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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i was getting lots of message off a male who wanted me to view him cam an chat to him, i clearly stated that we wanted a couple to cam with, he kept messaging me and because i didnt reply he said he has reported me, can he do this ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He is just trying to scare you.

Block him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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He can and admin will look at all reports,does'nt mean that any action will be taken if theres no basis for the report though

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"i was getting lots of message off a male who wanted me to view him cam an chat to him, i clearly stated that we wanted a couple to cam with, he kept messaging me and because i didnt reply he said he has reported me, can he do this .."

No, don't worry about it. Admin will be able to see what he's written in chat history, they're not silly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not sure and even if he did im sure nothing will come of it...I mean what's his reasoning they wont cam!

Some people don't like rejection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would have said you were in your own right not to reply.

Maybe this way he is hoping that you'll contact him and he'll convince you to meet up with him.

Maybe add him to the block list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thanks, feel better now, was a bit worried xxx

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

No, don't worry about it. Admin will be able to see what he's written in chat history, they're not silly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"thanks, feel better now, was a bit worried xxx"
i have no one in my block list but if i had that he would be. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say block him too, but generally there's too much blocking on this site. I've made one decent friend on here as well as a Fb, but to me the time to block is when someone won't take no for an answer.

It takes a matter of seconds to send a reply saying "no thanks".

Just manners

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

It takes a matter of seconds to send a reply saying "no thanks".

Just manners "

So the whole "Sorry, we're looking for a COUPLE" isn't clear enough??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It takes a matter of seconds to send a reply saying "no thanks".

Just manners

So the whole "Sorry, we're looking for a COUPLE" isn't clear enough??"

Absolutely clear. If a profile clearly states a preference and someone chooses to ignore that preference they should consider themselves lucky not to get a response rather than something rude. If a profile states however a preference and someone takes the time to write a polite message, in my opinion it would be polite to say no thanks rather than just ignore if they aren't interested. But I'm sure there are plenty of people who will disagree.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if i was you just block him

or admin will once the reports are seen if he that he has reported you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just tell him again no thanks, he doesn't meet your criteria and then block him. Job done. Try not to worry about these kind of people, that's what the filters are there for. Good luck for the future here.

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By *quirrelMan over a year ago

East Manchester

Intimidation tactics, "do what i tell you or else" dont let him bother you just block and report him as an abusive contact.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thanks for the feedback everyone, i did tell him he want what i was looking for in a polite way, but i guess it wasnt enough for him, he is blocked now tho xx

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