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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I need to understand why some couples and single ladies prefer to play with married/attached men.

They seem to state that it’s less hassle, how come ?

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By *J_SpiceyCouple over a year ago

Kinky Kings Lynn

Posted this on a separate post but feel it’s relevant here:

If the single person is playing away or cheating without permission that is their decision.

The consequences of being caught or found out is their risk assessment.

Without adding morals and contrary to thoughts, this can have benefits for all concerned especially if a cheating single and a couple.

Play can be regular. The cheat has all to lose so oddly will be loyal and faithful to that couple.

One on ones (especially when one or both are married) for me isn’t true swinging and can lead to feelings and emotions and that’s not a good mix in this game.

For those married playing with permission, whilst it seems more odd, it’s maybe less of an attractive proposition to a couple.

It does happen for many reasons. My belief would be you all meet up to discuss boundaries before the married single joins your play.

And the kink/bdsm lifestyle differs from pure swinging which is what we are discussing.

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By *haron StonerTV/TS over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Safer not to be relationship avaliable and less hassle as they don't want their boat rocked either.

Another woman? You might get off the hook with some grovelling...

but she won't like catching you with me definitely.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like my partners to have other partners. It means everyone knows where they stand and doesn't get it into their head that it's ever going to be a cohabiting codependant nightmare

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve had more hassle with attached men than single men. I understand the theory though

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By *carletnsparksMan over a year ago

halifax

At a guess they think this will stop any possible feelings developing and therefore be a safe bet.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near

"Posted this on a separate post but feel it’s relevant here:

If the single person is playing away or cheating without permission that is their decision.

The consequences of being caught or found out is their risk assessment.

Without adding morals and contrary to thoughts, this can have benefits for all concerned especially if a cheating single and a couple.

Play can be regular. The cheat has all to lose so oddly will be loyal and faithful to that couple.

One on ones (especially when one or both are married) for me isn’t true swinging and can lead to feelings and emotions and that’s not a good mix in this game.

For those married playing with permission, whilst it seems more odd, it’s maybe less of an attractive proposition to a couple.

It does happen for many reasons. My belief would be you all meet up to discuss boundaries before the married single joins your play.

And the kink/bdsm lifestyle differs from pure swinging which is what we are discussing."

Agree 100pc

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Play can be regular. The cheat has all to lose so oddly will be loyal and faithful to that couple.

One on ones (especially when one or both are married) for me isn’t true swinging and can lead to feelings and emotions and that’s not a good mix in this game.

I see…. Interesting dynamics for those who just seek only attached men.

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