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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms "
I've done that, you don't need to say anything if you don't want to, it's your life, you're here for fun/meets, enjoy  |
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As far as I'm concerned you only confess something you've done that's wrong and you won't be.
Personally I'd sooner not know if the person I was meeting had another meet arranged for later so I'm saying don't mention it. |
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms "
I wouldn’t tell them, it’s private to you, none of their business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is about you.
If you derive pleasure from telling them then do so and let them deal with it.
Perhaps you’d get more pleasure from the secret though, something like an illicit affair scenario. |
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By *lackroses85Woman
over a year ago
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I've had meets within hours of each other, I didn't tell them. Would they tell you? probably not.
I also had a meet with a guy I'd met before who was spontaneously in the area an hour after another meet, I told him and he wasn't put off but was turned on x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op you do what you think is right, don't listen to the conscience of others on the forums, listen to what yours says, and act accordingly to that, although saying that...I am inclined to agree that they would more than likely not tell you, but that's by the way, |
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"I've had meets within hours of each other, I didn't tell them. Would they tell you? probably not.
I also had a meet with a guy I'd met before who was spontaneously in the area an hour after another meet, I told him and he wasn't put off but was turned on x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Horses for courses but I get off hugely from knowing that I'm going after someone else, brings out my competitive spirit. If it was safe going in straight after a massive load has been shot is something else completely  |
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms "
It depends a bit on the nature of the conversations you've had perhaps but I'd be inclined to tell the second one. Maybe he he is turned on, maybe he doesn't mind but think he has the right to know and make his own choice.
Using condoms is fine but that doesn't stop all potential STI's which might be a concern. I've had this a few years back when arranged to meet and couple of hours before she tells me might be slightly late as ended up meeting somebody else. I'd already made plans so thought fine still go ahead although wasn't impressed. She turned up tired and not in energetic mood. After some kissing and foreplay she then said she didn't' mind bareback (no mention of that before) and told me she had done earlier. That was the end of that. It is up to her of course but if she had said before I wouldn't have met.
Not saying you will do any of that OP but think fair to tell man number 2. Wouldn't worry about man number 1.
I see some have said well the man in a similar situation wouldn't say anything. Well two wrongs don't make a a right and all that but doubt that many men manage to arrange two meets in one day with a lady outside a club or party. I certainly would never do as wouldn't be in tip top form after first session. Maybe that is TMI 
Also think if a man came on here asking the same question the replies might be slightly different..... |
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms
It depends a bit on the nature of the conversations you've had perhaps but I'd be inclined to tell the second one. Maybe he he is turned on, maybe he doesn't mind but think he has the right to know and make his own choice.
Using condoms is fine but that doesn't stop all potential STI's which might be a concern. I've had this a few years back when arranged to meet and couple of hours before she tells me might be slightly late as ended up meeting somebody else. I'd already made plans so thought fine still go ahead although wasn't impressed. She turned up tired and not in energetic mood. After some kissing and foreplay she then said she didn't' mind bareback (no mention of that before) and told me she had done earlier. That was the end of that. It is up to her of course but if she had said before I wouldn't have met.
Not saying you will do any of that OP but think fair to tell man number 2. Wouldn't worry about man number 1.
I see some have said well the man in a similar situation wouldn't say anything. Well two wrongs don't make a a right and all that but doubt that many men manage to arrange two meets in one day with a lady outside a club or party. I certainly would never do as wouldn't be in tip top form after first session. Maybe that is TMI
Also think if a man came on here asking the same question the replies might be slightly different....."
Yea if a bloke no one would care but women it's different, we a judged |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms
It depends a bit on the nature of the conversations you've had perhaps but I'd be inclined to tell the second one. Maybe he he is turned on, maybe he doesn't mind but think he has the right to know and make his own choice.
Using condoms is fine but that doesn't stop all potential STI's which might be a concern. I've had this a few years back when arranged to meet and couple of hours before she tells me might be slightly late as ended up meeting somebody else. I'd already made plans so thought fine still go ahead although wasn't impressed. She turned up tired and not in energetic mood. After some kissing and foreplay she then said she didn't' mind bareback (no mention of that before) and told me she had done earlier. That was the end of that. It is up to her of course but if she had said before I wouldn't have met.
Not saying you will do any of that OP but think fair to tell man number 2. Wouldn't worry about man number 1.
I see some have said well the man in a similar situation wouldn't say anything. Well two wrongs don't make a a right and all that but doubt that many men manage to arrange two meets in one day with a lady outside a club or party. I certainly would never do as wouldn't be in tip top form after first session. Maybe that is TMI
Also think if a man came on here asking the same question the replies might be slightly different.....
Yea if a bloke no one would care but women it's different, we a judged "
Op, just do you, you don't have to justify anything to anybody....my mind with those goes to...
" Those that matter don't mind, those that mind don't matter" |
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Nothing wrong with what you're doing. You don't need to explain anything to anyone.
I had 2 meets in one day before and received verifications from both... neither one of them said anything to be about being annoyed by it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms "
Go have fun
I'm sure the blokes wouldn't confess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had that and told them both, they loved the idea but it’s completely up to you wether you do or not, it’s your life and body to do with whatever you like
Hope you have an absolutely amazing day op |
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms
It depends a bit on the nature of the conversations you've had perhaps but I'd be inclined to tell the second one. Maybe he he is turned on, maybe he doesn't mind but think he has the right to know and make his own choice.
Using condoms is fine but that doesn't stop all potential STI's which might be a concern. I've had this a few years back when arranged to meet and couple of hours before she tells me might be slightly late as ended up meeting somebody else. I'd already made plans so thought fine still go ahead although wasn't impressed. She turned up tired and not in energetic mood. After some kissing and foreplay she then said she didn't' mind bareback (no mention of that before) and told me she had done earlier. That was the end of that. It is up to her of course but if she had said before I wouldn't have met.
Not saying you will do any of that OP but think fair to tell man number 2. Wouldn't worry about man number 1.
I see some have said well the man in a similar situation wouldn't say anything. Well two wrongs don't make a a right and all that but doubt that many men manage to arrange two meets in one day with a lady outside a club or party. I certainly would never do as wouldn't be in tip top form after first session. Maybe that is TMI
Also think if a man came on here asking the same question the replies might be slightly different.....
Yea if a bloke no one would care but women it's different, we a judged "
Well I wasn't judging. If anything men are judged and criticised a lot more but that's not really the point - I wasn't saying it is wrong to have two meets in day - far from it. Just saying might be polite to let the second person know and let them decide. OP obviously has doubts or wouldn't be asking the question and using the word confess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms "
Last week I met 3 guys and a couple within 18 hours  |
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms
Last week I met 3 guys and a couple within 18 hours "
Lucky guys and nothing to be embarrassed about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If we play with 2 or 3 different couples at different times on a club night they don't ask and we don't tell, it's no different for private meets, enjoy! |
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms "
I wouldn't call it confessing as you wouldn't be doing anything wrong, but the evening guy might find it a bit of a turn-on to know that you'd been with someone else earlier in the day. Providing everyone was safe, I don't think I'd mind! |
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms "
Don’t say anything just have a wild time I would |
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"So been offered two meets next week
1 day time and 1 evening
Do I tell the blokes about each other? Do I confess all? Or just have fun with both blokes?
FYI I use condoms "
If someone I was meeting told me I’d have no problem with it, it’s a swingers site after all not find me a wife |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isn't that what fab is about, no strings? So no confessions, no explanations, doing what you want to do between consenting adults?
As long as you safe and having fun enjoy yourself. |
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