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What word makes you cringe?
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over a year ago
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You’re going along looking at profiles or reading messages, all seems fine until you come across a word or phrase that makes you shudder, and not in a good way?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bull ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“Yous”
We’s outta here sharpish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“Yous”
We’s outta here sharpish. "
Oh yes!! Especially if we’re asked “How are use?” |
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"“Yous”
We’s outta here sharpish. "
Have to agree.
I don’t understand the text speak fad. |
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Chillax......makes me roll my eyes every time  |
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Self described "Alpha" men.
If they need to go around telling the world how "Macho" they are, then I suspect they probably have some deep rooted insecurities... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anybody who puts ‘mmmmmmmm’ |
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Most of text talk makes me cringe |
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What!!!!!! No MOIST!? i love it but i know others hate it!
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Willy.Just typing it was painful!
Mike |
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"Willy.Just typing it was painful!
Mike"
Yes, everyone knows it’s Tinkle pot. |
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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago
central scotland |
Simples I f*****g hate that non word. |
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I think the worst thing I've read in a while came in a message the other day.
"Mmmm i want to cream pie you mummy"
Genuinely threw up a little in my mouth at that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the worst thing I've read in a while came in a message the other day.
"Mmmm i want to cream pie you mummy"
Genuinely threw up a little in my mouth at that."
Ok I did too and reading that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hung. Hung up by the feet? Or by their dangly bits? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hung. Hung up by the feet? Or by their dangly bits? "
Yeah. I believe them though, the sky remote doesn’t lie  |
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Vulgar words for any activity or the liquids produced by it. |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
The dot in the i |
Female
Makes my skin crawl |
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Every time someone spells can’t as “Carnt” makes a little piece of me die inside |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any text speak or shortened works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Moist |
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BBC it’s objectifying and I hate it |
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"BBC it’s objectifying and I hate it "
But what if, like me, you are blessed with one?
Cue someone saying they don't like the expression "Blessed"!
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"Anybody who puts ‘mmmmmmmm’"
Yes, that's a good way to get on my block list.
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"Pacificaly" is another one I specifically detest! |
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Moist,crevice, you need to be a Blackadder fan to understand "both filthy words Baldrick" |
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Banter. Bants. Bruh.
And anything that's overused like, like etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slut, where’s the self respect? |
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Panties ,titties ewww
Use of names like baby/Hun
I don't bite unless asked
Heavy cummer . |
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"You’re going along looking at profiles or reading messages, all seems fine until you come across a word or phrase that makes you shudder, and not in a good way?
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Pussy |
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By *anasGodMan
over a year ago
everywhere |
It’s all Greek to me!
Couse I am 
But let’s be optimistic what word you love then?or turns you on?if you have words that put you off surely you have something to turn you on?!
Or it can be better silence??The unknown is sexy. |
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Moist
Or any names like baby, hun or whatever from complete randoms x |
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"Slut, where’s the self respect?"
I fully respect the fact that I'm a slut  |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Select, exceptional.
Don't know why |
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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago
Welwyn garden city |
Heavy cummer. Makes us feel a little queasy |
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Yep, just did a bit of sick in mouth at that one!!! Who thought “yeah that will definitely turn her on”? |
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Fun, I just can’t stand it, especially when omnipresent:
“Fun guy looking for fun women to have fun”
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When someone uses the word “woke” as a derogatory term |
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Use of the word cunt in a sexual context. No problem with the word as general profanity just when use in a sexual context it kind of gives us both the ick. |
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Moist ahhhhhhh there’s always another word that you can use ! |
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Considering that it is the cliché of descriptive porn, it is surprising we don't see "glistening purple" cropping up in profile offerings. |
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"Fun, I just can’t stand it, especially when omnipresent:
“Fun guy looking for fun women to have fun”
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Watch out for fungi. There can be a lot of them about the nether regions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexual references don't bother me, racist terms do. The P word makes me shudder as it really has become a derogatory term.
I'm not a super sensitive person looking to be offended, but terms like that don't belong in conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sam smith |
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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago
swansea |
Ick. Also Been here before so I know how it works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Moist ahhhhhhh there’s always another word that you can use ! "
Damp???
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will you be my mummy, my auntie, my big sis, etc,
er, no, absolutely not.
Bull, breed, smash, ruin,
no thankyou.
Slut, whore, piggy, mare, bitch... just go away.
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Naughty
Fun (especially in username, they never are lol) |
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I've got thick skin it's only really "panties" and anything twenty past four that puts me off. |
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"Moist ahhhhhhh there’s always another word that you can use !
Damp???
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Got to be better than dry! |
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"Moist ahhhhhhh there’s always another word that you can use !
Damp???
Got to be better than dry!"
Dewy? |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
west midlands |
"will you be my mummy, my auntie, my big sis, etc,
er, no, absolutely not.
Bull, breed, smash, ruin,
no thankyou.
