Although I’ve always thought of myself as a cuck that loves seeing my wife with fit younger models (like driving a super car on a track day) we’ve recently realised that we are offended when men want to meet her alone. Where’s the fun in that? Although I get the element of humiliation that some cucks crave, being present and involved is much more satisfying for all. Who agrees? |
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I've played with wives in both cases - it's a matter of preference. Some couples want the man to be present, either watching or sometimes in another room... other couples like the scenario where I meet the woman in a hotel room while the husband stays at home. Or he goes out while I visit. |
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"Although I’ve always thought of myself as a cuck that loves seeing my wife with fit younger models (like driving a super car on a track day) we’ve recently realised that we are offended when men want to meet her alone. Where’s the fun in that? Although I get the element of humiliation that some cucks crave, being present and involved is much more satisfying for all. Who agrees?"
Some men might struggle to perform with another man around.
You have to be in the 'zone' like an Athlete. |
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Yeah for us it's about more hands etc....we have great sex amongst ourselves so adding an extra in is what ticks our boxes....
That said... trying the hotwife scenario is hot, but just fantasy I think...can totally see why people do though  |
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Never ever considered myself cuck.
When we started our swinging journey it was about my wife having fun.
Don't get me wrong I will always participate, however I love watching get sucking on another cock and being fucked.
It was for both of us the anticipation and build up off the meet. The dressing up and getting ready, and by far it was always the best sex on our own afterwards.
Does that make me a cuck ?.
Only with one long term chap, did my wife met on her own for sex.
It was a turn on, knowing what she was upto.
Guess I am a cuck, but don't think of myself as one |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
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"Although I’ve always thought of myself as a cuck that loves seeing my wife with fit younger models (like driving a super car on a track day) we’ve recently realised that we are offended when men want to meet her alone. Where’s the fun in that? Although I get the element of humiliation that some cucks crave, being present and involved is much more satisfying for all. Who agrees?"
The issue has always been with couples on couples profile. Although got nothing against solo guys, guys not what I'm looking for.
Usually couples, well guy of the couple either meeting them alone or him, even though clearly says in the profile only meet a couple as a couple. Has often resulted in a torrent of abuse.
Over the years just learned that it is what it is and not get hung up over or offended by it.
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Much prefer solo and returning a wife happy than having a husband standing around getting in the way being all needy. But each very much to their own.
If we are both playing with the wife, totally different. But I don't want to humiliate a guy, while I understand that is part of their thing, it isn't something that does it for me and feel forced and awkward from my point of view. |
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"Although I’ve always thought of myself as a cuck that loves seeing my wife with fit younger models (like driving a super car on a track day) we’ve recently realised that we are offended when men want to meet her alone. Where’s the fun in that? Although I get the element of humiliation that some cucks crave, being present and involved is much more satisfying for all. Who agrees?
The issue has always been with couples on couples profile. Although got nothing against solo guys, guys not what I'm looking for.
Usually couples, well guy of the couple either meeting them alone or him, even though clearly says in the profile only meet a couple as a couple. Has often resulted in a torrent of abuse.
Over the years just learned that it is what it is and not get hung up over or offended by it.
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They have normally just kept the account because it can still be more powerful than single guy profile. The wife has long gone in most of those cases. |
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"Much prefer solo and returning a wife happy than having a husband standing around getting in the way being all needy. But each very much to their own.
If we are both playing with the wife, totally different. But I don't want to humiliate a guy, while I understand that is part of their thing, it isn't something that does it for me and feel forced and awkward from my point of view. "
It’s not all like that. My husband definitely wouldn’t be getting humiliated. Know some people love that but definitely not our thing. The very thought of it makes me laugh  |
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"Much prefer solo and returning a wife happy than having a husband standing around getting in the way being all needy. But each very much to their own.
If we are both playing with the wife, totally different. But I don't want to humiliate a guy, while I understand that is part of their thing, it isn't something that does it for me and feel forced and awkward from my point of view.
It’s not all like that. My husband definitely wouldn’t be getting humiliated. Know some people love that but definitely not our thing. The very thought of it makes me laugh "
Yeah, previous experience of that has put me off. Love all playing as equals, not so much being the entertainment brought in to make everyone happy. |
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"Much prefer solo and returning a wife happy than having a husband standing around getting in the way being all needy. But each very much to their own.
If we are both playing with the wife, totally different. But I don't want to humiliate a guy, while I understand that is part of their thing, it isn't something that does it for me and feel forced and awkward from my point of view.
It’s not all like that. My husband definitely wouldn’t be getting humiliated. Know some people love that but definitely not our thing. The very thought of it makes me laugh
Yeah, previous experience of that has put me off. Love all playing as equals, not so much being the entertainment brought in to make everyone happy. "
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Both ways work for me/us, sometimes he's present, sometimes he's not.
Sometimes he's made to watch as close up as close up gets, sometimes he's in the bathroom handcuffed to a radiator.
Variety is the key for me/us |
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"Both ways work for me/us, sometimes he's present, sometimes he's not.
Sometimes he's made to watch as close up as close up gets, sometimes he's in the bathroom handcuffed to a radiator.
Variety is the key for me/us"
interesting |
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"Although I’ve always thought of myself as a cuck that loves seeing my wife with fit younger models (like driving a super car on a track day) we’ve recently realised that we are offended when men want to meet her alone. Where’s the fun in that? Although I get the element of humiliation that some cucks crave, being present and involved is much more satisfying for all. Who agrees?"
I think both have a place if we are talking about cuckolding
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Been involved with both, meets with the wife on her own were often down to the gent being away for work, but best part was face timing him so he got a window into the fun, drove him wild.
Is a hot way of doing it. |
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We don't find the suggestion offensive, though it's not what we look for.
We do feel our eyes roll when the first message is them asking if Mrs meets alone.
Though, if that's what they seek, it's best it's mentioned sooner than later anyway. |
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We would definitely prefer to play together and I think being involved or even watching in person is a better option but if we did have a regular meet and she wanted too then I would be happy them playing alone, as long as I got regular updates/videos and we had some more fun when she got home!! |
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"We would definitely prefer to play together and I think being involved or even watching in person is a better option but if we did have a regular meet and she wanted too then I would be happy them playing alone, as long as I got regular updates/videos and we had some more fun when she got home!!"
we prefer to meet as a couple but there has been the odd occasion I've dropped k off and waited outside, all good to us with trusted people
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I’ve only had this once and the hubby was there but had to stay outside the bed room ! Luckily there were two of us guys there to give the wife some fun as it was so much fun I popped far to early but managed to relay what the other guy was doing which had a good effect on him !! As they went straight to their van to have sex afterwards lol |
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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago
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I think the fantasy of my wife alone with another is so hot and we roleplay this together ( me being a boyfriend she meets regularly without me her husband)
however as with most in reality seeing my wife enjoying the pleasures of other cocks would be something id not wish to miss |
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Having done both, with and without hubby being there, I suppose I prefer sending a hotwife home to hubby who is waiting to reclaim her. If hubby is present I’m not into any form of humiliation but prefer to play with people on equal terms. |
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