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Are outdoor or car meets Dogging?
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For me unless you are being watched or there is a chance of you being watched then it isn’t ‘dogging’
Seen so many couples who claim to be doggers yet run or become abusive as soon as anyone else turns up.
Don’t get me wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with running (or driving) off but you’re not dogging.
It’s more about exhibitionism or voyeurism than actual outdoor sex acts - that’s my opinion anyway, feel free to try and change my mind.. |
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I think along the same lines!
When I want to be discreet I have had outdoor fun in quiet places not associated with dogging.
However, dogging for me is usually in known places and the whole point of it is watching, being watched and the opportunity for interaction with complete strangers if you want to take it that far. |
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So very true - There are literally thousands of spots where singles/ couples can go and do their thing but not that many ‘known’ dogging spots..
Some so called ‘doggers’ would actually crap their pants if they knew they were being watched.. |
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"How about the couples who like to be watched at dogging spots but don’t like hoards of guys around their car? Are they real doggers?"
Yes of course they are… but the more well known the spot the more likely the ‘hoards’ will be there, especially if it’s early doors - it’s a public space so you can’t control how many will be there - that’s the risk. Also posting a meet & location on Fab then being surprised/ shocked/ pissed off when there’s too many…
It’s never an exact science but if you go later on the more chance it will be experienced doggers and not chancers who have no idea how to behave.. |
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"How about the couples who like to be watched at dogging spots but don’t like hoards of guys around their car? Are they real doggers?"
Sure they are, but that's probably because they don't feel safe perhaps. I remember my first time dogging and couldn't believe how many guys were around our car, mostly with their cocks in their hands, it can seem scary for some I guess.
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"How about the couples who like to be watched at dogging spots but don’t like hoards of guys around their car? Are they real doggers?
Sure they are, but that's probably because they don't feel safe perhaps. I remember my first time dogging and couldn't believe how many guys were around our car, mostly with their cocks in their hands, it can seem scary for some I guess.
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Yep it’s bound to be nerve wracking the first time you try it, same as going to a club for the first time.. I’m a long time dogger but when I’ve taken a lady out it’s a different experience altogether.
Most experienced dogging males are really polite - no one gets anything if they’re rude and not respectful..
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"Just because a couple may be at a dogging spot doesn't mean its a free for all..
They still have the right to choose who they perform in front of and wish to invite to play with them."
Yep absolutely - always.. that’s called consent. |
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Sher loves getting stripped off in front of the men but doesn't play.
I must say 99% of the men are respectfull and if you get a knobhead the others deal with them.
We have shared a couple of times and been watched so we are doggers I suppose |
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"Mrs loves being watched but is allways worried about people filming on there phones "
That’s why people tend to meet up with a chosen few rather than turn up at a dogging spot where some think it’s a free for all. |
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"Mrs loves being watched but is allways worried about people filming on there phones "
Yes that's the worry, you might end up on a porn site and your neighbours might spot you  |
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"For me unless you are being watched or there is a chance of you being watched then it isn’t ‘dogging’
Seen so many couples who claim to be doggers yet run or become abusive as soon as anyone else turns up.
Don’t get me wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with running (or driving) off but you’re not dogging.
It’s more about exhibitionism or voyeurism than actual outdoor sex acts - that’s my opinion anyway, feel free to try and change my mind.. "
99% of the time we drive off. Never abusive though. It really depends on the way the guys turn up. If it's clear they have no respect for anyone, we drive off.
If they show a little respect we tend to not drive off.
There may be a reason the couples drive off, they may be there for dogging. |
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"How about the couples who like to be watched at dogging spots but don’t like hoards of guys around their car? Are they real doggers?
Sure they are, but that's probably because they don't feel safe perhaps. I remember my first time dogging and couldn't believe how many guys were around our car, mostly with their cocks in their hands, it can seem scary for some I guess.
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We went out in the rain for our first time - it meant that there was only a handful and they were the more experienced type - very respectful, kept their distance unless asked. I mean getting drenched (by the rain!) isn't for everyone but it served a purpose that night! |
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"Mrs loves being watched but is allways worried about people filming on there phones "
This was one of my worries at first.... We've tended to go to fairly popular but not busy places so we've got more chance of keeping a watch.
And as we play in the hotwife dynamic my hubby is there but doesn't play so he's a little like security for me! |
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"For me unless you are being watched or there is a chance of you being watched then it isn’t ‘dogging’
Seen so many couples who claim to be doggers yet run or become abusive as soon as anyone else turns up.
Don’t get me wrong there is absolutely nothing wrong with running (or driving) off but you’re not dogging.
It’s more about exhibitionism or voyeurism than actual outdoor sex acts - that’s my opinion anyway, feel free to try and change my mind..
99% of the time we drive off. Never abusive though. It really depends on the way the guys turn up. If it's clear they have no respect for anyone, we drive off.
If they show a little respect we tend to not drive off.
There may be a reason the couples drive off, they may be there for dogging. "
Exactly this… 
If couples turn up and keep driving off, it’s most likely because of what’s happening on the car park. Usually people driving round with headlights on full beam. Or parking up so close you couldn’t get a rizla paper between your cars. |
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Probably 90% of people fucking in carparks are either young with nowhere else to go or playing away, why would they want some random people walking up and waving their wangs about? |
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"Two completely different past times
Most people enjoy outdoor fun
Not everyone enjoys dogging "
I completely agree!
Outdoor fun; you know who will be there.
Dogging; you have no idea who, or how many will be there…  |
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"Two completely different past times
Most people enjoy outdoor fun
Not everyone enjoys dogging
I completely agree!
Outdoor fun; you know who will be there.
Dogging; you have no idea who, or how many will be there… "
But you can still pick and choose who you play with. Doesn't have to be a free for all |
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