Slut, whore, piggy, mare, bitch... just go away.
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Yep I think this just about covers it for me! |
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"Moist ahhhhhhh there’s always another word that you can use !
Damp???
Got to be better than dry!
Dewy? "
Ideal for that horny, bespectacled librarienne of yesteryear, when the books were all catalogued decimally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any thing about demanding honourifics ...but specifically Daddy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’re going along looking at profiles or reading messages, all seems fine until you come across a word or phrase that makes you shudder, and not in a good way?
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Bants or banter. |
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Dewy?
Ideal for that horny, bespectacled librarienne of yesteryear, when the books were all catalogued decimally."
I bet you are all too young to understand that reference (Dewey). What was a library? I hear you ask.
None of you had a quickie in a musty book store room? |
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Gloryhole ….
That used to be the cupboard / shed where your old uncle stored all his junk , I’m sure there’s lots of people of a certain vintage use it in that context ..
If you want to suck someone’s unwashed knob through a hole in the wall find a new name for it ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guilty, always makes me cringe |
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The word Lady makes me cringe.
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By *JDDCouple
over a year ago
stoke on trent |
'we are a professional couple' we hate aren't we all professional in something what we do in our life?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The word Lady makes me cringe.
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Oooops  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Daddy and Mummy here that makes me cringe |
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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago
Redhill |
"I don't bite, unless you want me to" Makes me instantly imagine a grim character from a stereotypical 70s sitcom...  |
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"Moist ahhhhhhh there’s always another word that you can use !
Damp???
Got to be better than dry!"
Wet is good |
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I'm with some others in not really liking "yous" (or worse, "use" in that sense). Its use (I see what I did there) is ubiquitous here in Scotland, though, so I'm more or less forced to get used to it.
I'm also a bit conflicted on it, since English really could use a plural form of "you" for occasional disambiguation purposes. Right now it looks like "yous" is creeping up to eventually fill that linguistic gap. Welcome to yous's future, all of yous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clunge as in 'knee deep in Clunge ' |
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Yes when someone message me and talk about my skin tone or about never had a black women before and they want to see what it’s like , pure cringe |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Panties. Or if someone puts mmmmmmmmmm in their profile, my vagina closes shop. |
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any word when people put a K on the end instead of the correct letter G. Ie anythinK instead of anythinG |
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we don't like any female being called SLUT - horrible word |
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please) |
Hung (when they're not!)
"Lad" when they are 37...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’re going along looking at profiles or reading messages, all seems fine until you come across a word or phrase that makes you shudder, and not in a good way?
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'Like to get to know someone before meeting'
= Wants to talk on the phone for ages.
Avoid like the plague. |
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Quality over quantity (bullshit)
They just don't want to type "well, any holes a goal" |
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"Will fill in later" and they have been on the site for years. |
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By *stoppMan
over a year ago
Durham |
Twat, always hated it luckily I don’t hear it so much these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spunk. No one should use this word. |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
Hinckley |
Haha. Love this thread. Sticks and stones may brake your bones. But names will never hurt you. People will be who they are, that’s a fact of life. Grammar is lost on most, but come on. It’s so so funny. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anybody who puts ‘mmmmmmmm’"
Even when describing pumpkin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've come across a new one in the last few days...
"Elite shaggers" |
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"I've come across a new one in the last few days...
"Elite shaggers" "
Hate the words shag shaggers
Elite don't make it any better
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Does spelt dose
Have written as of.
Women when they mean woman (singular)
Panties |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've come across a new one in the last few days...
"Elite shaggers"
Hate the words shag shaggers
Elite don't make it any better
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Espically when it comes from a complete c£%t bubble |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spunk. No one should use this word. "
Still think its better than jizz or baby gravy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I see 'panties'  |
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Hunny, and lick your pussy it never sounds nice does it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spunk. No one should use this word.
Still think its better than jizz or baby gravy "
Baby batter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mummy and Daddy role play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything that suggests licking me for hours or licking me out |
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Professional (as a reason for zero pics)
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“Completion” |
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Gurtlush. I really cant stand thatvworh. Or Gervaise as in Ricky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alpha. "
“Alpha bull” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dom |
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Professional couple wtf does that even mean |
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"Professional couple wtf does that even mean"
You beat me to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The King and Queen thing gets me, as in my king/queen.
Bit of a danger of disappearing up your own fundament there I think |
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"Professional couple wtf does that even mean"
Probably means they want paying for it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Daddy, cumslut and the perennial “no single guys” |
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By *awteeMan
over a year ago
Solihull |
Creampie, I like pies, and I like cream, but together  |
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Any indicative words of the moronic nature of youth these days.
In particular the fact that using actual full words is too much effort for them.
The peak of that was definitely Platty Joobs. But recently heard cozzy livvs. All equally depressing |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"Vulgar words for any activity or the liquids produced by it."
