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bdsm for someone whos never fancied it
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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so ive been on this scene a long time and ive done pretty much everything ive wanted to do as i believe in doing not dreaming ..so the question is what bits of bdsm would you temp someone with that does not have that stereotype bdsm feel ?
hubs likes as a cuck so bdsm things but ive never really had my head turned so hence the question what would make my head turn ?? ...bit of forum fum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no one size fits all for this. Sometimes it's just abt the power exchange so you might not be *doing* anything particularly different but you might be *thinking* about it differently. I once had a wanna be foot sub who I only allowed to buy me small vegan pates in Holland and Barrett. He was my pate sub. There's nothing inherently sexy about one's weekly shop. But having someone *need* to do a tiny part of it? Surprisingly fun. I'll possibly never take another foot selfie for a man who isn't allowed to touch them ever again. But it was fun at the time.  |
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A wee bit of mental control can be intense. I had a girl who needed to do exercises for me naked. I got little clips of her doing squats and star jumps etc nightly ass training with butt plugs was another. A little pic sent before bed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"oh and i should of said i dont do restraints or blindfolds"
That’s the bit to start with, we love the most. Sensual and trusting. It’s so amazing, not knowing what’s happening and with whom! |
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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago
Telford |
Similar situation here , Mrs Reboot likes a bit of BDSM and would like to explore more, but I don’t like it, truth be told it actually turns me off rather than on lol
So going to follow this to see if anything might spark my interest and convince me otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Similar situation here , Mrs Reboot likes a bit of BDSM and would like to explore more, but I don’t like it, truth be told it actually turns me off rather than on lol
So going to follow this to see if anything might spark my interest and convince me otherwise "
Don’t see BDSM as being all sexual or about sex. It’s really not.
It’s such a broad subject with no right or wrong answer. Take impact. Can be a light tap to a deep bruise and everything in between.
As you’re already a couple try “tasking”. Can be something as simple as send me 3 photos from your day. Can be let me pick what underwear she or you will wear.
When I had a submissive we had an account on another well known site where I’d write a paragraph and then she would. Like virtual role play knowing others were reading it.
So don’t see it as being all sexual. And move at a pace you’re both happy with |
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There lots you can do its about setting a scene and creating a dynamic and then introducing different stimulations rules tasks and using implements to further inhance what your doing .I've train ed many Cpls to get further enjoyment
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