If you see a profile you like, they have checked out yours, but your are marginally outside their preferred age range? (I mean a year or two) is it okay to message? Or do you respect the boundaries and hope they message you? |
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If its a year or two have faith in your profile presentation and take your chances worse that can happen is no reply
They can get rude and then you just block them don't even waste energy and time replying
If the profile seems to be adamant that they will not be interested in any age outside their desired age margin then respect that and not approach x hope that makes sense x |
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"If its a year or two have faith in your profile presentation and take your chances worse that can happen is no reply
They can get rude and then you just block them don't even waste energy and time replying
If the profile seems to be adamant that they will not be interested in any age outside their desired age margin then respect that and not approach x hope that makes sense x"
Makes absolute sense, thanks. I am just conscious of not being a pest and respecting boundaries - I don’t wanna be “that guy” but also for the sake of a year or two, sometimes I wonder if it’s worth asking the question |
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"If its a year or two have faith in your profile presentation and take your chances worse that can happen is no reply
They can get rude and then you just block them don't even waste energy and time replying
If the profile seems to be adamant that they will not be interested in any age outside their desired age margin then respect that and not approach x hope that makes sense x
Makes absolute sense, thanks. I am just conscious of not being a pest and respecting boundaries - I don’t wanna be “that guy” but also for the sake of a year or two, sometimes I wonder if it’s worth asking the question "
 I fully understand you keep not wanting to be that guy. There's many on here and no one needs to look or feel desperate happy swinging mr  x |
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"If its a year or two have faith in your profile presentation and take your chances worse that can happen is no reply
They can get rude and then you just block them don't even waste energy and time replying
If the profile seems to be adamant that they will not be interested in any age outside their desired age margin then respect that and not approach x hope that makes sense x
Makes absolute sense, thanks. I am just conscious of not being a pest and respecting boundaries - I don’t wanna be “that guy” but also for the sake of a year or two, sometimes I wonder if it’s worth asking the question
I fully understand you keep not wanting to be that guy. There's many on here and no one needs to look or feel desperate happy swinging mr x"
Same to you, and thanks for the feedback! |
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"If its a year or two have faith in your profile presentation and take your chances worse that can happen is no reply
They can get rude and then you just block them don't even waste energy and time replying
If the profile seems to be adamant that they will not be interested in any age outside their desired age margin then respect that and not approach x hope that makes sense x
Makes absolute sense, thanks. I am just conscious of not being a pest and respecting boundaries - I don’t wanna be “that guy” but also for the sake of a year or two, sometimes I wonder if it’s worth asking the question
I fully understand you keep not wanting to be that guy. There's many on here and no one needs to look or feel desperate happy swinging mr x
Same to you, and thanks for the feedback!"
aww thank you absolutely no problem x |
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"If you see a profile you like, they have checked out yours, but your are marginally outside their preferred age range? (I mean a year or two) is it okay to message? Or do you respect the boundaries and hope they message you? "
unfortunately d*unk me and sober me have two different thoughts
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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If they have their filters on you shouldn't be able to message anyhow.
And if I saw I wasn't what someone was looking for I wouldn't message them.If they have it on their profile it's there for a reason. |
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"If its a year or two have faith in your profile presentation and take your chances worse that can happen is no reply
They can get rude and then you just block them don't even waste energy and time replying
If the profile seems to be adamant that they will not be interested in any age outside their desired age margin then respect that and not approach x hope that makes sense x
Makes absolute sense, thanks. I am just conscious of not being a pest and respecting boundaries - I don’t wanna be “that guy” but also for the sake of a year or two, sometimes I wonder if it’s worth asking the question "
If you're 'respecting their boundaries', you would know not to message them... |
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We've found that age ranges aren't necessarily a hard boundary for some. We've been messaged by profiles (men, women and couples) who we've been too old or too young for in the past.
Fab a couple of their photos and pop them a wink then leave it at that |
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I'd always respect their preference and not message if I'm not what they seek.
I have lots of filters on including age ,sadly some have changed their age to get round it in the past .If they change their age to get beyond a filter they're not for me. |
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So you're already doing well to consider it OP. 