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I know others have done this 100s of times but we are a little lost at what to do next.
We are both easy in the eye, the wife especially , we have had a few meets and been to a lot of parties but when we try to arrange meets we get nowhere. We don't know if its the region we live in or something else, but it's sooooo hard to arrange anything.
If anyone has advice on our profile or what we can do please next feel free to comment.
Many thanks.
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over a year ago
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"I know others have done this 100s of times but we are a little lost at what to do next.
We are both easy in the eye, the wife especially , we have had a few meets and been to a lot of parties but when we try to arrange meets we get nowhere. We don't know if its the region we live in or something else, but it's sooooo hard to arrange anything.
If anyone has advice on our profile or what we can do please next feel free to comment.
Many thanks.
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your not doing to bad by the look of it, you only had a meet on new years day, id just say keep at it  |
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the no kissing between guys n gals will put some folk off, respect thats your choice..
your verifications seem to be of the social kind, all positive etc..
have you contacted those guys with a view to moving things forward perhaps..? |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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your not doing to bad by the look of it, you only had a meet on new years day, id just say keep at it "
Definitely. Stick with it and keep up the good work, and concentrate the efforts on yourselves rather than what others are up to, or what others think. Remember that desperation is a bit of a turnoff, so play it cool and take whatever, whenever it comes up  
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your not doing to bad by the look of it, you only had a meet on new years day, id just say keep at it
Definitely. Stick with it and keep up the good work, and concentrate the efforts on yourselves rather than what others are up to, or what others think. Remember that desperation is a bit of a turnoff, so play it cool and take whatever, whenever it comes up
Wolf
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Try adding at least one body shot of the Mr on your public profile. I really can't see why so many show just the female when you are a couple. I like to browse the public profile before approaching. And when you state that you want couples who are easy on the eye - perhaps that is best judged when you see their pics, as people may feel a bit under confident responding with that as a selection criteria... |
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I can't really see what you're both moaning about. Most people would be happy with that number of veris.
A pic of the guy would be good, and some less gynecological pics of the lady also. |
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If you have so many people at clubs and got eht positive veris you have, and you have been to parties - why not hist a party if you can? Invite the couples you have already met so there is a good number there and then see how that goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know others have done this 100s of times but we are a little lost at what to do next.
We are both easy in the eye, the wife especially , we have had a few meets and been to a lot of parties but when we try to arrange meets we get nowhere. We don't know if its the region we live in or something else, but it's sooooo hard to arrange anything.
If anyone has advice on our profile or what we can do please next feel free to comment.
Many thanks.
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For some reason I knew as soon as I saw you that were a 'no coloureds' profile - its no problem at all to me but funny how the old intuition never fails ...
As far as your profile goes, it seems a little negative and frustrated which is obviously how you feel.
Just try to phrase it a but more softly ...
I'm far from an expert though |
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over a year ago
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The no M/F kissing and no non white will limit interest from quite a few couples.
Also, having no male pics isn't a good idea if your wanting to meet couples even if the woman is bi.
But worst of all.......that last pic is just a tad too low in the frame!  
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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i can see things that would put people off... that and jan/feb is always a slow time for swinging as well....
micromanaging a meet down to no kissing does absolutely nothing for me.... |
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over a year ago
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There was a thread on here recently about kissing and the overwhelming majority of people were of the opinion that it was an essential part of a meet. I suspect that that could be a big stumbling block to meets. the fact that you state kissing is for your partner but then contradict that with saying that you'll kiss girl in girl gives a mixed signal that is to us at least best avoided.
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"The no M/F kissing and no non white will limit interest from quite a few couples.
Also, having no male pics isn't a good idea if your wanting to meet couples even if the woman is bi.
But worst of all.......that last pic is just a tad too low in the frame!
XXXX"
Exactly the points I was going to make...aside from the last one!
No kissing, but full swap would not interest me in the slightest as kissing is a big part of foreplay for me, and I'd have to consciously think not to kiss whilst fucking so my mind wouldn't be on having fun.
Also, if I'm playing with both parties of a couple, I want to see both parties, not just some lady bits! |
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Okay peeps made a few changes.
Male pictures now on public viewing so you can see both of us but faces are for friends only.
Sorry but the kissing issue is how it is , we can understand the views of many but it just doesn't seem comfortable with us, yeah yeah I know but oral etc is okay but we want to leave kissing to ourselves.
It's just the same as some dont do anal or bareback or this or that, just something we feel that is important to us.
Thanks for the advice it's been constructive and taken on board. |
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I know others have done this 100s of times but we are a little lost at what to do next.
We are both easy in the eye, the wife especially , we have had a few meets and been to a lot of parties but when we try to arrange meets we get nowhere. We don't know if its the region we live in or something else, but it's sooooo hard to arrange anything.
If anyone has advice on our profile or what we can do please next feel free to comment.
Many thanks.
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Chin up. You're not doing too badly. We are all prisoners to our preferences. That can't be helped, and you've got some tricky ones. E.g. the no kissing thing. Most people like to do it.
Also, it could have been worse. Ask the overwhelming number of single guys that are struggling more than you are |
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over a year ago
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Dont get full swappers that dont kiss. Why? You will lick a pussy and suck a cock but not share a kiss? Very rare in my experience. That would rule us out for sure if we initially looked.
Just saying.
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont get full swappers that dont kiss. Why? You will lick a pussy and suck a cock but not share a kiss? Very rare in my experience. That would rule us out for sure if we initially looked.
Just saying.
Good luck
A x "
i personally dontfind this that weird. when i used to swing with guys i had a strict no kissing rule. now i only go with girls its not an issue, but i think kissing is the most intimate thing you can do more so than lick pussy or suck cock, so i dont blame girls who dont wanna go kissing every tom dick and harry tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As has been said you are not doing too badly judging by your veris.
Stick with it!
By the way Blonde has a delightful fajiner."
Love the way you spell vagina lol |
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