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over a year ago
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Say hello. And say you'll be 'over there' if they want to come say hi. Gets their mind working and also an exit if they don't want to talk to you / are embarrassed. Also means you look much more confident with the situation than you probably are. |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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"Say hello. And say you'll be 'over there' if they want to come say hi. Gets their mind working and also an exit if they don't want to talk to you / are embarrassed. Also means you look much more confident with the situation than you probably are. "
Like it! *There* is a man who has definitely studied the situation. I'll pinch that one if you don't mind.
Wolf
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"Say hello. And say you'll be 'over there' if they want to come say hi. Gets their mind working and also an exit if they don't want to talk to you / are embarrassed. Also means you look much more confident with the situation than you probably are. "
Yep, spot on there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Say hello. And say you'll be 'over there' if they want to come say hi. Gets their mind working and also an exit if they don't want to talk to you / are embarrassed. Also means you look much more confident with the situation than you probably are.
Like it! *There* is a man who has definitely studied the situation. I'll pinch that one if you don't mind.
Wolf
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I have a brain. I'm not just a body!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if you're going to have trouble dealing with seeing them, let alone seeing them having sex with someone else, then I would have left the place. Who wants to put themselves through that?
Leave it for a while, meet someone else and go back when you've really moved on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would leave if I had feelings for them. Watching them playing with no involvement from you would be far too painful.
But if you think theres a chance of rekindling the relationship, stick around as suggested above.
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"ignore them, its not the place to start anything really.
I'm more thinking how to deal with how I feel rather than starting anything. "
Personally I have never been in this situation but I hope that I would be mature enough to smile politely, maybe say hello then carry on my evening. I wouldn't suggest talking or shagging as there are too many feelings at the surface.
I'd then perhaps message them a couple of days after saying how I felt. Although you stillhhave feelings for him it doesn't mean he has them fir you and I feel any attempt to speak to him on the night has the potential to escalate into nastiness, especially of he is there with someone else. |
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"Say hello. And say you'll be 'over there' if they want to come say hi. Gets their mind working and also an exit if they don't want to talk to you / are embarrassed. Also means you look much more confident with the situation than you probably are.
Yep, spot on there "
And then if he doesnt come over you will feel like Shit and it will have ruined your night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I did a little eyebrow up thing, said good evening as I walked past; head held high and carried on with my night ignoring him.
My life has moved on and I did not let him see any reaction from me.
I actually had a good night.
I made sure I did not look out for him and I did not play in an open room,
Truth be told it was very hard; but I am not one to air my laundry in public.
I found out weeks later, from a mutual friend. He was guted and left early; so I am glad I just got on with my night |
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