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"at least on match.com they have to write something lol" match.com is a pay site you still get rude women on it no matter were u go | |||
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"I don't agree with people lying on there profile but hey ho "theres a lot about especially there age they lie about when you mail em they half moan about an get bock for it#one was 91 an thats not a mistake | |||
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"I don't agree with people lying on there profile but hey ho "is that aimed at my straight orientation lol | |||
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"There's no need for rudeness or cutting messages/ profiles. Makes it easier to avoid those people though. My profile is empty for a reason. Perhaps they are doing the same thing. I have my 'looking for' blank so I don't show up on searches as I prefer to go looking. Match.com is full of freaky idiots. A bit like real life. And anywhere...." a bit like real life indeed.. thanks for explaining your reasons for the blank profile.. i guess that makes sense and please don't think im being arsey about it, i'm just saying that as a single guy you'd get eaten up and spat out for it | |||
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"It's supply and demand. And no one forces you to message people who's profiles you don't like. I can't help but suspect that threads like this are born out of frustration because some men struggle to accept that single women hold much of the power here. " the women here hold all the power and its not from frustration just a pure observation | |||
"There's no need for rudeness or cutting messages/ profiles. Makes it easier to avoid those people though. My profile is empty for a reason. Perhaps they are doing the same thing. I have my 'looking for' blank so I don't show up on searches as I prefer to go looking. Match.com is full of freaky idiots. A bit like real life. And anywhere.... a bit like real life indeed.. thanks for explaining your reasons for the blank profile.. i guess that makes sense and please don't think im being arsey about it, i'm just saying that as a single guy you'd get eaten up and spat out for it" Just so you know, I get eaten up and spat out for it too! I get ignored all the time, even when I mail single blokes. Imagine that!
It's ok though, they probably think I'm a nut. | |||
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"There's no need for rudeness or cutting messages/ profiles. Makes it easier to avoid those people though. My profile is empty for a reason. Perhaps they are doing the same thing. I have my 'looking for' blank so I don't show up on searches as I prefer to go looking. Match.com is full of freaky idiots. A bit like real life. And anywhere.... a bit like real life indeed.. thanks for explaining your reasons for the blank profile.. i guess that makes sense and please don't think im being arsey about it, i'm just saying that as a single guy you'd get eaten up and spat out for it Just so you know, I get eaten up and spat out for it too! I get ignored all the time, even when I mail single blokes. Imagine that!
It's ok though, they probably think I'm a nut. "what? a woman that e mails single guys.. thats a first... i dont think i have ever had that hehe | |||
"god damnit you are right!!!!" Of course, however I am not rude, unless someone is rude to me first | |||
"There's no need for rudeness or cutting messages/ profiles. Makes it easier to avoid those people though. My profile is empty for a reason. Perhaps they are doing the same thing. I have my 'looking for' blank so I don't show up on searches as I prefer to go looking. Match.com is full of freaky idiots. A bit like real life. And anywhere.... a bit like real life indeed.. thanks for explaining your reasons for the blank profile.. i guess that makes sense and please don't think im being arsey about it, i'm just saying that as a single guy you'd get eaten up and spat out for it Just so you know, I get eaten up and spat out for it too! I get ignored all the time, even when I mail single blokes. Imagine that!
It's ok though, they probably think I'm a nut.
