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Recently had a indecent proposal
Basically a person has offered mrs a job, which is quite well paid in finance.
His paying 30% more then she would get, plus other perks
Deal is he sleeps with her once a week on permanent basis, the gentlemen in question is older wealthy and is very genuine in his proposal… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds great as a fantasy, but the reality could be a whole lot different.
Working together, and weekly intimacy can create confusion, be that a building of emotions, real or misunderstood, or it can create a toxic atmosphere, feeling it's become a duty.
Short term, it could be a little fun, though still not without risk.
Long term, more risk than glory.
Is it easy to get out of this contract/agreement? |
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I have so many questions.Is she sexually attracted to him? Obviously there's a contract for this job...does it/will it mention the sexual aspect of the deal? Would this deal lead to him wanting/demanding more and more from her over time that she isn't comfortable with? This situation could be great if the above mentioned weren't an issue but I feel that it could be a potential disaster. Only my opinion,it's ye're lives and only you two can make that decision  |
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"Recently had a indecent proposal
Basically a person has offered mrs a job, which is quite well paid in finance.
His paying 30% more then she would get, plus other perks
Deal is he sleeps with her once a week on permanent basis, the gentlemen in question is older wealthy and is very genuine in his proposal…"
'Gentleman' in question?? I'd rather eat beans on toast! |
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"Does it not worry you that someone could find out and she gets labelled as someone sleeping her way to the top?"
Not really ? How would they find out , could same the same if people found out we are swinging etc
Mostly people mind there own business |
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"Does it not worry you that someone could find out and she gets labelled as someone sleeping her way to the top?
Not really ? How would they find out , could same the same if people found out we are swinging etc
Mostly people mind there own business "
What if it doesn't work out between your lady and the boss? Guys talk sometimes... |
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"Does it not worry you that someone could find out and she gets labelled as someone sleeping her way to the top?
Not really ? How would they find out , could same the same if people found out we are swinging etc
Mostly people mind there own business
What if it doesn't work out between your lady and the boss? Guys talk sometimes..."
His got more to lose so he wouldn’t talk , his a senior executive, respected and mrs said she will be working in a different unit, but understand what your saying will let you know how it goes ! Thanks |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Sounds like an absolute disaster if I'm honest and I don't care how much they say they will pay if I was obligated to sleep with someone just to do a job with better pay I'd pass. Sounds manlipulative and a power trip for the guy. And something I would avoid as it could well end up a complete disaster.
And while I enjoy sex,to be expected to sleep with someone because they are paying my wage is not something I would ever want to do personally. |
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As the ‘arrangement’ is between yourselves it isn’t contracted so it could end at any time, as and when he pleases. Wouldn’t you rather keep professional and private lives separate and advance your career by earning it in a professional manner? This isn’t the same as having an office fling as he is basically paying you to sleep with him (or the company is) which if you had been attracted to him you might have been doing that already. |
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"As the ‘arrangement’ is between yourselves it isn’t contracted so it could end at any time, as and when he pleases. Wouldn’t you rather keep professional and private lives separate and advance your career by earning it in a professional manner? This isn’t the same as having an office fling as he is basically paying you to sleep with him (or the company is) which if you had been attracted to him you might have been doing that already."
The arrangement wouldn’t be contracted but surely the work contract would be ? Meaning they could end it any time without losing the salary…. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
Dunno. On the one hand, if it's a good career move and the pay is good, makes sense to sign up for it. OTOH, for me whenever sex has led to an upward move (career or pay) it's been on my terms and me initiating it (yes, unpopular opinion but I've used sex and am not ashamed of it). This seems different. So weight it out. I don't see any moral issues though people will give it a moral flavour so be prepared. |
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Good Topic Discussion.
When I was married and swinging we had a number of similar propositions, some we just laughed at and some we took some time to check out. We never actually took up any propositions but we would have no issues if others did. There was one when the Ex was just starting Uni and the job offer had nothing to do with her chosen line of profession. But we got to chat and meet the guy. It was explained very clearly to him that if we took his invite there were some rules to follow. Firstly I was in charge lol and had to meet with him occasionally to make sure everything was still good. Secondly if she said no to an occasion he had to accept it. Thirdly if anyone said no more then everything stops and there would be no fall back/out from the current work. He knew my background very well and knew what could happen lol if things went sour. It ended up with her meeting him on occasions for sex behind his wife's back and all went well. But we opted out of the Job prospect.
I suppose if you have done your research on him and both of you have met him and put the rules that you are wanting down and agreed then there is no problem. But also be wise and don't fall into some trap you can't get out of. |
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"As the ‘arrangement’ is between yourselves it isn’t contracted so it could end at any time, as and when he pleases. Wouldn’t you rather keep professional and private lives separate and advance your career by earning it in a professional manner? This isn’t the same as having an office fling as he is basically paying you to sleep with him (or the company is) which if you had been attracted to him you might have been doing that already.
The arrangement wouldn’t be contracted but surely the work contract would be ? Meaning they could end it any time without losing the salary…. "
You’d be surprised at how quickly the position could become surplus to requirements and suddenly you’re persona non grata…..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of questions to be raised about this proposal.
What if your wife doesn’t feel like having sex
What if he want more than once a week
What happens when you go on holiday , does he get catch up sessions
Sounds too good to be true, and if that’s the case. Avoid |
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