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Are women placed on a pedestal?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would you as a woman like/prefer if men treated you solely as a human and gave you little to no validation, i.e. attention, compliments, extra effort in either blatant/subtle pursuit of sex? |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I'd be happy if a man only complimented me when he was already dick deep.
Unless he's only saying it so I agree to see him again.
Some women love a compliment on their physique/hair/beauty etc: I prefer someone to tell me I'm a good girl  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I like it best when people remember I'm a whole person and not just a handy selection of orifices that might put out if you say I'm pretty  "
Do you find yourself feeling zero emotion when a stranger sends a compliment now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate when guys message calling me sexy babe etc actually have it on my profile, treat me normal speak to me normal treat me with some respect calling me sexy isnt gonna get you into my knickers  |
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"I like it best when people remember I'm a whole person and not just a handy selection of orifices that might put out if you say I'm pretty
Do you find yourself feeling zero emotion when a stranger sends a compliment now?"
Now?
I've never liked compliments to be honest. It's always been an immediate thought of what are they trying to gain by saying this to me.
I prefer when people just have that sort of personality that I click with and outright says they'd like to fuck me rather than beating around the Bush with bullshit |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I like it best when people remember I'm a whole person and not just a handy selection of orifices that might put out if you say I'm pretty
Do you find yourself feeling zero emotion when a stranger sends a compliment now?
Now?
I've never liked compliments to be honest. It's always been an immediate thought of what are they trying to gain by saying this to me.
I prefer when people just have that sort of personality that I click with and outright says they'd like to fuck me rather than beating around the Bush with bullshit "
I'm the same. First time on the Internet I used apps where people could tag you with compliments. It was all so superficial and cheesy.
15 years later and the same men are sending the same tags. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like it best when people remember I'm a whole person and not just a handy selection of orifices that might put out if you say I'm pretty
Do you find yourself feeling zero emotion when a stranger sends a compliment now?
Now?
I've never liked compliments to be honest. It's always been an immediate thought of what are they trying to gain by saying this to me.
I prefer when people just have that sort of personality that I click with and outright says they'd like to fuck me rather than beating around the Bush with bullshit "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like it best when people remember I'm a whole person and not just a handy selection of orifices that might put out if you say I'm pretty
Do you find yourself feeling zero emotion when a stranger sends a compliment now?
Now?
I've never liked compliments to be honest. It's always been an immediate thought of what are they trying to gain by saying this to me.
I prefer when people just have that sort of personality that I click with and outright says they'd like to fuck me rather than beating around the Bush with bullshit
I'm the same. First time on the Internet I used apps where people could tag you with compliments. It was all so superficial and cheesy.
15 years later and the same men are sending the same tags."
 this.. hey sexy fancy a shag ehh naw lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you as a woman like/prefer if men treated you solely as a human and gave you little to no validation, i.e. attention, compliments, extra effort in either blatant/subtle pursuit of sex?"
Women are placed on a pedestal to some on here because of the heavily distorted ratios.
Some get carried away about their true value too.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I don't need nor want validation from random people on here. I don't want to be on a pedestal and to be fair I've never been put on one because I don't fall for the fake compliments on here and neither do I engage with people just to be popular either. It's just not my thing if others enjoy the attention fair play to them,it does no harm if it makes them feel good about themselves. And as long as it's not used to manipulate and play games and stir shite on here which unfortunately is what happens at times on here.
The only compliments I tend to take seriously are from people I have gotten to know and I know they are genuine compliments.
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"I like it best when people remember I'm a whole person and not just a handy selection of orifices that might put out if you say I'm pretty
Do you find yourself feeling zero emotion when a stranger sends a compliment now?
Now?
I've never liked compliments to be honest. It's always been an immediate thought of what are they trying to gain by saying this to me.
I prefer when people just have that sort of personality that I click with and outright says they'd like to fuck me rather than beating around the Bush with bullshit "
This^ |
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"Would you as a woman like/prefer if men treated you solely as a human and gave you little to no validation, i.e. attention, compliments, extra effort in either blatant/subtle pursuit of sex?"
I like compliments sincerely meant. I don't like insincere compliments that people think will make me want to have sex with them.
I think in a well rounded, adult relationship it's possible to treat each other as humans while also being capable of giving genuine compliments. |
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