Well said Frank |
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By *imbo59seMan
over a year ago
North Norfolk area |
Welsh.....or Scots
And particularly..... Irish...at the moment!
(runs for cover)
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By *imbo59seMan
over a year ago
North Norfolk area |
"'we are a professional couple' we hate aren't we all professional in something what we do in our life?? "
Only if you are qualified and earn a living through it! |
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"Professional couple wtf does that even mean"
It means that they don't want to meet couples who don't want to meet professional couples.
Are you suggesting that they should want to meet people who don't want to meet them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tallywhacker
Lol. It makes me laugh more than anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cum slut irritates the me or being asked if I want to be someone’s slut. Makes me want to do a little sick in my mouth!!
Ohh and call me Daddy…. Na i’m ok thanks!
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
Anybody that uses daddy in a sexual term. |
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"I think the worst thing I've read in a while came in a message the other day.
"Mmmm i want to cream pie you mummy"
Genuinely threw up a little in my mouth at that."
That really is pretty bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Minge!
YUCK  |
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"do you like BBC" as the first message. Nothing else, just that .
"Bull" - you're a man and you have a dick. What's all this "bull"shit about?
Ass. It's ARSE.
"mmmmmmmm" I hate guys writing "mmmmmmm" at the end of their sentence. It's so cringey.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey |
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"You’re going along looking at profiles or reading messages, all seems fine until you come across a word or phrase that makes you shudder, and not in a good way?
Moist
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VWE
means I have to leave in shame |
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By *lowDriverMan
over a year ago
Constant Bewilderment |
Omg this is the first thread where I’ve read every post!
I’m so touchy when it comes to this kind of thing...all the words I hate are here...I’ve almost had a meltdown getting this far...I keep telling myself I need to get over it!
Hun, yous and mmmmmm are top of the list...and yes! It’s ARSE not ass!
I need a lie down now to recover ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Daddy |
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
Deep in the New Forest |
420 or snow.... Each to their own but not for me |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slut, where’s the self respect?"
What's wrong with being called a slut? The literal definition is someone who enjoys casual sex. It's only social convention that defines it as something derogatory. Isn't this site about people wanting casual sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of text talk makes me cringe"
Don’t understand text talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Text talk really makes us cringe! Apart from that we’re quite easy going. The Master/S stuff isn’t for us and any mention of that tends to put us off reaching out but we don’t judge anyone for anything on here |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
QoS
panties
mmmmmm
hun
babe
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Ick
“Oh that gives me the ick”
Horny (used in certain contexts, it inverts my sausage)
“Englebert, that’s so horny”
Text speak in general. |
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By *azza72Man
over a year ago
Leeds |
Not one word but “virtue signalling” really gets my goat and is probably mostly used by folk who wouldn’t have had a clue what it meant five years ago |
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“Lol” when it’s used as punctuation:
Went to the shop lol and bought a Mars bar lol I think I’ll eat it lol.
Are you really laughing out loud or are you just too thick to end a sentence properly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Destroy. As in I'm going to destroy you!! What does that even mean |
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"“Lol” when it’s used as punctuation:
Went to the shop lol and bought a Mars bar lol I think I’ll eat it lol.
Are you really laughing out loud or are you just too thick to end a sentence properly? "
I've always assumed it to be a form of nervous laugh, or a moronic one. |
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"Yes see also, “gaslighting” "
I agree
Shit word |
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By *IKA26Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
Panties…seems to be the most disliked, now knickers sounds so sexy, who agrees..? |
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By *azza72Man
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Yes see also, “gaslighting” "
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By *jl1972Man
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
"So"
Usually used at the beginning of a sentence when introducing themselves. |
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Tehehe or similar used as a form of laughter at the end of each sentence. |
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"I hate gusset. "
Me too and fanny |
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Just wondering whether the 'moist' abhorers don't scan the thread for previous posts or are all rallying to give strength to the anti moisture movement! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps it can't be classed as one word as such, more of a phrase if you like, but hopefully they'll be a few others on here that agree with us when we say that the "i won't bite unless you want me too" cliche just grinds on you, so over used and predictable!
Also, another word that makes us cringe is "bull" which again is so flogged to death by many guys on here? We get lots of messages with the usual "do you want a bull" line, so we reply with "thanks for the offer, but we've got plenty of bulls in the fields that back onto our garden" so needless to say, they don't message us again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Moist ahhhhhhh there’s always another word that you can use !
Damp???
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Wet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Destroy. As in I'm going to destroy you!! What does that even mean "
This and wreck or ruin !!!!! |
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I'm looking for a lady with a moist clunge to destroy.
I am professional and I will always bite without being asked to.
Do you think I will get any messages? |
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"I'm looking for a lady with a moist clunge to destroy.
I am professional and I will always bite without being asked to.
Do you think I will get any messages?"
Not now you won’t |
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