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To fake or not to fake
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Just been reading someone else's post about oral and it got me thinking.
I never cum with oral, despite guys telling me how fantastic they are with their tongues, it just doesn't happen...and I don't see the point in faking just to make them feel better.
So my question is, do other women fake orgasm just to get it over with or make their partners feel better? Is there any point in faking it because then he thinks he is truly fantabulous? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am exactly the same. I used to fake sometimes to make my partner feel good but since swinging I have decided it's best to just accept that I don't cum during oral and just make sure I do in other ways. But like you say, most guys think their tongue is the best ever. |
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I tend to not bother faking, I have done in the past with ex's though I do admit! I think it's pretty obvious when a woman fakes though, when I cum I pulse and literally cant stay still and my heartbeat can be felt easily through my clit so any guy who knew what he was doing would know that I hadn't cum and that I was faking!  |
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Nope.
I have done in the past, but not anymore. Not only are you perpetuating a guy's belief that he has made you cum when he hasn't (and has it ever occurred that some of these guys have never made a woman cum, just had a succession of women who faked it) but you also cheat yourself.
If you have the confidence to say from the start 'I rarely cum when this is happening but if we do this or try that it's far more likely' it can pay dividends.
I can be tricky, but can cum very easily with toys. And when I've cum a few times in succession I cum very easily and also through penetration. So q guy who is comfortable and happy to get my input will get a.multi orgasmic lengthy session and repeat invitations. A guy who asserts that I should 'trust me I always make women cum this way' is likely to get a brief session with a grumpy woman. |
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over a year ago
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I would not fake it for two reasons..
1) it would mean that they then thought that they had done it the "right way" for me, and so they would continue to do it that way.
2) i am not here to massage egos |
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over a year ago
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Nope.
I just tell him to stop as it is unlikely I would reach climax.
Done that before, when I was very close to reaching my O, then got very distracted due to cramp in my legs and lost it.
I need to practice wearing heels more!   |
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"I can reliably always make ladies cum hard using my fingers but it is a bit hit and miss with other parts lol"
Fingers are a completely different ball game....I very rarely fail to cum with fingers... |
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"Ladies. I have to say, as a man, just be honest. I would rather the women tell me what does it for her - it means we both get more out of it that way."
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Very true, and I am always honest, some would say too honest! |
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"Ladies. I have to say, as a man, just be honest. I would rather the women tell me what does it for her - it means we both get more out of it that way.
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Very true, and I am always honest, some would say too honest! "
You can't be too honest - just say it how it is! |
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"Ladies. I have to say, as a man, just be honest. I would rather the women tell me what does it for her - it means we both get more out of it that way."
Seconded. How am I going to know I'm doing it wrong if you don't tell me? |
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"Ladies. I have to say, as a man, just be honest. I would rather the women tell me what does it for her - it means we both get more out of it that way.
Seconded. How am I going to know I'm doing it wrong if you don't tell me?"
some guys can get quite offended if you mention to them how they are doing it isnt to your liking, ive had guys say things like...well ive never had any complaints before and other women like it like this etc when i have asked them to do it the way i like, infact on a few occasions it had totally killed the night
Some guys like to be told how you like it, some dont, its hard to know which is which, a couple of times i have wished id just kept quiet and let they carry on |
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"Ladies. I have to say, as a man, just be honest. I would rather the women tell me what does it for her - it means we both get more out of it that way.
Seconded. How am I going to know I'm doing it wrong if you don't tell me?
some guys can get quite offended if you mention to them how they are doing it isnt to your liking, ive had guys say things like...well ive never had any complaints before and other women like it like this etc when i have asked them to do it the way i like, infact on a few occasions it had totally killed the night
Some guys like to be told how you like it, some dont, its hard to know which is which, a couple of times i have wished id just kept quiet and let they carry on"
Those guys are morons then!
I'd much rather be told, as for me swinging isn't just about my pleasure.
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"Ladies. I have to say, as a man, just be honest. I would rather the women tell me what does it for her - it means we both get more out of it that way.
