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Thinking about a gangbang/party
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This is difficult to put into words but here goes.
Lately we've been liking the idea of me (female) being in a gangbang or a sex party of some kind, still only at the "thinking" stage but we really have no idea how this would be arranged (not a dogging type scenario with all randoms), do you got to specialized profiles that cater to it or try to organize one on your own with guys you already now?
We cant really get to a club & it would also have to be filmed ideally.
Looking for your experiences & just going through the thought process really right now, so please no "me my mates will do ya if ya want".
Hope this makes sense as we are really into the idea.
Happy fabbing,
J xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doing it privately is your best bet, picking men you like is a huge plus, I'm a club event it's more anyone there will feel like they can play.
Filming may find your pool of candidates dwindle lower too.
It's an amazing fantasy, one I've had for a while but sadly I think it will always remain that way for me.
Good luck  |
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From discussions I’ve had with people who have organised parties and gangbangs. So second hand information but might help
Agree with Claire above. Private would make most sense especially if filmed.
I would imagine a hotel suite would be best for it. Guys you can trust and rely on would be the ideal. Some however are going to drop out as the fantasy be the reality can be different. Not in terms of how sexy you are but in terms of ability to perform infront of others / ability to do it.
There are profiles here where 2 or more men offer groups which might help a little if the attraction is there.
Few people you trust to check in on you and make sure all ok is needed.
Bring plenty of water, refreshments always good
Hope this happens for you and you have an amazing time |
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"usual rule of thumb is to invite 5x more guys than you really want if your lucky 3 or 4 might actually be genuine players and turn up"
Imagine if they all turned up though.
I'm horny but I'd think I have my limits |
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"Doing it privately is your best bet, picking men you like is a huge plus, I'm a club event it's more anyone there will feel like they can play.
Filming may find your pool of candidates dwindle lower too.
It's an amazing fantasy, one I've had for a while but sadly I think it will always remain that way for me.
Good luck "
Aww I hope not babe xx
It is sounding like a lot of effort so far. |
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Go to a club or clubs and handpick guys, give them your personal card and have them message you if they are interested in a group meet.
At least that way you will have met them for real and are far less likely to have no-shows. |
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Friends organised this and they went with an already set up group. Sadly they were not happy with the experience as they then had no control of what the men looked like in attendance. With the organiser of the group clearly lying about his age by let’s say ten years.
Than the other quandary. Hand pick the men and not enough turn up for it to be a gangbang.
Shame you can’t travel as you are not far from a decent club via the back roads and they might have a specialist night to attend.
In summary it’s a bloody minefield |
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"usual rule of thumb is to invite 5x more guys than you really want if your lucky 3 or 4 might actually be genuine players and turn up
Imagine if they all turned up though.
I'm horny but I'd think I have my limits "
Maybe arrange it with another couple, or single woman.
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By *asher11Man
over a year ago
market harborough |
"usual rule of thumb is to invite 5x more guys than you really want if your lucky 3 or 4 might actually be genuine players and turn up
Imagine if they all turned up though.
I'm horny but I'd think I have my limits "
you only find your limit when you exceed it lol |
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"usual rule of thumb is to invite 5x more guys than you really want if your lucky 3 or 4 might actually be genuine players and turn up
Imagine if they all turned up though.
I'm horny but I'd think I have my limits
you only find your limit when you exceed it lol"
Or worse, it's not my limit & I'm forever chasing "the white rabbit" at least 12 of them  |
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I'd arrange it so that you have a person in charge, and he then arranges the details, so vetting , venue, etc that way it takes all the guess work away from you and all you have to do is arrive, get railed and enjoy xxx |
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I'm someone who has attended many gangbangs and arranged a few myself.
The biggest problem is time wasters, you would think most guys would jump at a chance, but many the thought of group sex where other men see their cock is only a fantasy, only the other weekend at a private meet a guy made the excuse that he'd just broken his leg. 
If you can attend a club then you have a better chance of finding genuine ppl who you can organise something with.
If not then if you advertise a private meet I would advise that you only pick guys who have some verifications, and come across as genuine in comms.