what? a woman that e mails single guys.. thats a first... i dont think i have ever had that hehe "I have before | |||
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"Some of them think their gods gift to fab." I am   | |||
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"Some of them think their gods gift to fab." And some men really hate that. The men that think they are some sort of adonis that can't even get a meet w.ith women they consider beneath them and those egos really struggle with it. | |||
"Some of them think their gods gift to fab." Usually because of fawning men slithering over a grainy picture of a nipple.... | |||
"Some of them think their gods gift to fab. Usually because of fawning men slithering over a grainy picture of a nipple...." exactly | |||
just enjoy x | |||
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"Yes it is the internet. Not all of us are rude (ok waiting 3 or 4 days for a response might seem rude to some) but some of us do bother with profiles and pics. Some of us do bother replying to messages and are not nasty when we do. You have the choice not to email someone with a short/lacking profile, and if you want to meet a 91 year old, then that is your business but even at a ripe age, they have the right to decline someone. Personally I do not meet with men that bleet on that women rule on here; either person(s) have the right to say sorry I'd rather not. To the op, youve only searched womens profiles, try spending the same amount of time searching mens profiles; you may revise your opinion. Especially if you consider 'playing without permission' as rude." folks im not saying men arent as bad, i think the point is being missed, im not frustrated nor do i have a bruised ego, i have many friends from here and i enjoy all aspects of swinging, what i am saying is... single men get hammered for so much as not having a face pic.. and woman can simply have nothing and still get inundated.. there is no need for anyone to be rude on here wether in a profile or a refusal.. its just an observation | |||
"I have a blank profile and only swinging clubs and safe sex ticked as interests because thats all I do, meet at chams. I cant make it any clearer "and its the best place to play in my opinion | |||
"I have a blank profile and only swinging clubs and safe sex ticked as interests because thats all I do, meet at chams. I cant make it any clearer
and its the best place to play in my opinion"See now I do not have a problem with your profile saying nothing; however I wouldn't email you because it says nothing. I do love chams though | |||
"I have a blank profile and only swinging clubs and safe sex ticked as interests because thats all I do, meet at chams. I cant make it any clearer
and its the best place to play in my opinion
See now I do not have a problem with your profile saying nothing; however I wouldn't email you because it says nothing.
I do love chams though "i stand by my previous comment.. best place to play best club around | |||
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"Some of them think their gods gift to fab. Usually because of fawning men slithering over a grainy picture of a nipple...." There you have it! | |||
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"I agree hun nothing more frustrating than ignorance x "  | |||
" I do love chams though
i stand by my previous comment.. best place to play best club around "Shame, after looking at your profile and you so close to London too | |||
Add in the men who seem convinced that I won't notice that they are 8 inches shorter/fifteen years older/five stone heavier than I am looking for (my preferences are stated in the first sentence of my profile) and you will begin to understand why I hid it instead of sending acerbic retorts to men who think I won't bother to read the wordy bit since they don't!  | |||
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"Yes it is the internet. Not all of us are rude (ok waiting 3 or 4 days for a response might seem rude to some) but some of us do bother with profiles and pics. Some of us do bother replying to messages and are not nasty when we do. You have the choice not to email someone with a short/lacking profile, and if you want to meet a 91 year old, then that is your business but even at a ripe age, they have the right to decline someone. Personally I do not meet with men that bleet on that women rule on here; either person(s) have the right to say sorry I'd rather not. To the op, youve only searched womens profiles, try spending the same amount of time searching mens profiles; you may revise your opinion. Especially if you consider 'playing without permission' as rude. folks im not saying men arent as bad, i think the point is being missed, im not frustrated nor do i have a bruised ego, i have many friends from here and i enjoy all aspects of swinging, what i am saying is... single men get hammered for so much as not having a face pic.. and woman can simply have nothing and still get inundated.. there is no need for anyone to be rude on here wether in a profile or a refusal.. its just an observation" Maybe its because most women are fussy who they chat to and meet, where as most guys will fuck any manky hole they're allowed to!  | |||
"Ok I'm sure I am going to get some flack for this but hey thats what the forums are for right? As a single guy on here i try very hard to write a decent profile and put pics on etc, so why is it ok for SOME women to write quite cutting messages or very blunt profiles? and sometimes not write anything at all. Yes i know it's the ladies market here but it works to ways doesn't it?" It quite simple cause women have the pussy, and in my opinion most women on here do have issues which is why they cant stay in a relationship. | |||
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"Ok I'm sure I am going to get some flack for this but hey thats what the forums are for right? As a single guy on here i try very hard to write a decent profile and put pics on etc, so why is it ok for SOME women to write quite cutting messages or very blunt profiles? and sometimes not write anything at all. Yes i know it's the ladies market here but it works to ways doesn't it? It quite simple cause women have the pussy, and in my opinion most women on here do have issues which is why they cant stay in a relationship. "Lol...how would you know? Have you met MOST the women on here? Smells like sour grapes to me like!  | |||
"Ok I'm sure I am going to get some flack for this but hey thats what the forums are for right? As a single guy on here i try very hard to write a decent profile and put pics on etc, so why is it ok for SOME women to write quite cutting messages or very blunt profiles? and sometimes not write anything at all. Yes i know it's the ladies market here but it works to ways doesn't it? It quite simple cause women have the pussy, and in my opinion most women on here do have issues which is why they cant stay in a relationship.