Seconded. How am I going to know I'm doing it wrong if you don't tell me?
some guys can get quite offended if you mention to them how they are doing it isnt to your liking, ive had guys say things like...well ive never had any complaints before and other women like it like this etc when i have asked them to do it the way i like, infact on a few occasions it had totally killed the night
Some guys like to be told how you like it, some dont, its hard to know which is which, a couple of times i have wished id just kept quiet and let they carry on"
Well I work on the basis that every woman is unique and likes different things, so the more feedback I get, the better. |
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I have not experienced any negativity when I informed the gents about what worked and not worked for me while we were having fun, as they all aimed to please, and my enjoyment was their enjoyment etc...
Perhaps I have been lucky with my choice of playmates.
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"Nope.
I have done in the past, but not anymore. Not only are you perpetuating a guy's belief that he has made you cum when he hasn't (and has it ever occurred that some of these guys have never made a woman cum, just had a succession of women who faked it) but you also cheat yourself.
If you have the confidence to say from the start 'I rarely cum when this is happening but if we do this or try that it's far more likely' it can pay dividends. "
"it would mean that they then thought that they had done it the "right way" for me, and so they would continue to do it that way."
Everyone is different and you get so much pleasure finding out what the women likes, even if she can't/doesn't cum! As long as you do what she enjoys  |
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"Ladies. I have to say, as a man, just be honest. I would rather the women tell me what does it for her - it means we both get more out of it that way.
Seconded. How am I going to know I'm doing it wrong if you don't tell me?"
It isn't a case of doing it 'wrong'.....Oral just doesn't do it for me... |
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"Just been reading someone else's post about oral and it got me thinking.
I never cum with oral, despite guys telling me how fantastic they are with their tongues, it just doesn't happen...and I don't see the point in faking just to make them feel better.
So my question is, do other women fake orgasm just to get it over with or make their partners feel better? Is there any point in faking it because then he thinks he is truly fantabulous? "
I faked with my fuckbud/playmate last time i saw him but he was boring me lol |
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"Just been reading someone else's post about oral and it got me thinking.
I never cum with oral, despite guys telling me how fantastic they are with their tongues, it just doesn't happen...and I don't see the point in faking just to make them feel better.
So my question is, do other women fake orgasm just to get it over with or make their partners feel better? Is there any point in faking it because then he thinks he is truly fantabulous?
I faked with my fuckbud/playmate last time i saw him but he was boring me lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just been reading someone else's post about oral and it got me thinking.
I never cum with oral, despite guys telling me how fantastic they are with their tongues, it just doesn't happen...and I don't see the point in faking just to make them feel better.
So my question is, do other women fake orgasm just to get it over with or make their partners feel better? Is there any point in faking it because then he thinks he is truly fantabulous?
I faked with my fuckbud/playmate last time i saw him but he was boring me lol
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least im honest |
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By *ike 1978Man
over a year ago
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"Ladies. I have to say, as a man, just be honest. I would rather the women tell me what does it for her - it means we both get more out of it that way.
Seconded. How am I going to know I'm doing it wrong if you don't tell me?"
Agreed if I am doing something wrong or not enough then as a man I need to know so I can improve, every day is a school day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No i never i like to tell them i have no cum so thay work harder ,lol "
I'm the same I don't see the point to fake it means it won't change next time so honesty is better |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Just been reading someone else's post about oral and it got me thinking.
I never cum with oral, despite guys telling me how fantastic they are with their tongues, it just doesn't happen...and I don't see the point in faking just to make them feel better.
So my question is, do other women fake orgasm just to get it over with or make their partners feel better? Is there any point in faking it because then he thinks he is truly fantabulous? "
Faking it is just cheating yourself. I never fake. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
I think I am one of a few women who don't have sensitive nipples. Men are very disappointed when I don't react and ask them to stop. One tried to made me feel abnormal that I did not have erect nipples. 
Rub pinch lick all you like nothing will happen. |
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Im lucky i cum loads through oral tho,don't think i would want to fake it if not.
