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All I want is to be used by a group of men. Why is arranging gangbangs & group meets so difficult?
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So I joined here hoping to find a group of guys willing to use me. Not necessarily fuck me if they don’t want but I was hoping to suck their cocks, lick their arses while they watch and egg each other on. So far had nothing but tiemwaaters amd fantasists claiming to have friends who are wanting to join in until I gets to the day then miraculously everyone else is busy or has pulled out (after pushing they eventually admit they hasn’t even asked their friends and it was a lie)
I obviously recognise not all groups of friends are going to admit wanting to meet TV’s to their friends but surely there must be some who are up for getting sucked and rimmed and maybe fucking me? I’d genuinely travel for this. Whilst it’s not the most common thing in the world, I know it does happen amongst some friends cause I’ve seen verifications and vidoes on here of it.
I know even straight women and couples have issues arranging group meets, why does it seem everyone loves the idea but doesn’t go through with it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The common answer to this dilemma it seems is to try a club setting.
Contact some clubs and ask the question?
Alternatively here are a few MM couples on here that have contacted us previously claiming the ability to arrange GBs. |
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"So I joined here hoping to find a group of guys willing to use me. Not necessarily fuck me if they don’t want but I was hoping to suck their cocks, lick their arses while they watch and egg each other on. So far had nothing but tiemwaaters amd fantasists claiming to have friends who are wanting to join in until I gets to the day then miraculously everyone else is busy or has pulled out (after pushing they eventually admit they hasn’t even asked their friends and it was a lie)
I obviously recognise not all groups of friends are going to admit wanting to meet TV’s to their friends but surely there must be some who are up for getting sucked and rimmed and maybe fucking me? I’d genuinely travel for this. Whilst it’s not the most common thing in the world, I know it does happen amongst some friends cause I’ve seen verifications and vidoes on here of it.
I know even straight women and couples have issues arranging group meets, why does it seem everyone loves the idea but doesn’t go through with it? "
Possibly speak to a club about what you want and maybe they could help you arrange it on a certain night x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you tried putting up a meet and asking guys to come along at a certain time? I honestly don't think you'll get a group of mates who would all want to do that. |
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Goto s gay sauna club on tgirl day. A busy located one you will be able to fill your boots on that
Unfortunately you are pissing into the wind with fab trying to arrange a gangbang group meet as a tvts on here … |
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There are so many timewasters and wankers on Fab that any attempt to organise a gangbang is doomed to failure before you start.
The only non-club solution is to build up, over time, a Harem of guys who are real, turn up and perform, and then find a day, time and venue that works for them all.
And even then a lot will let you down. It is massively difficult.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I might sound old now but when I first started swinging it was by adds in mags to box nos
There was very few time wasters as not hinding behind a email address |
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Unfortunately Fab is filled with fantasist, keyboard warriors and cam wankers (not all of men are like that, just to put it out there).
It’s difficult enough to find one who will actually turn up, not to mention a group.
Hope you will get to fulfil your fantasy, and good luck! |
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By *b72Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
The problem with this place is that it's full of fantasist, married without permission and secret bi. Add in those that aren't comfortable in a group setting and location, your pool of possables are limited. As others have mentioned try a club or work your way up to a gang bang with guys who enjoy you.
Personally don't understand as your sexy as hell, but then I'm 150 miles away
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Ive literally just made a post asking about this subject, i know we are in different situations but the general setup would be similar.
Sounds like a lot of hard work for not so much hard pleasure
Good luck though x |
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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Taunton Somerset |
"So I joined here hoping to find a group of guys willing to use me. Not necessarily fuck me if they don’t want but I was hoping to suck their cocks, lick their arses while they watch and egg each other on. So far had nothing but tiemwaaters amd fantasists claiming to have friends who are wanting to join in until I gets to the day then miraculously everyone else is busy or has pulled out (after pushing they eventually admit they hasn’t even asked their friends and it was a lie)
I obviously recognise not all groups of friends are going to admit wanting to meet TV’s to their friends but surely there must be some who are up for getting sucked and rimmed and maybe fucking me? I’d genuinely travel for this. Whilst it’s not the most common thing in the world, I know it does happen amongst some friends cause I’ve seen verifications and vidoes on here of it.
I know even straight women and couples have issues arranging group meets, why does it seem everyone loves the idea but doesn’t go through with it? "
As others have said if you go to a club on a trans or bi day you’ll find what you’re after.
Trying to arrange meets online is very hit and miss. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
I tried for a good couple of years to set up a gangbang… I gave up in the end.
Clubs- it is very rare that I find ONE person I want to have fun with, let alone two or more! 
Anyway… there’s always hot photos and videos for me to vicariously live a gangbang.  |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
I would have thought the best way in here would have been starting to meet single guys and then build your own gang bang team.
If you have met several times before you should be able to get a regular group together. But your profile states no single meets.
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Feeling your pain hun, it’s a shame more guys don’t team up on here, or guys up for hosting a group at there places don’t arrange gangbangs etc, I’m also into being group fucked too, but had a couple off here and regulars who share me out, but shame there’s not more groups other than at tv clubs x |
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"I might sound old now but when I first started swinging it was by adds in mags to box nos
There was very few time wasters as not hinding behind a email address "
The fact anyone can use Fab, completely free of charge, doesn't help either. If it was made to be a full pay site, the 'less than genuine' would rapidly disappear... |
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over a year ago
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I know even straight women and couples have issues arranging group meets, why does it seem everyone loves the idea but doesn’t go through with it? "
Yes, it's been something we've tried to arrange multiple times, with mixed results...
