95% yep prob couple more % points added I say, some of stuff you read you think and prob most others what a load of crap, but some of messages I read especially the replies to the good looking pics of women the sucking up and basically it's yes miss yes madam I agree everything you say lol ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Realistically, I suspect that a very small % of the singles and couples on fab are pure bullshitters, and especially those who have been here for more than a month.
It is relatively easy to identify those who are unduly impatient and have a misconception about the site's raison d'etre, its essential purpose.
The temporary fixtures are the real bullshitters. |
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I join here because was recommended by a friend thought ok this could be for me and I paid subscription a gold one ffs lol. So I'm here till that ends, but I've been on few sites in past and this one is so tough so tough, if you get a message just saying someone wink you that's a massive achievement so I just stick to the forums for the giggles and chats. There are many sites very similar to this if your ok to pay subscription then sites are ok as the fakes won't spend money joining a site this is free with a option to pay. |
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"Are we right in thinking that 95% of people on here are indeed full of pure shit? What a bunch of fantasist bullshitters. X"
Standard my friend ... I've been on fab for what feels like ages .. met some lovely people had a few meets but for the most part I've realised there's as many dickheads here as there are in real life ..
I guess you just have to take the good with the bad , fine tune your bullshitter radar . That helps you enjoy the fun and conversations you fo find...
I used to get annoyed but now I just move on and block block block ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Are we right in thinking that 95% of people on here are indeed full of pure shit? What a bunch of fantasist bullshitters. X"
I'd say it's 50 50 , just most of the genuine profiles don't get as much attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads of real couples/people on here, you definitely have to do your homework and filter,
3 months on here now and we have learned what to look out for
On the flip side we have a fussy profile
Doubtful negative posts will help your profile |
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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago
Uttoxeter |
I wouldn't put it as high as 95% but there's quite a few who are more interested in giving folk the runaround. As soon as you get a whiff they're a messer cut all ties, a better experience of tge site if you do. |
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Someone above mentioned filters. We have narrowed down what we want and saves a little bit of the crap. Altering age, removing blank new profiles and non site supporters from messaging has helped.
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Have you considered people also have lives to deal with. The past year has thrown a lot at us and socialising has fir now slipped down our list. Add to that we are new and still nervous.
That doesn’t mean we are here to waste peoples time. We are here for ourselves, our own pleasure. Others may have similar ir their own reasons.
Be patient |
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I never understand why people blame the site or the people using it for not getting what they are looking for. Your definition of a fake and time waster could be different to the next person.
Use appropriate filters, vetting, social, verifications…or meet face to face to cut out all that, organised socials and clubs. |
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I've never had a no show in 6 years or been one.
The vast majority of people I know or chat to on here have never had a no show either.
I've never been catfished.
Lots of conversations fizzle out but that's never wasted time.
It's all down to expectations and as has been said so many times before, if you keep having the same negative experiences over and over maybe it's time to be honest with yourself and look for the common denominator. |
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"I join here because was recommended by a friend thought ok this could be for me and I paid subscription a gold one ffs lol. So I'm here till that ends, but I've been on few sites in past and this one is so tough so tough, if you get a message just saying someone wink you that's a massive achievement so I just stick to the forums for the giggles and chats. There are many sites very similar to this if your ok to pay subscription then sites are ok as the fakes won't spend money joining a site this is free with a option to pay. "
Maybe it’s the sync in me but I trust someone far less that see’s people only by their equity and thus the more cash they splash the more credibility they have? Subscription prices aren’t the issue. It’s the lack of respect people have for each other despite it being a swingers site, sex lives been personal. That, we’re all people and should be treated equally. Yeah nobody wants to invest time in time wasters or be messed around but by the same token the same people don’t care about wasting anyone else’s time or have little regard for other people because it only about their experience with no thought for other people. So the main problem with fab really seems to me, to be that most can’t appreciate another person and when they time waste etc, it’s ok without care that there’s another person on the receiving end of all this. However someone doing that to them is an issue! Basically people thinking it’s much effort to be decent too each other? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This site is full of them and fabguys. Just pics looking and talk "
I think I'm currently in that category, but not by my choice
Been on 2 months, fabbing pics & forum surfing... Saving up for a face lift ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"I've never had a no show in 6 years or been one.
The vast majority of people I know or chat to on here have never had a no show either.
I've never been catfished.
Lots of conversations fizzle out but that's never wasted time.
It's all down to expectations and as has been said so many times before, if you keep having the same negative experiences over and over maybe it's time to be honest with yourself and look for the common denominator."
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