I feel like I'm in the minority in that I don't like being watched having sex, I mean I'm not a lights off must be dark but in general I just don't like it, makes me slightly awkward and kinda like I'd have to put on a show which isn't natural for me. I'd love some professional pics done but there's no way I could get it on Infront of a photographer.
Is anyone else the same or does everyone like to be watched?
And those that don't how do you feel during 4+ moresomes?
Do you notice others watching or are they too busy?
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I thought I'd like being watched but it turned out I didn't when we tried it. It actually upset me.
Perversely I actually enjoy it if I can 'pretend' I don't know. Eg in a room at a club with a small window. |
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"I thought I'd like being watched but it turned out I didn't when we tried it. It actually upset me.
Perversely I actually enjoy it if I can 'pretend' I don't know. Eg in a room at a club with a small window. "
That actually could be worth a try, I've never been watched other than the Mr so would be a good way to see.
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I hate the idea of people just being around, watching.
Im ok with more people but as long as it's actively doing something together, it's just the thought of people sitting, staring.
Gives me the icky feeling, don't know why. |
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"I thought I'd like being watched but it turned out I didn't when we tried it. It actually upset me.
Perversely I actually enjoy it if I can 'pretend' I don't know. Eg in a room at a club with a small window.
That actually could be worth a try, I've never been watched other than the Mr so would be a good way to see.
Mrs "
The first time I tried it we were in the woods at Eureka with an audience of about 15/20 men. I had to tell one to back off when he got too close. Although I found it exciting I also felt upset by the wanking zombies which overrode any pleasure. On the same day we went to a private room where I was more than happy for a guy to peer through the window. |
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"I hate the idea of people just being around, watching.
Im ok with more people but as long as it's actively doing something together, it's just the thought of people sitting, staring.
Gives me the icky feeling, don't know why."
Yes this is me, it's the staring, I don't think it would bother me if others were getting it on too, but sat watching just makes me feel on edge.
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I've just replied on another thread about being watched so I'll put the same reply here  ...
I love to be watched, New Years Eve I was enjoying a FFFF and had 9 spectators enjoying watching. As if it wasn't horny and hot enough, the fact I was being watched by men and couples was the cherry on the cake.
On a side note, I didn't actually count how many were watching whilst I was playing as I was too busy and enjoying the moment, it would of been weird if I was there counting 1, 2,3...my husband told me afterwards.
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"I hate the idea of people just being around, watching.
Im ok with more people but as long as it's actively doing something together, it's just the thought of people sitting, staring.
Gives me the icky feeling, don't know why."
We're the same. In the middle of a big bed surrounded by the sights and sounds of others fucking is an incredibly sexy place to be. 'Putting on a show' in a room while people watch through a window or open door while they chat amongst themselves isn't for us. Maybe it will come in time and with more experience we'll be able to switch of that part of our brains, or maybe we don't have the exhibitionist gene. 
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We found being watched in a club open room quite thrilling. We were part of a group playing though which helped I suppose. I'm not too sure the thought of us playing alone with people watching is too enamouring but if it's part of a larger situation, why not?
The audience would also matter I think. Having a mixed audience would be more comfortable than a wall of wanking single lads...
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I don't mind being watched by others, as long as they are not able to come close or touch, unless of course it is part of a meet with a couple. But I can also get through the rest of my sex life without anyone else watching
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We don't enjoy being watched by single men, but love being watched by couples. Problem is we don't end up being watched for too long as mrs often reaches for his cock and they then join us |
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