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When did you start?

By *rbigt1000 OP Man over a year ago

wilts

What age did everyone start getting into swinging? I feel like I was thrusted into the deep end at quite a young age and to be honest it was one of the best decisions I made!

I’d love to hear stories of everyone’s first experience too!

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By *inky_CarpenterMan over a year ago

Portsmouth

20. Seduced by a client (much older bi cuckold couple). I was her live in lover for about a year. Never looked back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the last 3 years or so for me, so 30.

I discovered bdsm pretty early so that took my interest

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

I was 52 when i joined here with no prior experience of anything similar but then again I don't call myself a swinger.

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By *rbigt1000 OP Man over a year ago

wilts

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By *rbigt1000 OP Man over a year ago

wilts

"20. Seduced by a client (much older bi cuckold couple). I was her live in lover for about a year. Never looked back

Sounds like we need a story time for this one

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By *rbigt1000 OP Man over a year ago

wilts

"In the last 3 years or so for me, so 30.

I discovered bdsm pretty early so that took my interest "

How did you find it? I’ve always had a bit of an interest but I’ve never been with someone who’s experienced in it

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By *randMrs397Couple over a year ago

durham

About 18 month ago. Best thing we ever did

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By *onnie 90Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I'm 32 now and I've been into swinging for near on 6 years I guess.

I believe I made a wise choice.

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By *en_Dover79Man over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

37 and wish I had done it years ago.. more fulfilment from this than getting bladdered in the pubs every weekend

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Below 20 it was something we enjoyed the experience of as group of friends was something different

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By *lthomasMan over a year ago

Wolverhampton

23 when i started. it was still the 1980's then.

Dip in and out over time, but always seem to find my way back. Really have the been there done that Tee shirt, but now, less experimental and know what i like.

Also no pressure to "drop everything" for a meet. It either happens or it doesn't. No drama

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By *eaSlutsCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

Only just over a year ago so we were both 30 at the time

C&A x

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

15 years ago lol

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By *uminsiderMKMan over a year ago

St Austell

In my early 30's, pre-internet days, when I occasionally used phone chatlines to get what were usually spontaneous late night/early hours meets...

....one night, a woman invited me to visit her the following evening - and only after we'd made the arrangements told me she was married, and asked if her husband could watch...

....full account posted here: https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1067833

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

3 years ago for me

Cj started before that with other people

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man over a year ago

Stourbridge

I was 48

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was 17.. answered ad in contact mag.. couple in their 40s.. put me at my ease and had a wonderful time.. met them many times.. what an introduction

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Mid fifties here.

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By *holelotofrosieCouple over a year ago

newtown

Only a couple of years ago .Ac suggested if while we were on holiday … had worse surprises

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By *ungfunfellaMan over a year ago

Lincoln

I got into this from a gf who told me she was a swinger on first date “to be honest from start” she got me on here n introduced me to everything and I’ve never looked back

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By *helamontsCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

Would be 36 for me and 30 for the Mrs.

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan over a year ago

Newcastle

"What age did everyone start getting into swinging? I feel like I was thrusted into the deep end at quite a young age and to be honest it was one of the best decisions I made!

I’d love to hear stories of everyone’s first experience too!"

I was signposted to here at 19 years old. Lol. I was chatting to someone on another site AFF and they suggested here was better, friendlier, and had more local connections. She wasn’t wrong. This site has taught me so much taking me away from being a bit of a prick as a young lad to just an occasional prick as an adult.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I was 16 I started with a friend and their partner who later got my next bf involved

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"What age did everyone start getting into swinging? I feel like I was thrusted into the deep end at quite a young age and to be honest it was one of the best decisions I made!

I’d love to hear stories of everyone’s first experience too!"

I can't call myself swinger if im honest...

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By *essaMayWoman over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

2002 ish with my ex, he wanted to spice up our sex life, so he said

. At the time was a one way street, but then i was seduced by a lovely lady one meeting, discovered something about myself I'd never considered

. Met my current partner so all turned out well

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By *elaxing2Couple over a year ago

Manchester

I was 19 and hubby was 26 not looked back since xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not a swinger either

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By *tsJustKateWoman over a year ago

London

I was about 30 with my hubby and his best mate. Probably a couple of years after that we started looking for guys online to meet. Initially with hubby in attendance but never joining in. For the last few years Ive gone solo as he's not interested any more. He's not even aware I have this newish account.

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By *orphia2003Woman over a year ago

Tonypandy.

8 months ago when I joined fab.

Been in BDSM scene for years, but never mixed it with swinging.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan over a year ago

Portsmouth

"20. Seduced by a client (much older bi cuckold couple). I was her live in lover for about a year. Never looked back

Sounds like we need a story time for this one"

I have written about it in the stories section if you really want the sordid details

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple over a year ago

Rushden

Last year, wish we'd started sooner

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By *rumcouple2013Couple over a year ago

Tamworth

Has our user name suggests in 2013. In our mid 40s. Been a very up and down experience so far. Finding it more frustrating now we are both getting older with limited boundaries.

Even thinking of calling it a day

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan over a year ago

Little clacton

Around 10yrs ago

Met a couple walking down the street on a pub crawl around London.Think was in Camden.

The woman opened up her coat and only had lingerie on.

They was into strangers touching her etc no sex.

Then they told me about the site.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple over a year ago

Preston

"20. Seduced by a client (much older bi cuckold couple). I was her live in lover for about a year. Never looked back

Now that is a start

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By *inky_CarpenterMan over a year ago

Portsmouth

"20. Seduced by a client (much older bi cuckold couple). I was her live in lover for about a year. Never looked back

Sounds like we need a story time for this one

I have written about it in the stories section if you really want the sordid details

Wow, wasn't expecting that response

for all of you asking, the story is called "From Boy to Bull a Journey"

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By *ddfellowMan over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

Had my first MMF at 19, but id been meeting guys and had 3 somes with them for a few years before that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

20 years ago

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By *reengrass1412Man over a year ago

burton upon trent

Not sure exactly when, but it was mid 90’s, purely by accident, it was lat summer early autumn in a car park near Groby, early evening but dark, pulled in the car park to have a brew on my way home, it was empty, so I parked up in the dark poured a brew out out my flask, was quiet happy sitting there by myself, when a car pulled in and parked by the side of me, I thought are you having a laugh, all the chuffing car park and you have to park right next to me, then the interior light came on and there was a woman sucking a guy off in the back, at first I thought it was some kind of set up, I nearly drove off, but I started to get a tingling in me manly bits and I stayed a little longer, curiosity got the better of me and I got out to have a better look, the driver got out so I made a hasty retreat back into my van but he said something on the lines of “did I like what I saw” the answer was obviously yes, so I ended up playing with her as well, it turned out it was the drivers wife and his mate in the back, never been able to go by a car park without calling in since lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been around the scene since 2010 but I don't actually think I'm a swinger.

If I am then I'm a terrible one lol

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By *r_PinkMan over a year ago

london stratford

"I've been around the scene since 2010 but I don't actually think I'm a swinger.

If I am then I'm a terrible one lol "

I started in my early 30s, by accident, went to a naturist health spa, made friends with swingers who popped my swing cherry and never looked back. and to be honest, even in my teens 3/4/moresomes appealed to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was 21. At a pals house saw she had a contact magazine with some random number scrawled in it. Anyway I called this number out of curiosity, got chatting to a 42yr old man in Surbiton (a swinger), he sent polaroids of his cock, met him a few days later and visited him every weekend for a year, attended parties with him

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

Around the age of 18 I'd guess. Not really swinging more meeting up as and when women replied and when not in relationships.

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