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Started messaging what appeared to be a couple, it appeared to be a submissive cuck situation.
After a few messages I’m informed the female partner would not be present.
I apologise and inform them I only meet couples as a couple. I would only do lone meets with single profiles.
I then get abuse hurled at me and saying “thanks for wasting our time you fool”
I’m sorry but this screams single male to me.
Why do they feel the need?
If anyone’s time was wasted it was mine!
Anyone else had similar experiences? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m on the quest for finding a bi fem and in my couple’s account we have engaged three times with a so-called couple profile when it turned out to be a bloke… we have learnt how to suss them out but it really boils my blood. More of them than we think. |
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Happens all the time here and on other sites. Desperate people looking for any sort of engagement. I wouldn’t mind if they were up front, I’ll chat to anyone, but pretence is just annoying. Women and couples must find it particularly frustrating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do seem to be getting more single male profiles claiming to have fb's or wives but a couple messages in you can normally tell."
Some of us do thow. And put it in our profiles that only meeting with my play friend. So why are we fakes. |
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"Do seem to be getting more single male profiles claiming to have fb's or wives but a couple messages in you can normally tell.
Some of us do thow. And put it in our profiles that only meeting with my play friend. So why are we fakes. "
Wouldn't it be easier to make couples profile ? |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
i share your experiences.
recently when a couple contacted me they quickly wanted to move the conversation on to a messaging app.
i quickly worked out it was a guy looking for wank material as when i asked if i could contact the female part of the couple i got the 'shes not here' or 'shes at work'.
i replied politely that no further conversations would take place until ive spoken to both parties.
he tried it again about a week later and again i asked for the female and as i havent heard from him again must be bothering soneone else. |
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I've lost count of the number of times I've come across this. 'Couples' where the guy only wants to watch me wank over her pics, or tell him what I'd do with her etc. There's so many fake profiles, single female profiles too. I can usually tell after 2 or 3 messages, as in general, men can't be arsed to do more than a couple of words reply, even when pretending to be the female.
Just ignore them op and move on to the next possibility |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seem to be a lot of these types of profiles or ones where the wife/GF are always out to the shops\gym\work while the M is the one online. Maybe just a way to get attention but frustrating if you intend to use this to meet couples rather than just fantasise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not hard to spot once you know the script the pattern and the fact most women dont talk about themselves the way blokes doing this do.
I just don't get it |
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"Started messaging what appeared to be a couple, it appeared to be a submissive cuck situation.
After a few messages I’m informed the female partner would not be present.
I apologise and inform them I only meet couples as a couple. I would only do lone meets with single profiles.
I then get abuse hurled at me and saying “thanks for wasting our time you fool”
I’m sorry but this screams single male to me.
Why do they feel the need?
If anyone’s time was wasted it was mine!
Anyone else had similar experiences? "
Yeah you spoiled a guys wank chat so he unloaded at you. These cockfags are a scourge on here totally  
I get bombsrded by the similar types of couple messages. I just say bluntly we will require a video chat to verify we all are who we say are after a few messages. That pretty much ends it there |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
This comes up in forums all the time. From my own experiences, more often than not swinging is driven by the male to fulfill their fantasies, i know it was like that with me.
Often female either decide it isn't for them. I would have given up years ago if hadn't been for a lovely lady who showed me how to enjoy it on one meet  .
So a lot of guys may have started off as couple but end up pretending and the female she is nolonger there or interested. The number of guys on couple's profile kept asking to meet alone or turned upto an arranged meet (if they turned up at all), saying their partner couldn't make it.
There are the other group of guys that start up couple's profiles, claiming the partner permission to meet, because the see it as a way to open more doors.
Just way it is |
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"This comes up in forums all the time. From my own experiences, more often than not swinging is driven by the male to fulfill their fantasies, i know it was like that with me.
Often female either decide it isn't for them. I would have given up years ago if hadn't been for a lovely lady who showed me how to enjoy it on one meet .
So a lot of guys may have started off as couple but end up pretending and the female she is nolonger there or interested. The number of guys on couple's profile kept asking to meet alone or turned upto an arranged meet (if they turned up at all), saying their partner couldn't make it.
There are the other group of guys that start up couple's profiles, claiming the partner permission to meet, because the see it as a way to open more doors.
Just way it is"
This is very true. We've met couples who have messaged us and the Lady didn't even know. We've had many "couples" keen to meet us then go quiet (check with the Wife first!). We've met couples who also have a single Lady profile but it's ran by the Man. And the number of status's from couples saying "Male available"  |
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"Started messaging what appeared to be a couple, it appeared to be a submissive cuck situation.
After a few messages I’m informed the female partner would not be present.
I apologise and inform them I only meet couples as a couple. I would only do lone meets with single profiles.
I then get abuse hurled at me and saying “thanks for wasting our time you fool”
I’m sorry but this screams single male to me.
Why do they feel the need?
If anyone’s time was wasted it was mine!
Anyone else had similar experiences? "
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There usually easy to spot although when I (Mrs) first wrote our profile (the old one) and asked for feedback the most feedback we got was it sounded like a man wrote the profile, it was me! So wording can not always be that easy, if they want to meet speak to the woman, phone, facetime etc.
Mrs |
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I hate liars and fakes they're ruin all the fun for everybody just because of their cowards they feel they cannot compete with married or truthful up front single men
I just wish there was a way that could prevent these cowards from getting on this site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's pretty common and has been for years. The partner who's always "out shopping" or "taking a break", the couple where "the guy always meets first on his own, just to check you out". Quite easy to spot, and once spotted, block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do seem to be getting more single male profiles claiming to have fb's or wives but a couple messages in you can normally tell.
Some of us do thow. And put it in our profiles that only meeting with my play friend. So why are we fakes.
Wouldn't it be easier to make couples profile ?"
Not really needed as we only meet others at clubs so no advantage really. |
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