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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know it's been said many times before, but I just need to get it off my boobs(chest) I've been chatting to a guy I really liked, we got on well and had arranged to meet next Tuesday, I've just logged on and he's deleted his account,
I know the answer, move on, and I will, I'm just a bit hurt he couldn't say anything, "feeling sorry for myself moan is over" thanks for listening  |
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"I know it's been said many times before, but I just need to get it off my boobs(chest) I've been chatting to a guy I really liked, we got on well and had arranged to meet next Tuesday, I've just logged on and he's deleted his account,
I know the answer, move on, and I will, I'm just a bit hurt he couldn't say anything, "feeling sorry for myself moan is over" thanks for listening "
Many love the thrill of the chase until you say yes to a meet then the disappear .
He will probably already be back on chatting away to the next woman who says yes then he will be off again .
The only good thing is he’s done it now rather than still saying he going to meet you next week and string you along until the day then disappear . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Happened to me last week. Wasn't the first time and probably not the last. Puts me off arranging to meet people to be honest. I tend mostly to stick to those I know well who never let me down."
It's put me off,I just don't feel like arranging anything anymore, but in time I know I will |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know it's been said many times before, but I just need to get it off my boobs(chest) I've been chatting to a guy I really liked, we got on well and had arranged to meet next Tuesday, I've just logged on and he's deleted his account,
I know the answer, move on, and I will, I'm just a bit hurt he couldn't say anything, "feeling sorry for myself moan is over" thanks for listening Many love the thrill of the chase until you say yes to a meet then the disappear .
He will probably already be back on chatting away to the next woman who says yes then he will be off again .
The only good thing is he’s done it now rather than still saying he going to meet you next week and string you along until the day then disappear . "
I know, it just annoys me as he was the one made first contact, ah well, you win some, you lose some |
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"I know it's been said many times before, but I just need to get it off my boobs(chest) I've been chatting to a guy I really liked, we got on well and had arranged to meet next Tuesday, I've just logged on and he's deleted his account,
I know the answer, move on, and I will, I'm just a bit hurt he couldn't say anything, "feeling sorry for myself moan is over" thanks for listening "
Oh noooo!!!chin up!!shit happens...  I'm sure he will be back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened a few times and kinda breaks me every time. Its the time invested and not necessarily the uninterest, but they way they just went.
Sorry it happened to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very strange, never understand why people do that. If I have hit it off with someone on here I love meeting them too socially. Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and i trust you find someone who appreciates you and wants to spend time in your company. |
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"Sorry to hear this....plenty more pebbles on the beach 
I know, but when you make you've made a good connection it hurts"
Obviously only from your side...coz if there was from his side too,he would have texted you before leaving. I know its harsh to read...but its true.he wouldn't leave without sharing info where ye can keep chatting etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe he was worried his wife might find out or maybe he finished his wank.
Pick your cliche
I do understand how bloody frustrating it can be when you discover the reality that the person you have invested a good amount of time getting to know someone turns out not to be the person they made themselves out to be.
Personally, I wouldn't dream of doing something like that - but have fallen victim to it myself |
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"Happened to me last week. Wasn't the first time and probably not the last. Puts me off arranging to meet people to be honest. I tend mostly to stick to those I know well who never let me down.
It's put me off,I just don't feel like arranging anything anymore, but in time I know I will "
Had you actually spoken to him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess none of us know what's going on in a person's life of which I'm sure, fab is a very small part. Dont assume it was done to hurt you, possibly real life overtook him and he had to prioritise for a bit  |
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Tried to pm you but sadly age parameters won’t allow it. Don’t be offended by his ignorance. Not all men are the same. He was probably just fantasising and getting his rocks off but when reality looked a possibility, he didn’t have the balls to see it through. You have a fantastic profile and my only regret is my age and distance from you. Keep smiling! xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hear this....plenty more pebbles on the beach
I know, but when you make you've made a good connection it hurts
Obviously only from your side...coz if there was from his side too,he would have texted you before leaving. I know its harsh to read...but its true.he wouldn't leave without sharing info where ye can keep chatting etc..."
I know, I've gone back over my saved messages from him, but nothing there, x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That’s rubbish OP, sorry to hear you got let down. And, as you say, just cos you can see the rational way forwards it doesn’t necessarily stop it from feeling bad. Hope you find something or someone to cheer you up!
Great B&W photos btw, really love them  |
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"Sorry to hear this....plenty more pebbles on the beach
I know, but when you make you've made a good connection it hurts
Obviously only from your side...coz if there was from his side too,he would have texted you before leaving. I know its harsh to read...but its true.he wouldn't leave without sharing info where ye can keep chatting etc...
I know, I've gone back over my saved messages from him, but nothing there, x"
his loss really... just put something sexy on and go out for a drink or two...or do some online shopping.  helps. |
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Whilst its frustrating, and sorry your feeling ao sad that ylubarent going to arrange more meets yet. put the shoe on the other foot. Nobody owes anybody anything and are entitled to change their mind at any time.
Im sure there will be plenty wanting to meet you op. Keep on trucking. |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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Take a deep breath in, say to yourself "His lose note mine!"
Looking at your profile, you are yummy, sexy and fun, so you can get a genuine person who is worth your time.
Men like him annoy me sooooooooooooooooooooo much as he makes it harder for us genuine single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for you messages, they helped alot,
So, yes his loss as now he won't get to meet this red hot sexy cougar, 
(Still not going to arrange anymore meets just yet though) |
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Why do they come on here and do that . I knew this young guy who got an invite bye a top lady on the Irish scene and turned her down . I told him you are gone do you not know they talk to each other and you will never get another invite .he was a very silly boy |
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"Why do they come on here and do that . I knew this young guy who got an invite bye a top lady on the Irish scene and turned her down . I told him you are gone do you not know they talk to each other and you will never get another invite .he was a very silly boy "
So he should have met even though he didnt want to? |
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"Sorry to hear this....plenty more pebbles on the beach
I know, but when you make you've made a good connection it hurts"
Yes this ,plenty of men ,but har to find the ones you fancy and click with.
I know it's disheartening op ,but at least it didn't happen after you had met.He may be back if life got in the way. |
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By *yresMan
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear of your experience that didn't work out the way you wished, yet it sounds all too familiar, and makes one think to take a lot hear with a pinch salt. One minute they are there and next gone!..... |
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