Filming can be a no for many, but if you are clear and upfront then you should find volunteers. |
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So what happens in a scenario where the woman doesn't give consent to a certain act ? Let's say for argument sake bareback, what you've just done there is open every individual up to prosecution for r.a.p.e . |
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"So what happens in a scenario where the woman doesn't give consent to a certain act ? Let's say for argument sake bareback, what you've just done there is open every individual up to prosecution for r.a.p.e ."
Make sure your chaperone ensures all your wants and no's are adhered too. You need someone to run the event. Remember you are definitely in control at all times. Have fun x |
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"It’s no good having limits for a gangbang it’s all in lol "
That's a dumb statement, of course there are limits, nobody wants to force others into situations they're not happy with, usually at a planned event, beforehand likes and dislikes are stated, so everyone knows the score, at spontaneous events then you don't assume you can just do anything you want. |
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Hey guys. Local too you and have been too many arranged gangbangs and group meets. The main issue as people have already said is reliability.
Obviously you have the pic of the men you want too attend but as already stated if you want 5 guys for a gangbang always invite say 15.
I can 100% assure you 15 won't show up. You will be lucky too get between 5 and 6 reliable genuine blokes too show. I say this from expierence.
I like the idea of it being filmed I think it adds a different dynamic tho and many men might be put off by this. If this is the way you want too go deffo vet and invite more men than you want and set some limits from the off for example no anal? No BB ext and no means no
You will always get the sorry my cars broken or my dogs eaten my hamster sort of excuses on the day.
Take care guys and good luck with the arrangements. Don't forget me if you do arrange one. |
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By *tuvyMan
over a year ago
bedford |
The last gang bang from here I was at we had all met each other before
During the group meet, we had ground rules laid out and we all knew who was into what
The fun happened so much easier |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"This is difficult to put into words but here goes.
Lately we've been liking the idea of me (female) being in a gangbang or a sex party of some kind, still only at the "thinking" stage but we really have no idea how this would be arranged (not a dogging type scenario with all randoms), do you got to specialized profiles that cater to it or try to organize one on your own with guys you already now?
We cant really get to a club & it would also have to be filmed ideally.
Looking for your experiences & just going through the thought process really right now, so please no "me my mates will do ya if ya want".
Hope this makes sense as we are really into the idea.
Happy fabbing,
J xxx"
Just down the road count me in |
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"From discussions I’ve had with people who have organised parties and gangbangs. So second hand information but might help
Agree with Claire above. Private would make most sense especially if filmed.
I would imagine a hotel suite would be best for it. Guys you can trust and rely on would be the ideal. Some however are going to drop out as the fantasy be the reality can be different. Not in terms of how sexy you are but in terms of ability to perform infront of others / ability to do it.
There are profiles here where 2 or more men offer groups which might help a little if the attraction is there.
Few people you trust to check in on you and make sure all ok is needed.
Bring plenty of water, refreshments always good
Hope this happens for you and you have an amazing time "
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"This is difficult to put into words but here goes.
Lately we've been liking the idea of me (female) being in a gangbang or a sex party of some kind, still only at the "thinking" stage but we really have no idea how this would be arranged (not a dogging type scenario with all randoms), do you got to specialized profiles that cater to it or try to organize one on your own with guys you already now?
We cant really get to a club & it would also have to be filmed ideally.
Looking for your experiences & just going through the thought process really right now, so please no "me my mates will do ya if ya want".
Hope this makes sense as we are really into the idea.
Happy fabbing,
J xxx
Just down the road count me in "
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As V likes to watch maybe you already have a built in chaperone for the event itself.
As for organising, I've not done that so can offer little help. The one I went to had 5 or 6 attendees and one left before it started and another two shortly afterwards.
If you pick people that you've already met/like you'll more than likely avoid the no show scenario to a degree.
Oh, and if you need another man to boost the numbers....  |
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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago
Bishops Stortford |
I have a guy I have been with a couple of times who is going to arrange this at a private house between 5 and 8 guys. Think I will need to be carried out. It will be an all bare meet. |
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"I have a guy I have been with a couple of times who is going to arrange this at a private house between 5 and 8 guys. Think I will need to be carried out. It will be an all bare meet."
sounds like a lot of fun, enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reliability is a huge issue.
Many drop out as has been said. Will dm you a contact if you wish. "
That's your biggest problem, too many dreamers who don't turn up.  |
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