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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular meets with 1 or 2 people is the ideal scenario for us. One offs are good sometimes but meeting regularly , we find seems to work out better. You get that chance to get comfortable around each other that you don’t get with one off meets which leads to better sex and more of a chance to explore different things together. |
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"Just curious do a lot of people off here just meet once or some people do regular meets with people they have met?"
I've had one offs in the past, usually if I'm not keen. Mostly I have ended up seeing them again, some for years. |
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Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself at the end of this unrequited conundrum… |
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself on* the end of this unrequited conundrum… "
On* not at* end… |
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We have discussed this a lot and both feel regular meets with a couple we both like would work for us. It doesn't have to be weekly but we would both prefer to have ongoing ‘friendships with benefits’. |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
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"We have discussed this a lot and both feel regular meets with a couple we both like would work for us. It doesn't have to be weekly but we would both prefer to have ongoing ‘friendships with benefits’."
I can imagine that regular meets with you guys would be rather wonderful! |
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself at the end of this unrequited conundrum… "
You are just a cold hearted shagger 
You are a heartbreaker |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We meet a guy on here that we had regular meets with.
It was great at first but after a while he started to get quite possessive messaging every day asking who I was meeting with, getting pissed off of we went to the club and didn’t ask him.
It just got far too much and had to block him unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself at the end of this unrequited conundrum… You are just a cold hearted shagger
You are a heartbreaker"
 I thought you, from anyone, would have backed me up on that !
With your theory that a man and a woman cannot be friend !
You let me down again ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself at the end of this unrequited conundrum… You are just a cold hearted shagger
You are a heartbreaker
I thought you, from anyone, would have backed me up on that !
With your theory that a man and a woman cannot be friend !
You let me down again ! "
oh I agree with your sentiments entirely,
Was a hint of sarcasm in my response. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself at the end of this unrequited conundrum… You are just a cold hearted shagger
You are a heartbreaker
I thought you, from anyone, would have backed me up on that !
With your theory that a man and a woman cannot be friend !
You let me down again ! oh I agree with your sentiments entirely,
Was a hint of sarcasm in my response. "
I know, I was pulling your third leg
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself at the end of this unrequited conundrum… You are just a cold hearted shagger
You are a heartbreaker
I thought you, from anyone, would have backed me up on that !
With your theory that a man and a woman cannot be friend !
You let me down again ! oh I agree with your sentiments entirely,
Was a hint of sarcasm in my response.
I know, I was pulling your third leg
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Why do you have to be a heartbreaker?
Is it a lesson that I never knew?
Got to get out of the spell that I'm under
My love for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself on* the end of this unrequited conundrum…
On* not at* end…
But would you want to repeat meet someone if they have qualities that you don't like? Therein lies my dilemma - I would prefer repeat meets but very rarely meet someone that I would want to see over an enduring period of time precisely for this reason"
Nope I wouldn’t for the reason I stated above. I’d be in the position of headfucking someone because I want to shoot my load.
My hands does not have feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself at the end of this unrequited conundrum… You are just a cold hearted shagger
You are a heartbreaker
I thought you, from anyone, would have backed me up on that !
With your theory that a man and a woman cannot be friend !
You let me down again ! oh I agree with your sentiments entirely,
Was a hint of sarcasm in my response.
I know, I was pulling your third leg
…………………...„„-~^^~„-„„_
………………„-^*'' : : „'' : : : : *-„
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Why do you have to be a heartbreaker?
Is it a lesson that I never knew?
Got to get out of the spell that I'm under
My love for you"
Do you know how to swim ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself on* the end of this unrequited conundrum…
On* not at* end…
But would you want to repeat meet someone if they have qualities that you don't like? Therein lies my dilemma - I would prefer repeat meets but very rarely meet someone that I would want to see over an enduring period of time precisely for this reason
Nope I wouldn’t for the reason I stated above. I’d be in the position of headfucking someone because I want to shoot my load.
My hands does not have feelings. "
So does that make you responsible for their feelings? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself on* the end of this unrequited conundrum…
On* not at* end…
But would you want to repeat meet someone if they have qualities that you don't like? Therein lies my dilemma - I would prefer repeat meets but very rarely meet someone that I would want to see over an enduring period of time precisely for this reason
Nope I wouldn’t for the reason I stated above. I’d be in the position of headfucking someone because I want to shoot my load.
My hands does not have feelings.
So does that make you responsible for their feelings? "
Do as you would be done by.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself at the end of this unrequited conundrum… You are just a cold hearted shagger
You are a heartbreaker
I thought you, from anyone, would have backed me up on that !
With your theory that a man and a woman cannot be friend !
You let me down again ! oh I agree with your sentiments entirely,
Was a hint of sarcasm in my response.
