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In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.
Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.
She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only. 
To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.
**awaits the backlash…. |
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"It’s their preference, but you also can state yours.
If they don’t wanna kiss, don’t meet them!
People can be very odd about things on here so don’t be disheartened. "
Oh not disheartening at all, we get quite a few offers that fit the bill. 
As said it’s a preference, what’s interesting is at least one of these guys have a fabguys profile which state kissing, must be shy in front of the lady  |
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"To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.
**awaits the backlash…."
Hope you don’t get any backlash, you’re entitled to your opinion and your preferences just as others are.
What I would say though is that speaking on a very generalised basis, it seems harder for men to come out as bi than women, particularly on a site such as this were bi men are excluded by many simply for identifying as bi when the play on offer is purely straight.
What I’m trying to get at is that if people are openly staying they are a bi-male here, I would be inclined to believe them as I doubt they would be doing so when it can seem to be more preferable to say they were straight.
Random logic that I’ve probably made a terrible mess of but it makes sense to me  |
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I guess it's a matter of personal preference. For me, my seminal bi experiences involved no kissing whatsoever, just lots of oral and rimming. I enjoyed that straight away, but the kissing didn't happen for a long time after that. I don't know why, but I felt it wasn't what other guys wanted as I am a bearded guy and thought that might put off other bi guys. |
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"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.
Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.
She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.
To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.
**awaits the backlash…."
I Ben would not kiss another man. |
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"Also I know that some guys are very happy to kiss a TV/CD but put that girl in male mode and they won’t kiss them … people’s personal preference I guess "
That is true in my case...as Raven they practically want to snog my face off but if I was in male mode, it's a no... |
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I would call myself bi-curious and wouldn't mind trying going down on a guy, but then I've always known I have fascination with peniseseseses.
I like the feminine form, I think I may like dicks, I don't like the masculine form. I did try d*unkenly kissing a guy once, horrendous experience, stubble etc, no. |
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This need to be talked about more. Sexuality is a spectrum not black and white. Personally I have no interest in kissing, penetrating or being penetrated by a man however I want to experiment with mutual masturbation, frotting and I love DVP with a hot couple especially when we communicate and cum together. Am I bi? Or just not bi enough for you? |
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"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.
Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.
She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.
To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.
**awaits the backlash…."
No backlash but it's just another preference doesn't mean they aren't fully bisexuality though I wouldnt of thougbt. I rarely kiss men in bi play but I don't over think why I don't,it either happens or it doesn't. |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
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"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.
Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.
She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.
To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.
**awaits the backlash…."
Kissing or not is a preference as stated in few posts above. There are few couples (fully straight or bi) here that leave kiss to themself as it’s a bit more intimate thing and they would be happy to engage in other sexual activities.
It doesn’t mean a guy isn’t bisexual.
As for me - I love kiss. Guys and Girls. I tend not to engage with these not into kissing unless it’s a play scenario for anon/blindfold role play |
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"This need to be talked about more. Sexuality is a spectrum not black and white. Personally I have no interest in kissing, penetrating or being penetrated by a man however I want to experiment with mutual masturbation, frotting and I love DVP with a hot couple especially when we communicate and cum together. Am I bi? Or just not bi enough for you? "
My take on it is - if you are physically attracted to guys, regardless of if you only like oral or more and would play on own then definitely Bi.
If you just play with dick but only in a mmf and that’s it, then bicurious Ior just put up with it to get a shag
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Do they know your 6'7" in high heels or is the precinct roof a little lower where I live
"Also I know that some guys are very happy to kiss a TV/CD but put that girl in male mode and they won’t kiss them … people’s personal preference I guess
That is true in my case...as Raven they practically want to snog my face off but if I was in male mode, it's a no..."
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"This need to be talked about more. Sexuality is a spectrum not black and white. Personally I have no interest in kissing, penetrating or being penetrated by a man however I want to experiment with mutual masturbation, frotting and I love DVP with a hot couple especially when we communicate and cum together. Am I bi? Or just not bi enough for you?
My take on it is - if you are physically attracted to guys, regardless of if you only like oral or more and would play on own then definitely Bi.
If you just play with dick but only in a mmf and that’s it, then bicurious Ior just put up with it to get a shag
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What if I want to meet a guy alone to try frotting and mutual masturbation without a woman? Same rules as above.. what am I? It’s difficult to quantify or define, people just need to communicate about their boundaries more I guess.
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"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.
Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.
She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.
To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.
**awaits the backlash…."
You'll find comments on other threads where "bi" guys meet a couple but are more interested in the women at the meet. I think it's about being clear about expectations beforehand so that there's no misunderstandings. |
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"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss...
To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual. "
I understand your frustration. However, I suspect it's no different to straight women who would suck a cock, but not kiss.
