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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe this is niche I don’t know, but we’re finding it so hard to find a woman to want to have a relationship with my partner without it coming across as unicorn hunting!
He wants a married lady as a lover, with my acceptance. Not my involvement. Ie For actual companionship and sex outside of our own relationship, where I don’t participate. But I’m sensing this is not a ‘norm’. I’m guessing female equivalent of a bull
Anyone else have this? How did you develop it?
Genuine question! Most people think it’s a wind up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been a third in a couples relationship and the husband would go to the other bedroom with his other woman while I was with his wife .
Not cuck or unicorn . Just a thing they enjoyed. |
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"Maybe this is niche I don’t know, but we’re finding it so hard to find a woman to want to have a relationship with my partner without it coming across as unicorn hunting!
He wants a married lady as a lover, with my acceptance. Not my involvement. Ie For actual companionship and sex outside of our own relationship, where I don’t participate. But I’m sensing this is not a ‘norm’. I’m guessing female equivalent of a bull
Anyone else have this? How did you develop it?
Genuine question! Most people think it’s a wind up "
You don't really get that many polyamorous people on this site.
I myself am solo-poly and find that it's better understood/accepted on very specific sites and dating apps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are there any couples you've both met as a couple who would be open to this?
Or couples just looking for men. "
I we haven’t met any couples that have expressed this level of interest tbh! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe this is niche I don’t know, but we’re finding it so hard to find a woman to want to have a relationship with my partner without it coming across as unicorn hunting!
He wants a married lady as a lover, with my acceptance. Not my involvement. Ie For actual companionship and sex outside of our own relationship, where I don’t participate. But I’m sensing this is not a ‘norm’. I’m guessing female equivalent of a bull
Anyone else have this? How did you develop it?
Genuine question! Most people think it’s a wind up
You don't really get that many polyamorous people on this site.
I myself am solo-poly and find that it's better understood/accepted on very specific sites and dating apps."
Yes I understand your poly comment. But kinda thought it straddled swinging and poly in a sense so thought I’d ask.
I’ve been looking into solo poly but don’t think it fits in to our dynamic. But does seem a liberating way to have relationships tbh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We are in a similar boat. I want my husband to meet a woman on his own (not so much for a relationship but either for regular meets with the same person or just the odd one off here and there) but like most single men on this site, he can barely get a response let alone any interest  I get it from both sides as being a single woman here, I see how inundated women get. But also seeing how frustrated he gets not being successful after putting in so much time and effort to be ignored. Almost feels impossible sometimes. |
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"We are in a similar boat. I want my husband to meet a woman on his own (not so much for a relationship but either for regular meets with the same person or just the odd one off here and there) but like most single men on this site, he can barely get a response let alone any interest I get it from both sides as being a single woman here, I see how inundated women get. But also seeing how frustrated he gets not being successful after putting in so much time and effort to be ignored. Almost feels impossible sometimes."
Good luck to you both. It can be hard! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are in a similar boat. I want my husband to meet a woman on his own (not so much for a relationship but either for regular meets with the same person or just the odd one off here and there) but like most single men on this site, he can barely get a response let alone any interest I get it from both sides as being a single woman here, I see how inundated women get. But also seeing how frustrated he gets not being successful after putting in so much time and effort to be ignored. Almost feels impossible sometimes."
Yes completely agree with all of this!
Dating sites seem to drum up better results. But even then it’s arduous chatting all of a sudden to become ghosted |
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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago
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I would love this. (As in for my self) I meet guys and have regular meets ect and it's fun and I really enjoy that.
But would also love to find someone I can meet, go away with, stay over ect ect. Regular and not complicated while my husband is at home
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would love this. (As in for my self) I meet guys and have regular meets ect and it's fun and I really enjoy that.
But would also love to find someone I can meet, go away with, stay over ect ect. Regular and not complicated while my husband is at home
X"
Wish you was closer to us! I’d love my guy to have a woman like you  |
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