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Trusted BB partners (plural)
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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago
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On the back of a recent exchange of messages that I had with someone today and the 'condom/no condom' thread there seem to be a lot of people who have multiple trusted partners who they fuck bareback. If this is you... How many 'trusted' partners do you have? How did you build that trust? What are the rules? Do you synchronise testing? How frequently do you test?
Lots of questions but I hope you get the gist. I'm not judging anyone's choices here - just genuinely interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had 3 couples with an previous partner all tested the same week every 3 months. Only when every test was negative did we meet all men were bi some of the ladies were also bi. Then covid hit.
Although my present partner and I are bb we have not found suitable other couples. Tests as of yesterday clear for both. |
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Knowing the ‘honesty’ of many site users (not unique to this site), I struggle with the concept of a ‘trusted few’ to be honest.
The reality is if you go bare back with one you are potentially bare backing with everyone they’ve played with. I’m absolutely not judging anyone on choosing that option at all, but don’t kid yourself it’s an exclusive ‘trusted few’. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the back of a recent exchange of messages that I had with someone today and the 'condom/no condom' thread there seem to be a lot of people who have multiple trusted partners who they fuck bareback. If this is you... How many 'trusted' partners do you have? How did you build that trust? What are the rules? Do you synchronise testing? How frequently do you test?
Lots of questions but I hope you get the gist. I'm not judging anyone's choices here - just genuinely interested. "
I would never fuck with anyone if I had a doubt about something first of all |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I had 3 couples with an previous partner all tested the same week every 3 months. Only when every test was negative did we meet all men were bi some of the ladies were also bi. Then covid hit.
Although my present partner and I are bb we have not found suitable other couples. Tests as of yesterday clear for both. "
Thanks for sharing. Did you meet frequently? Sounds like a fair bit of coordination tho worth the effort  |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Knowing the ‘honesty’ of many site users (not unique to this site), I struggle with the concept of a ‘trusted few’ to be honest.
The reality is if you go bare back with one you are potentially bare backing with everyone they’ve played with. I’m absolutely not judging anyone on choosing that option at all, but don’t kid yourself it’s an exclusive ‘trusted few’."
I tend to share this view from my personal experience |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago
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"On the back of a recent exchange of messages that I had with someone today and the 'condom/no condom' thread there seem to be a lot of people who have multiple trusted partners who they fuck bareback. If this is you... How many 'trusted' partners do you have? How did you build that trust? What are the rules? Do you synchronise testing? How frequently do you test?
Lots of questions but I hope you get the gist. I'm not judging anyone's choices here - just genuinely interested.
I would never fuck with anyone if I had a doubt about something first of all "
Does that mean you spend a long time getting to know someone before meeting? Trust takes a long time to establish for me |
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I always have to build trust with someone I intend on meeting. You can never be too careful these days. On here, most people say they look for regular sex but in some people’s eyes, having 10 regulars may not be enough. On the subject of BB, I would only do it with someone I was dating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't have any but we do want to fulfil the double cream pie/DVP fantasy so if we ever meet a couple we build up enough trust with then we will play BB with them. |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"On the back of a recent exchange of messages that I had with someone today and the 'condom/no condom' thread there seem to be a lot of people who have multiple trusted partners who they fuck bareback. If this is you... How many 'trusted' partners do you have? How did you build that trust? What are the rules? Do you synchronise testing? How frequently do you test?
Lots of questions but I hope you get the gist. I'm not judging anyone's choices here - just genuinely interested.
I would never fuck with anyone if I had a doubt about something first of all
Does that mean you spend a long time getting to know someone before meeting? Trust takes a long time to establish for me"
No need to respond to this. Your DM to me suggests that what you say and what you do are completely different. This behaviour was exactly what prompted my starting this thread in the first place  |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I always have to build trust with someone I intend on meeting. You can never be too careful these days. On here, most people say they look for regular sex but in some people’s eyes, having 10 regulars may not be enough. On the subject of BB, I would only do it with someone I was dating. "
Yeah I am curious about those with a large group of 'regular and trusted' partners as surely they are fucking others and the pool then grows exponentially! |
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By *atKat-xoxWoman
over a year ago
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I'm in two relationships as I'm poly ,and my own partners have another partner aside me . We all test regularly, and keep within us 5. If things change we all have a good discussion. Trust for me comes with seeing proof of regularly testing .
It's naive for people to think just using condoms will stop STDs, oral transmission is so over looked to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had 3 couples with an previous partner all tested the same week every 3 months. Only when every test was negative did we meet all men were bi some of the ladies were also bi. Then covid hit.
Although my present partner and I are bb we have not found suitable other couples. Tests as of yesterday clear for both.
Thanks for sharing. Did you meet frequently? Sounds like a fair bit of coordination tho worth the effort "
Yes regular meet at a club every 2 weeks or so we trusted each other that they played safe in between time if they did play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the back of a recent exchange of messages that I had with someone today and the 'condom/no condom' thread there seem to be a lot of people who have multiple trusted partners who they fuck bareback. If this is you... How many 'trusted' partners do you have? How did you build that trust? What are the rules? Do you synchronise testing? How frequently do you test?
Lots of questions but I hope you get the gist. I'm not judging anyone's choices here - just genuinely interested.
I would never fuck with anyone if I had a doubt about something first of all
Does that mean you spend a long time getting to know someone before meeting? Trust takes a long time to establish for me"
For our group 18 months seeing each other at the club before we went bare. |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago
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"We don't have any but we do want to fulfil the double cream pie/DVP fantasy so if we ever meet a couple we build up enough trust with then we will play BB with them."
I can relate to this fantasy. I hope you are able to meet the right couple and make it a reality |
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By *utie bootyMan
over a year ago
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Had a trusted partner, thought we were exclusive. When I called it off due to logistics, she told me she had been seeing a few other guys. Got tested and I won a lottery I never knew I bought a ticket for.
Obvs all clear now  |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Can I just add OP what a fantastic profile. Obviously you look stunning with great pics but it’s a brilliant read also, really funny and nailed a lot of the stereotypes on here  "
Thanks hun - I appreciate it! |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm in two relationships as I'm poly ,and my own partners have another partner aside me . We all test regularly, and keep within us 5. If things change we all have a good discussion. Trust for me comes with seeing proof of regularly testing .
It's naive for people to think just using condoms will stop STDs, oral transmission is so over looked to "
This sounds like a great lifestyle  |
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"I always have to build trust with someone I intend on meeting. You can never be too careful these days. On here, most people say they look for regular sex but in some people’s eyes, having 10 regulars may not be enough. On the subject of BB, I would only do it with someone I was dating.
Yeah I am curious about those with a large group of 'regular and trusted' partners as surely they are fucking others and the pool then grows exponentially! "
The pool grows and so do the creepy crawlies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband had a gf earlier last year, after a few months, we all had the discussion of him going bb with her, she wasn't seeing anyone else, we all tested, all was clear so they cracked on, sadly they are no more.
Only ever safe with me, when I do meet men, don't get me wrong if ever I found myself in the position they were in, I too would like BB however, that is very far down the line you can't even see the line yet! |
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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Had a trusted partner, thought we were exclusive. When I called it off due to logistics, she told me she had been seeing a few other guys. Got tested and I won a lottery I never knew I bought a ticket for.
Obvs all clear now "
Aaaand there it is! Betrayal of trust. So glad you were left with nothing more than memories |
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"1 partner. Btw op you look stunning and do you bb, and how many trusted partners do you have x
Thank you. I have partners - but no trusted partners!"
Does a trusted partner involve sharing a Sky Go login? |
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