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Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!! |
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My partner and I met on here. Only a very small handful of people know we are on here.
Privacy is a huge thing for the both of us. So we don't advertise the fact. But we weren't even actually/properly together before we opened a couples account on here. |
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"My partner and I met on here. Only a very small handful of people know we are on here.
Privacy is a huge thing for the both of us. So we don't advertise the fact. But we weren't even actually/properly together before we opened a couples account on here. "
How did the topic of conversation pop up about opening a couples account? was you both for it or was one hesitant? |
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Mr R suggested it to me several yeara back as something he would like to try. I thought about it for a while before agreeing to give it a go. First time we were on here it was a bit mixed for us and in the end I said it wasn't for me. We came off fab as we had agreed any play would be together. However last year I suprised him and said I would be open to going to Xtasia as he'd mentioned it a few times before and now we are back again. We know a bit more what we are/aren't looking for this time round as well. |
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"My partner and I met on here. Only a very small handful of people know we are on here.
Privacy is a huge thing for the both of us. So we don't advertise the fact. But we weren't even actually/properly together before we opened a couples account on here.
How did the topic of conversation pop up about opening a couples account? was you both for it or was one hesitant?"
Having met through the site. It wasn't an issue to talk about things in that way.
I think deep down, we both knew we were going to end up as more than just fuck buddies. And we both wanted 3somes. So it was kinda of a logical thing to do I guess.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I lost my virginity at an orgy.
I spent a lot of years thinking I was just a slut. Then I found the poly community. And now life is good  "
When did this happen and where? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few months after Mr and I started getting to know each other, and all that jazz, the subject of swinging randomly came up after I'd sent a meme about gangbangs 
He'd already been on Fab as a single, and suggested we make a couples profile since he'd now unlocked my 'inner slut'lol - and it felt amazing just being able to accept my sexuality and for us to enjoy the sex life we've always wanted to have, but just never had the opportunity before now.
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"Mr R suggested it to me several yeara back as something he would like to try. I thought about it for a while before agreeing to give it a go. First time we were on here it was a bit mixed for us and in the end I said it wasn't for me. We came off fab as we had agreed any play would be together. However last year I suprised him and said I would be open to going to Xtasia as he'd mentioned it a few times before and now we are back again. We know a bit more what we are/aren't looking for this time round as well. "
Well that’s fair enough I definitely think communication is the absolute key to this kind of lifestyle especially in couples. |
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"My partner and I met on here. Only a very small handful of people know we are on here.
Privacy is a huge thing for the both of us. So we don't advertise the fact. But we weren't even actually/properly together before we opened a couples account on here.
How did the topic of conversation pop up about opening a couples account? was you both for it or was one hesitant?
Having met through the site. It wasn't an issue to talk about things in that way.
I think deep down, we both knew we were going to end up as more than just fuck buddies. And we both wanted 3somes. So it was kinda of a logical thing to do I guess.
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You both definitely found what you was looking for then |
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We both had single profiles didn't know each other, then by chance met one day at kestrels she was with a friend I on my own got chatting met later in the dark room several times before she had to go, exchanged fab details first. Been together a year last month. Couples profile for almost that time as well. Happy  |
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"A few months after Mr and I started getting to know each other, and all that jazz, the subject of swinging randomly came up after I'd sent a meme about gangbangs
He'd already been on Fab as a single, and suggested we make a couples profile since he'd now unlocked my 'inner slut'lol - and it felt amazing just being able to accept my sexuality and for us to enjoy the sex life we've always wanted to have, but just never had the opportunity before now.
Mrs"
Ahhhhh nice, this is interesting though because it was the missus who introduced me to all this, with you being introduced to this lifestyle do you often have plenty of questions or any issues with how it all works… because I’m still finding my feet and often ask questions about certain scenarios |
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over a year ago
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Have been doing it for about 6yr now..
it started while I was having a beer in the pub one evening & got talking to a couple..
Met up with the same couple a few times & I did think that they were swingers but kept quiet.. after a couple months it all came out & fun began..
I have a FB who knows what I do & she is interested in it but has low confidence.. but I’m working on her.. |
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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago
warrington |
"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!"
I used to run a bar, and was good friends with one of my barmaids who was a few years older than me at the time. We used to go out dancing and clubbing after finishing shifts and closing the pub, and even hung about together on days off, I though nothing more of it than friends and she was cool to hang about with.
Anyways one day we were shopping and she said she needed to try some clothes on, so I left her to it while I browsed the guys section. Next thing I got a call saying come to the fitting rooms and tell me if this outfit suits me.
When I got there she had her head sticking out of the curtain, checked no one was around and then came out in the sexiest red lingerie outfit (corset style top, little French knickers and stockings) to say I wasn't expecting it was an understatement, so kind of mumbled something about it being good yeah! She proceeded to try on 2 more sexy outfits and showing them off to me before buying them and us heading for tea like nothing unusual had happened.
The next time we went out after work as we were dancing she was grinding all over me, and then literally grabbed my
hard cock through my pants in the middle of the dancefloor while whispering to me that she was wearing that red outfit for me.... I didnt know what to say, but we left pretty sharpish and went back to hers so I could check she wasn't lying !!
Apparently the fashion show had even her way of seducing me, and when that didn't work she went more direct haha.
We agreed to stay fwb, and had fun whenever we could, but saw other people too, and then one time we were at her place she had invited a friend over who was even more direct. Her friend literllay poured a drink on my pants while saying "you better take them off, cant have you sitting round in wet clothes..." and this turned into a ffm, a youngster (22) seduced by 2 attractive 30 year old!
