the ground rules should be 'Grievances won't be aired in the forum'!
It's my fault I should have stopped the whole thing dead early on."
It’s not your fault. Unfortunately It is very common in swinging scene for little minority of women to use men like this. You just learn and move on. It’s her loss at the end of the day you won’t be meeting her again. |
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"I think good rules to follow are.
1. Don't hold out the promise of sex to gain favours
2. Don't expect sex for doing favours
3. Don't do anything you wouldn't have done anyway just to get sex. "
I can't disagree with those rules they are correct X |
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