Absolutely, there's some brilliant guys on here x strangely enough the best times and the longest "relationships" we've had are with the guys whose profiles are what we would actively avoid but they put the effort in when messaging and we clicked x we don't wrote people off if their profile is crap as long as their messaging shows us who they are, we don't immediately discount newbies either as we all had to start somewhere (however again they have to click with us via messaging)
We haven't had a bad meet or experience since we started so we're doing good but always have in the back of our minds that our gut feelings aren't infallible....
Keep the decent communications up guys, it does work and it is so refreshing.... Xxx |
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"Don’t let anyone on here think you can’t be successful. Because you can. Don’t fall for the more men than women bullshit because if you want to succeed enough you will. Be clear in what you want from fab and go for it. It won’t happen immediately nothing ever does. Be smart be savvy and don’t think with your dick. It’s a great site if you figure it out !  "
This has always been true despite what many think.
The one thing I'd also add is don't fall into the trap of thinking 'the bad guys ruin it for the good guys' or trying to claim you're not 'one of them' (pick whatever alleged negative trait you choose) in order to attempt to appear better than anyone else.
Nobody ruins anything for anyone other than themselves. Your choices and behaviour don't reflect on anyone else.
Just be you. If that is good enough to attract interest from others then great.
If not? Evolve. Because its not down to anyone else to change in order for you to be successful.
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Apart from a couple of randoms that P has brought back from nights on the town, all of our meets have only come from messaging on here. And they've mostly been messages we've responded to so if it's the right message, from the right profile at the right time then Fab definitely works well. |
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"Apart from a couple of randoms that P has brought back from nights on the town, all of our meets have only come from messaging on here. And they've mostly been messages we've responded to so if it's the right message, from the right profile at the right time then Fab definitely works well."
Love to hear more about the fandoms P brought back  |
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"Sound advice right there. We’ve met quite a few single guys off this site because they’ve been polite and well presented. "
We look to meet single guys and find this gives a better chance of us interacting |
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I think reading profiles before you send a message helps as does having a decent profile.there is no point in messaging someone if you are clearly not what they want.
It certainly gets harder to meet as you get older - that’s why I find
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"Don’t let anyone on here think you can’t be successful. Because you can. Don’t fall for the more men than women bullshit because if you want to succeed enough you will. Be clear in what you want from fab and go for it. It won’t happen immediately nothing ever does. Be smart be savvy and don’t think with your dick. It’s a great site if you figure it out !
says a guy with a huge cock and under 60, when u are average, overweight and 60+ it gets a lot harder. I have been on fab since it started and as a couple which makes it a lot easier. I used to get singles meets fairly easy."
So off site in the real world. Do you think meeting others/dating/finding a relationship gets harder or easier when you become older, less fit, or less stereotypically attractive to others?
Fab is no different to real life. Hate to break it to you.
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