Lol...how would you know?
Have you met MOST the women on here? Smells like sour grapes to me like! "Mmmmm but the true hurts does,nt it hun | |||
"Ok I'm sure I am going to get some flack for this but hey thats what the forums are for right? As a single guy on here i try very hard to write a decent profile and put pics on etc, so why is it ok for SOME women to write quite cutting messages or very blunt profiles? and sometimes not write anything at all. Yes i know it's the ladies market here but it works to ways doesn't it? It quite simple cause women have the pussy, and in my opinion most women on here do have issues which is why they cant stay in a relationship.
Lol...how would you know?
Have you met MOST the women on here? Smells like sour grapes to me like! Mmmmm but the true hurts does,nt it hun "I would'nt know...I've been married for 16yrs and my bf and I have been together for 3 fantastic yrs...my relationships are just fine! | |||
no one is pointing a gun to your head and telling you you must answer messages or profiles from these types... so if more people didn't answer them, the attitudes would change...
its a case of self respect... you want to jump thru hoops... good for you, but you can't really complain if that is what you are prepared to do in the 1st place, and it doesn't work... | |||
"people get away with the behaviour they are allowed to... so where women may put up the snooty messages they wouldn't get away with it if men didn't pander to their whims in the sake of getting their leg over... it is very much a two way street...
no one is pointing a gun to your head and telling you you must answer messages or profiles from these types... so if more people didn't answer them, the attitudes would change...
its a case of self respect... you want to jump thru hoops... good for you, but you can't really complain if that is what you are prepared to do in the 1st place, and it doesn't work..." | |||
"... a single guy you'd get eaten up and spat out for it" Standing by and awaiting orders sir | |||
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"Ah that ideal world where women aren't rude and guys aren't married you mean? Darling man do you spend your days sitting on a nice fluffy cloud where all your world is as you would wish? Fab is a microcosm of the world so we get all sorts on here and yes women are rude, men lie, some are even rude and lie! " I think we get the picture, but theres rude and theres rude, and theres demanding, some profiles are like a wish list, and some people have things to hide, i wonder what??? | |||
"Tirades are all very well. But if the person contacting you isn't your cuppa tea, just do what we do and say 'its a no from us/me'. Most come back and say thanks for at least responding. However, unverified people saying fancy a fuck don't get the same courtesy. " Well at least you reply which is a good thing, theres a poster whos posted on here justs blocks, ok im not 6ft tall, but a polite no wouldnt go a miss, after all my messages are always polite and not just a knuckle dragging wanna fuck type of message | |||
"Yes it is the internet. Not all of us are rude (ok waiting 3 or 4 days for a response might seem rude to some) but some of us do bother with profiles and pics. Some of us do bother replying to messages and are not nasty when we do. You have the choice not to email someone with a short/lacking profile, and if you want to meet a 91 year old, then that is your business but even at a ripe age, they have the right to decline someone. Personally I do not meet with men that bleet on that women rule on here; either person(s) have the right to say sorry I'd rather not. To the op, youve only searched womens profiles, try spending the same amount of time searching mens profiles; you may revise your opinion. Especially if you consider 'playing without permission' as rude. folks im not saying men arent as bad, i think the point is being missed, im not frustrated nor do i have a bruised ego, i have many friends from here and i enjoy all aspects of swinging, what i am saying is... single men get hammered for so much as not having a face pic.. and woman can simply have nothing and still get inundated.. there is no need for anyone to be rude on here wether in a profile or a refusal.. its just an observation Maybe its because most women are fussy who they chat to and meet, where as most guys will fuck any manky hole they're allowed to! "Lol...how would you know? Have you met MOST the men on here? Smells like sour grapes to me like! Definition of irony: removing 2 letters from a female response to a guys post against the female who posted it...let s(he) without sin cast the first stone when making sweeping generalisations | |||
"at least on match.com they have to write something lol" Lost count of the number of guys on here who's profile contains words "will fill in later....." | |||