It doesn't make me doubt they're bi (though plenty of things do!). I think it often just means they haven't done that yet
Personally, I think it's incredible kissing other guys - and it makes Alice go weak at the knees!  |
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I don’t kiss men simply as I don’t particularly really get any sexual excitement from kissing.
I mean I’ll tolerate a lip kiss but not full tongues as it just is mehhh. Now a relationship partner I would see that differently but not remotely a casual fuck hook up .
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"To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.
**awaits the backlash….
Hope you don’t get any backlash, you’re entitled to your opinion and your preferences just as others are.
What I would say though is that speaking on a very generalised basis, it seems harder for men to come out as bi than women, particularly on a site such as this were bi men are excluded by many simply for identifying as bi when the play on offer is purely straight.
What I’m trying to get at is that if people are openly staying they are a bi-male here, I would be inclined to believe them as I doubt they would be doing so when it can seem to be more preferable to say they were straight.
Random logic that I’ve probably made a terrible mess of but it makes sense to me "
Very well said beautiful lady x |
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"I don’t kiss men simply as I don’t particularly really get any sexual excitement from kissing.
I mean I’ll tolerate a lip kiss but not full tongues as it just is mehhh. Now a relationship partner I would see that differently but not remotely a casual fuck hook up .
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Doesn’t help that a lot of men (in my exp) aren’t good kissers. Too lazy or aggressive. |
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"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.
Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.
She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.
To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.
**awaits the backlash…."
Some couples profiles state they don't want to kiss between play partners so why would it shock that some men don't want to? |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"It’s their preference, but you also can state yours.
If they don’t wanna kiss, don’t meet them!
People can be very odd about things on here so don’t be disheartened.
Oh not disheartening at all, we get quite a few offers that fit the bill.
As said it’s a preference, what’s interesting is at least one of these guys have a fabguys profile which state kissing, must be shy in front of the lady "
and one i understand when me and hubs play bi it was you kissed or you dont play ...cant be having sex with out kissing and that includes bi guys |
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Big difference between first meets and regular fun surely ?
We have all been a bit reserved to start with but on further meets her more confident
That’s my take anyway |
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It's a strange one, that I've wrestled with myself a little bit.
Mentally, and it makes no sense, somehow my brain thinks its less intimate to touch and suck a guy with my Mrs than I would be to kiss a bloke.
It's totally misplaced, and incorrect, but its just the default setting almost.
It's a barrier I would probably have to make a conscious effort to get past and then it would probably be nothing next time!
Plus it's super hypocritical of me, as I'd never want a meet with a woman that wasn't willing to kiss either. It's mad, and I know it's probably wrong, but it's how I'm wired at the moment... |
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"It's a strange one, that I've wrestled with myself a little bit.
Mentally, and it makes no sense, somehow my brain thinks its less intimate to touch and suck a guy with my Mrs than I would be to kiss a bloke.
It's totally misplaced, and incorrect, but its just the default setting almost.
It's a barrier I would probably have to make a conscious effort to get past and then it would probably be nothing next time!
Plus it's super hypocritical of me, as I'd never want a meet with a woman that wasn't willing to kiss either. It's mad, and I know it's probably wrong, but it's how I'm wired at the moment..."
I agree with this, kissing is more intimate for someone you might fancy etc but performing sex acts etc is just sex and fun....... So I've done it but I don't fancy guys but the wife gets horny seeing the sex acts |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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Its funny you should say that as I have found couples who are happy for me to lick her out, suck his cock and have them both suck my cock but NO kissing either of them.
Beggars can't be choosers so I go along with their rules but I would prefer to snog while fucking
"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.
Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.
She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.
To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.
**awaits the backlash…."
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"In our limited experience so far we found that there are not many bi (or claiming to be bi) that kiss.
Interesting they will suck a cock but find it too gay to kiss.
She likes the guys to be all in rather than them wanting to kiss the female only.
To the point that now we doubt every man claiming to be bisexual.
**awaits the backlash…."
Love kissing while i stroke him or when hes penetrating me, feeling and hearing his moans as we are kissing knowing iv got him excited x |
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"I don’t kiss men simply as I don’t particularly really get any sexual excitement from kissing.
I mean I’ll tolerate a lip kiss but not full tongues as it just is mehhh. Now a relationship partner I would see that differently but not remotely a casual fuck hook up .
Doesn’t help that a lot of men (in my exp) aren’t good kissers. Too lazy or aggressive. "
Yeah experienced that before. Had one moron in a couple once actually bite on my tongue  what a weirdo I thought lol |
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Tbh, although I'm bisexual, I don't find men attractive, and I doubt I'd meet a guy on his own. I appreciate that might sound strange?
I just love cock, I'll suck, rim and get penetrated or penetrate, I'll even take cum in my mouth, but please don't expect me to french kiss a guy. Many couples profiles on here state the Woman doesn't kiss, and I fully understand that. It's an intimate act, not a sex act. |
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