That's ok, you don't have to understand how others think.
But in brief, some people like playing mind chess with each other. It's all a game of strategy that as long as both sides are aware they're playing the game it hurts no one. And for us personally it's a heck of a lot of fun  |
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"That's ok, you don't have to understand how others think.
But in brief, some people like playing mind chess with each other. It's all a game of strategy that as long as both sides are aware they're playing the game it hurts no one. And for us personally it's a heck of a lot of fun "
I love chess
So...how does it work? |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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If you like a game of cat and mouse (eek eeek!) and get bored with a sub that just lie there... Then a brat is for you...
Playful fun but when in the mood can be a total wimpering sub...
Variety is spicy no? |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"So what's a switch?"
A Dom who doesn't mind giving up control to his brat occasionally...
Like when your brat arranges for her girlfriends to appear unexpectedly and expect you to service them too... |
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I have a partner who probably meets the definition of being a brat.. as in she has a sharp tongue and has plenty of attitude.
But there's no games involved, no punishment...
But that's our dynamic... |
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"I love chess
So...how does it work?
You're opening a pandoras box...
It'll only work if you are a "switch"...
So what's a switch?
A switch is a dom who can sub at times and vice-versa."
That's what I thought...
...so bratty isn't just someone being annoying? |
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If a Dom takes themselves too seriously or becomes flustered, I'll usually be a bit bratty with what I say because it breaks the tension and adds in a bit of humour.
It is not childish, and does not involve acting immaturely. It takes wit to be a good brat, in my view.
For example, if a Dom messed up a knot when tying me up, and I could see he was getting frustrated, I might comment "so, you're not a scout leader then? Abu Hamza could tie a better knot."
It might elicit a very small laugh and an eye roll. For a brief second we've both broken character, and it reminds us both that we're here for fun and to relax and enjoy ourselves.
Xx |
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"If a Dom takes themselves too seriously or becomes flustered, I'll usually be a bit bratty with what I say because it breaks the tension and adds in a bit of humour.
It is not childish, and does not involve acting immaturely. It takes wit to be a good brat, in my view.
For example, if a Dom messed up a knot when tying me up, and I could see he was getting frustrated, I might comment "so, you're not a scout leader then? Abu Hamza could tie a better knot."
It might elicit a very small laugh and an eye roll. For a brief second we've both broken character, and it reminds us both that we're here for fun and to relax and enjoy ourselves.
Xx"
Just burst out laughing
Love this |
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"I love chess
So...how does it work?
You're opening a pandoras box...
It'll only work if you are a "switch"...
So what's a switch?
A switch is a dom who can sub at times and vice-versa.
That's what I thought...
...so bratty isn't just someone being annoying?"
Well bragging can be annoying yes...
But personally find it keeps things more interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a Dom takes themselves too seriously or becomes flustered, I'll usually be a bit bratty with what I say because it breaks the tension and adds in a bit of humour.
It is not childish, and does not involve acting immaturely. It takes wit to be a good brat, in my view.
For example, if a Dom messed up a knot when tying me up, and I could see he was getting frustrated, I might comment "so, you're not a scout leader then? Abu Hamza could tie a better knot."
It might elicit a very small laugh and an eye roll. For a brief second we've both broken character, and it reminds us both that we're here for fun and to relax and enjoy ourselves.
Xx"
I think sometimes ... especially with the high protocol folks...they forget it's actually meant to be fun... |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I have a partner who probably meets the definition of being a brat.. as in she has a sharp tongue and has plenty of attitude.
But there's no games involved, no punishment...
But that's our dynamic... "
Yeah each dynamic is slightly different...
With me, it's knowing I can have many men eating out of my palm ... But I've chosen you to be my owner so you should feel very special ... |
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