I know, I was pulling your third leg
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……….../ : „-* . . . | : : : : : : : : |
………...\„-* . . . . .| : : : : : : : :'|
……….../ . . . . . . '| : : : : : : : :|
……..../ . . . . . . . .'\ : : : : : : : |
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Why do you have to be a heartbreaker?
Is it a lesson that I never knew?
Got to get out of the spell that I'm under
My love for you
Do you know how to swim ? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself on* the end of this unrequited conundrum…
On* not at* end…
But would you want to repeat meet someone if they have qualities that you don't like? Therein lies my dilemma - I would prefer repeat meets but very rarely meet someone that I would want to see over an enduring period of time precisely for this reason
Nope I wouldn’t for the reason I stated above. I’d be in the position of headfucking someone because I want to shoot my load.
My hands does not have feelings. "
What is that saying, 'A standing prick has no conscience' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither as I do believe, maybe wrongly, that regularity with someone you are attracted on so many level leads to feelings and feelings leads to be headfucked, especially if they are unrequited.
Even when they are reciprocated, if one’s perspective of what those feelings mean, entail and how they should be treated, doesn’t align with the perspective of the other, it leads to be left in a quandary: bending yourself to enjoy what you have found in that person or protecting yourself by leaving this person who brings you joy, yet this joy isn’t without pain either.
i guess regularity could only works if there are aspects of that person that you don’t like. Yet, this person may be the one who finds oneself on* the end of this unrequited conundrum…
On* not at* end…
But would you want to repeat meet someone if they have qualities that you don't like? Therein lies my dilemma - I would prefer repeat meets but very rarely meet someone that I would want to see over an enduring period of time precisely for this reason
Nope I wouldn’t for the reason I stated above. I’d be in the position of headfucking someone because I want to shoot my load.
My hands does not have feelings. What is that saying, 'A standing prick has no conscience'"
That is true. We are a walking contradiction after all.
I wrote all that and tonight I’d be balls deep in the poster under ! |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
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"We meet a guy on here that we had regular meets with.
It was great at first but after a while he started to get quite possessive messaging every day asking who I was meeting with, getting pissed off of we went to the club and didn’t ask him.
It just got far too much and had to block him unfortunately "
Does happen unfortunately. Though i would prefer regular meets, very cautious. We met a couple, a used to go to pub and meal etc, then it started first, daily texts, then sexts etc, requests to meet alone.
So lets just say things didn't get any better. So there is an advantage in one-offs, but regular produces familiarity which i feel is a better experince, but it can come with risks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We meet a guy on here that we had regular meets with.
It was great at first but after a while he started to get quite possessive messaging every day asking who I was meeting with, getting pissed off of we went to the club and didn’t ask him.
It just got far too much and had to block him unfortunately
Does happen unfortunately. Though i would prefer regular meets, very cautious. We met a couple, a used to go to pub and meal etc, then it started first, daily texts, then sexts etc, requests to meet alone.
So lets just say things didn't get any better. So there is an advantage in one-offs, but regular produces familiarity which i feel is a better experince, but it can come with risks. "
Yeah definitely agree with that.
When we first joined fab that’s what we were looking for too but bad experiences led to us now more enjoying club meets. You live and learn  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We meet a guy on here that we had regular meets with.
It was great at first but after a while he started to get quite possessive messaging every day asking who I was meeting with, getting pissed off of we went to the club and didn’t ask him.
It just got far too much and had to block him unfortunately "
Had the opposite, very strange for a couple to get jealous of a single guy meeting others when they have each other.
Know a few single women who have said the same too. Being told they are meeting too much etc. |
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"Just curious do a lot of people off here just meet once or some people do regular meets with people they have met?"
it varies.
We would love to see more of the folks we have met
but sometimes it just isn't possible.
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"We meet a guy on here that we had regular meets with.
It was great at first but after a while he started to get quite possessive messaging every day asking who I was meeting with, getting pissed off of we went to the club and didn’t ask him.
It just got far too much and had to block him unfortunately Had the opposite, very strange for a couple to get jealous of a single guy meeting others when they have each other.
Know a few single women who have said the same too. Being told they are meeting too much etc. "
Yeah that is strange I’d say for a couple. Maybe feeling’s got caught?
The only person I’d be bothered about is my husband the rest is just good fun |
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"We meet a guy on here that we had regular meets with.
It was great at first but after a while he started to get quite possessive messaging every day asking who I was meeting with, getting pissed off of we went to the club and didn’t ask him.
It just got far too much and had to block him unfortunately Had the opposite, very strange for a couple to get jealous of a single guy meeting others when they have each other.
Know a few single women who have said the same too. Being told they are meeting too much etc.
Yeah that is strange I’d say for a couple. Maybe feeling’s got caught?
The only person I’d be bothered about is my husband the rest is just good fun "
I don't know about feelings as it was mostly the guy I communicated with and we're both straight.
I think it was more they were looking for a long term arrangement.
I find that meeting couples is the best NSA sex too but not always the case.
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