As you say, you're going to get fantasists, who are horny when they write to you and after a positive response use that thought to entertain themselves, and go quiet. Many will develop work issues at the last minute. Some will simply not show up. And you'll lose people to genuine last minute issues.
Some guys however will arrive, and we've met some amazing guys on Fab this way. There are incredible, amazing gentlemen on here that are too easily clouded over by the let-downs their peers cause.
But, for all the "admin" and getting prepared on the night leading to at best a lesser situation than you had hoped is so frustrating, and so easily taken to heart.
There are steps you can take such as talking by phone beforehand, reading all reviews - and the reviews of those that leave the reviews - which increases your chances of a good night.
The alternative is a club, which whilst is our go-to approach now, can never have any guarantees. You can't build a frisson of excitement with people in a build-up process (beyond a drink in the bar).
Finally, there's some MM couples on here that specialise, and could be a good solution.
But, keep going, keep trying. You will improve at finding exactly what you're looking for, and those times it works out are the times that live in your memory forever! X |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"The fact anyone can use Fab, completely free of charge, doesn't help either. If it was made to be a full pay site, the 'less than genuine' would rapidly disappear..."
there are other sites that are pay only and trust me they are alot worse than here for messers ... |
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By *J_SpiceyCouple
over a year ago
Kinky Kings Lynn |
At the club I run, we can put on specials if girls seek gangbangs. We can work together to pick the number of guys wanted and the girls preference to give maximum enjoyment to all attendees.
It’s not about going on a club night, we arrange a non public club night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I joined here hoping to find a group of guys willing to use me. Not necessarily fuck me if they don’t want but I was hoping to suck their cocks, lick their arses while they watch and egg each other on. So far had nothing but tiemwaaters amd fantasists claiming to have friends who are wanting to join in until I gets to the day then miraculously everyone else is busy or has pulled out (after pushing they eventually admit they hasn’t even asked their friends and it was a lie)
I obviously recognise not all groups of friends are going to admit wanting to meet TV’s to their friends but surely there must be some who are up for getting sucked and rimmed and maybe fucking me? I’d genuinely travel for this. Whilst it’s not the most common thing in the world, I know it does happen amongst some friends cause I’ve seen verifications and vidoes on here of it.
I know even straight women and couples have issues arranging group meets, why does it seem everyone loves the idea but doesn’t go through with it? "
Can’t we organise this on this thread people? I’m in and will pay for the venue for the night. How many men do you need babe? X |
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"Thanks for advice but I’m just not keen on the club scene "
Then this will just stay a fantasy ultimately unfortunately for you.
Another option is take a holiday to cap dagde in France during summer. It’s a nudist resort with a huge swinging element. There is insane levels of sex of all types in the beach going off and group blow jobs are very common.
Bonus you get a nice holiday and meet cool people in general |
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"Not really into clubs can’t really explain why just doesn’t do it for me "
Shame. If you went to any of Legs800, sweet Wednesday or LoveJoys, all clubs down in London, you would be gamg banged without even asking for it, just get on all fours in a room and they will be all over you |
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By *tuvyMan
over a year ago
bedford |
"Goto s gay sauna club on tgirl day. A busy located one you will be able to fill your boots on that
Unfortunately you are pissing into the wind with fab trying to arrange a gangbang group meet as a tvts on here … "
I can’t message you directly but you are stunning Libby xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might sound old now but when I first started swinging it was by adds in mags to box nos
There was very few time wasters as not hinding behind a email address
The fact anyone can use Fab, completely free of charge, doesn't help either. If it was made to be a full pay site, the 'less than genuine' would rapidly disappear..."
Yeah, if the site supporter the £5 every 2 months etc gave you access to send and receive messages.
That would be my idea. |
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You are so right. I (Si) do the admin for the group and it can be practically a full time job. Sometimes even the other guys don't get how much work it can be. Practically we have a rule that the lady or couple gets to choose times that work for them. That usually means one or two of us can't make it but it's easier than the madness of trying to coordinate several diaries. One of us then hosts somewhere around Heathrow or we get a hotel. Only had one instance where the guy hosting ( who was new to the group) let us down the day before but that is so tedious! Sorry - rant over! If only I could find a way to relax ;-p
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I know even straight women and couples have issues arranging group meets, why does it seem everyone loves the idea but doesn’t go through with it?
Yes, it's been something we've tried to arrange multiple times, with mixed results...
As you say, you're going to get fantasists, who are horny when they write to you and after a positive response use that thought to entertain themselves, and go quiet. Many will develop work issues at the last minute. Some will simply not show up. And you'll lose people to genuine last minute issues.
Some guys however will arrive, and we've met some amazing guys on Fab this way. There are incredible, amazing gentlemen on here that are too easily clouded over by the let-downs their peers cause.
But, for all the "admin" and getting prepared on the night leading to at best a lesser situation than you had hoped is so frustrating, and so easily taken to heart.
There are steps you can take such as talking by phone beforehand, reading all reviews - and the reviews of those that leave the reviews - which increases your chances of a good night.
The alternative is a club, which whilst is our go-to approach now, can never have any guarantees. You can't build a frisson of excitement with people in a build-up process (beyond a drink in the bar).
Finally, there's some MM couples on here that specialise, and could be a good solution.
But, keep going, keep trying. You will improve at finding exactly what you're looking for, and those times it works out are the times that live in your memory forever! X"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi I think while most men think this is an amazing?ing think and all jump at the chance but when it comes go the actual meeting they shit their pants and start thinking more about the other men and start asking who's going to be there how meny then all of a sudden the questions start adding up so they just end up backing out instead of just going for it hope thos makes good sence |
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