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Men asking women to go to theirs
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"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you.  "
I prefer this actually as find hotels impersonal. |
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"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "
Not at all. In fact I'd be more annoyed at the automatic assumption that they could come to mine. |
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"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "
Depends on how well you know the guy and trust as been built up. As a cuckold couple Dee much prefers to play at the guys house, she can take her time without the worry of me hanging around lol |
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Those types usually think Swingers are desperate for sex and their 'offer' is doing us a favour.
Often a man hundreds of miles away with his cock in his hand. |
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"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "
Most men struggle on here as ladies sometimes think they are playing away, that instance is a guarantee the guy isnt. It is difficult for guys on here sometimes. |
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"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you.
Most men struggle on here as ladies sometimes think they are playing away, that instance is a guarantee the guy isnt. It is difficult for guys on here sometimes."
Good point! Interesting thought. |
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"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "
Personally I'd be worried about anyone meeting at your personal address. We don't know who or what this other person has done or is like.
Safety should always be a first priority (ex security can't help myself) |
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"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you.
Most men struggle on here as ladies sometimes think they are playing away, that instance is a guarantee the guy isnt. It is difficult for guys on here sometimes.
Good point! Interesting thought. "
Ultimately its best where the lady feels safe |
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There are 4 basic choices:-
Your place.
My place.
Someone else's place.
Outside.
Someone else's place could be:-
A friend's place.
A hotel.
A club.
Outside can include in a car for dogging.
Fairly certain if you get 10 people in a room and give them a straight choice between any 2 things, you'll come out with a split. There is no right or wrong answer, only preference. |
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"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "
So if a guy cannot accommodate it's assumed that he is cheating, yet if he invites a lady to his house it's laziness. Talk about a no win situation. |
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If you meet a women it should always be somewhere that she feels comfortable meeting a guy for the first time and then go from there hope this makes sense |
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I woke up this morning to five messages sent between 2 & 4.30 am all asking if I was free to go round to theirs 
It feels like dial a h**ker and happens almost nightly so I understand your point OP.
If I got to know someone then I’d prefer going to theirs but I’d always put safety measures in place first. |
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"Don't often ask anyone back to mine until I met a few times"
Same. I have my profile set to ‘can’t accommodate’ but what it really should say is ‘willing to accommodate after we’ve met a few times in a neutral location’. I had someone who decided just to start turning up to a previous home address without an invite like it was fine and a normal thing to do. |
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I guess the fact he's happy to accommodate at his shows he is in fact single and not playing away, also some I would guess wouldn't want a bloke to no where they lived for safety reasons/crazy stalkers
As someone said it's about feeling comfortable and safe |
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