"at least on match.com they have to write something lol Lost count of the number of guys on here who's profile contains words "will fill in later....."" or 'anything you want to know... ask' Wolf
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"Ok I'm sure I am going to get some flack for this but hey thats what the forums are for right? As a single guy on here i try very hard to write a decent profile and put pics on etc, so why is it ok for SOME women to write quite cutting messages or very blunt profiles? and sometimes not write anything at all. Yes i know it's the ladies market here but it works to ways doesn't it?" You are only seeing it from a single guy's perspective. I often get abusive messages in response to a polite 'no thanks' unless I instantly block. Just had one not 20 minutes ago as I did not block fast enough. Also, got one from a guy who's profile can only be considered misogynistic - I cannot imagine a single woman who would find it appealing with the rant, in capital, against women which he has put on there. All you can say is that some PEOPLE are rude. Not just men, women or couples. | |||
just watch how i get attacked in a minute of posting this they will prove my point you ll see | |||
I can be choosy cos 1 I'm not desperate and 2 cos the amount of choice I have allows me to be.
That's the way it is
However saying that I don't use this site to look for single guys as I find most of them just too desperate. I use another site where numbers are better matched and the guys more respectful | |||
"Some of them think their gods gift to fab." So do some of the men! | |||
"Some of them think their gods gift to fab. So do some of the men! "and i agree with you there, most post on these forums  | |||
"Ok I'm sure I am going to get some flack for this but hey thats what the forums are for right? As a single guy on here i try very hard to write a decent profile and put pics on etc, so why is it ok for SOME women to write quite cutting messages or very blunt profiles? and sometimes not write anything at all. Yes i know it's the ladies market here but it works to ways doesn't it? You are only seeing it from a single guy's perspective. I often get abusive messages in response to a polite 'no thanks' unless I instantly block. Just had one not 20 minutes ago as I did not block fast enough. Also, got one from a guy who's profile can only be considered misogynistic - I cannot imagine a single woman who would find it appealing with the rant, in capital, against women which he has put on there. All you can say is that some PEOPLE are rude. Not just men, women or couples." I honestly could count on two hands the rude messages I have had in response to a no thanks. Usually I get a thank you for replying and have fun all the same type reply. I don't understand why so many get these rude ppl? Maybe I'm just lucky lol | |||
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"Some of them think their gods gift to fab. So do some of the men!
and i agree with you there, most post on these forums "I'm glad you said most, and not all
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"Ah that ideal world where women aren't rude and guys aren't married you mean? Darling man do you spend your days sitting on a nice fluffy cloud where all your world is as you would wish? Fab is a microcosm of the world so we get all sorts on here and yes women are rude, men lie, some are even rude and lie! " are you implying its only men that are being un faithful here? or in real life for that matter? are you truly that ignorant? | |||
"Some of them think their gods gift to fab. So do some of the men! "U don't surely mean those guys who can't understand why I would turn them down when they tell me how great they r in bed etc | |||
"Ah that ideal world where women aren't rude and guys aren't married you mean? Darling man do you spend your days sitting on a nice fluffy cloud where all your world is as you would wish? Fab is a microcosm of the world so we get all sorts on here and yes women are rude, men lie, some are even rude and lie! are you implying its only men that are being un faithful here? or in real life for that matter? are you truly that ignorant?" looks that way | |||
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" Maybe its because most women are fussy who they chat to and meet, where as most guys will fuck any manky hole they're allowed to!
Lol...how would you know?
Have you met MOST the men on here? Smells like sour grapes to me like!
Definition of irony: removing 2 letters from a female response to a guys post against the female who posted it...let s(he) without sin cast the first stone when making sweeping generalisations "Well I could have... but most of them were not even in my age range or willing to show pics so they get told to fuck off! | |||
