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By *awtee OP Man
over a year ago
Solihull |
So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?
But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!
Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx
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"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?
But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!
Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx
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By *awtee OP Man
over a year ago
Solihull |
"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?
But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!
Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx
Amen!!! "
I feel better now, was weighing me down |
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"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you
But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!
Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx
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Very funny mate |
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over a year ago
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" She’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!
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Women on here want more than that |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?
But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!
Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx
Amen!!! "
Amen too |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?
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Trouble is....for every woman and couple that moan about men not reading their profiles there's ten guys moaning that women and couples keep ignoring and deleting messages and blocking them without replying. 
It's a right nuisance. 
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"I've got an inbox of men moaning about how long my profile is and they are left confused and head fucked.
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I just actually read it and have to say, it is impressive.
Did you write all of it yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're right - the site is "male heavy". So there are two ways for men to score:
1. Put in the work. Put effort into their profiles, write something interesting, and above all, read the women's profiles and make a good pitch if there's a fit.
2. Spend 5 minutes on their profiles and scattergun loads of women on the off chance.
Quality wins over quantity. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
often said that we should stop moaning about men on here ive also often said we should stop giving advice to men too ..
just leave them be and then the brain filters work for themselves the ones i want to meet stand out the rest dont ..
the thing is with this scene is nobody owes anybody anything no matter what sex you are |
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Because when you get several messages with cock pics attached or with graphic content it gets annoying .
Same with wuu2 or hi babe
It takes a couple of mins to read a profile and see if you're what that persons looking for.If you can't take 2 mins to read my profile, you're not for me.
I know many don't read profiles by the amount of winks/messages I get from men miles away who smoke or have big beards .I use quite a few filters too to reduce the mail I get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the problem here is easily resolved by Fab to be honest.
Give us some more comprehensive filters we've been asking for this elsewhere on the forum for ages. This would mean that fewer, but much more relevant search results would transpire, saving everyone time. |
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One of my friends uploaded a pic,She handed me her phone so I could see her inbox blow up with hundred of messages.
Mainly dick pics or Wnt 2 fck etc etc
Them males ruin it for normal men on here. |
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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
Most people here are not swingers or all that fab !! but get an ego boost and love the attention,
Going to a club or social is the way to meet people .. sending messages that get ignored is a fools errand .... |
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"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?
But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!
Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx
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TL;DR
You're right, everyone should read the damn profile before they send a random message. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I think the problem here is easily resolved by Fab to be honest.
Give us some more comprehensive filters we've been asking for this elsewhere on the forum for ages. This would mean that fewer, but much more relevant search results would transpire, saving everyone time."
Filters are only as effective as the data used in them though.
How many use incorrect ages, sexualities, heights, body shapes, locations and interest's ?
Filters are useful, don't get me wrong. But detailed info in profile text and clear photos are much better tools to establish interest and attraction. Assuming someone looks at yours and has their own of course.
That and decent messages, conversations, clubs, socials......
The site gives tools. But not all the tools you need and nor can it ever.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a pain when you never normally get messages at all, and the only ones you DO get are from guys who clearly haven't read your profile or ignored anything you said in it. Nothing like getting excited at actually having something in your inbox (not like that ya perverts...) only to find out its a waste of time. |
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