After these 2 events my friend opened up to me about wanting to go to swingers clubs and try swinging with other couples and threesomes etc, and so I became immersed and fascinated by the swinging world!
We had a few more ffm with that friend, but never made it to a club. We eventually drifted out of touch as we moved jobs
Then I ended up here and found lots more like minded people! |
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"We both had single profiles didn't know each other, then by chance met one day at kestrels she was with a friend I on my own got chatting met later in the dark room several times before she had to go, exchanged fab details first. Been together a year last month. Couples profile for almost that time as well. Happy "
Sounds like a match made in heaven then |
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"Have been doing it for about 6yr now..
it started while I was having a beer in the pub one evening & got talking to a couple..
Met up with the same couple a few times & I did think that they were swingers but kept quiet.. after a couple months it all came out & fun began..
I have a FB who knows what I do & she is interested in it but has low confidence.. but I’m working on her.."
Does she often ask questions about it all? |
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"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!
I used to run a bar, and was good friends with one of my barmaids who was a few years older than me at the time. We used to go out dancing and clubbing after finishing shifts and closing the pub, and even hung about together on days off, I though nothing more of it than friends and she was cool to hang about with.
Anyways one day we were shopping and she said she needed to try some clothes on, so I left her to it while I browsed the guys section. Next thing I got a call saying come to the fitting rooms and tell me if this outfit suits me.
When I got there she had her head sticking out of the curtain, checked no one was around and then came out in the sexiest red lingerie outfit (corset style top, little French knickers and stockings) to say I wasn't expecting it was an understatement, so kind of mumbled something about it being good yeah! She proceeded to try on 2 more sexy outfits and showing them off to me before buying them and us heading for tea like nothing unusual had happened.
The next time we went out after work as we were dancing she was grinding all over me, and then literally grabbed my
hard cock through my pants in the middle of the dancefloor while whispering to me that she was wearing that red outfit for me.... I didnt know what to say, but we left pretty sharpish and went back to hers so I could check she wasn't lying !!
Apparently the fashion show had even her way of seducing me, and when that didn't work she went more direct haha.
We agreed to stay fwb, and had fun whenever we could, but saw other people too, and then one time we were at her place she had invited a friend over who was even more direct. Her friend literllay poured a drink on my pants while saying "you better take them off, cant have you sitting round in wet clothes..." and this turned into a ffm, a youngster (22) seduced by 2 attractive 30 year old!
After these 2 events my friend opened up to me about wanting to go to swingers clubs and try swinging with other couples and threesomes etc, and so I became immersed and fascinated by the swinging world!
We had a few more ffm with that friend, but never made it to a club. We eventually drifted out of touch as we moved jobs
Then I ended up here and found lots more like minded people!"
Now that sounds amazing, it’s a shame you guys drifted apart then. Are you guys not in touch at all anymore then? |
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"We both had single profiles didn't know each other, then by chance met one day at kestrels she was with a friend I on my own got chatting met later in the dark room several times before she had to go, exchanged fab details first. Been together a year last month. Couples profile for almost that time as well. Happy
Sounds like a match made in heaven then "
Yes it is  |
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We started by having a kind of sexy instagram account for naughty pics. Got added into a few group chats on there and someone mentioned about Fab.
Joined on a Tuesday and had a female round for a meet that Saturday.
We’re now at the point that we realize we really enjoy clubs as we haven’t had the best luck outside of club environment. |
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"We started by having a kind of sexy instagram account for naughty pics. Got added into a few group chats on there and someone mentioned about Fab.
Joined on a Tuesday and had a female round for a meet that Saturday.
We’re now at the point that we realize we really enjoy clubs as we haven’t had the best luck outside of club environment. "
What is it about the club environment you like? |
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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago
warrington |
"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!
I used to run a bar, and was good friends with one of my barmaids who was a few years older than me at the time. We used to go out dancing and clubbing after finishing shifts and closing the pub, and even hung about together on days off, I though nothing more of it than friends and she was cool to hang about with.
Anyways one day we were shopping and she said she needed to try some clothes on, so I left her to it while I browsed the guys section. Next thing I got a call saying come to the fitting rooms and tell me if this outfit suits me.
When I got there she had her head sticking out of the curtain, checked no one was around and then came out in the sexiest red lingerie outfit (corset style top, little French knickers and stockings) to say I wasn't expecting it was an understatement, so kind of mumbled something about it being good yeah! She proceeded to try on 2 more sexy outfits and showing them off to me before buying them and us heading for tea like nothing unusual had happened.
The next time we went out after work as we were dancing she was grinding all over me, and then literally grabbed my
hard cock through my pants in the middle of the dancefloor while whispering to me that she was wearing that red outfit for me.... I didnt know what to say, but we left pretty sharpish and went back to hers so I could check she wasn't lying !!
Apparently the fashion show had even her way of seducing me, and when that didn't work she went more direct haha.
We agreed to stay fwb, and had fun whenever we could, but saw other people too, and then one time we were at her place she had invited a friend over who was even more direct. Her friend literllay poured a drink on my pants while saying "you better take them off, cant have you sitting round in wet clothes..." and this turned into a ffm, a youngster (22) seduced by 2 attractive 30 year old!
After these 2 events my friend opened up to me about wanting to go to swingers clubs and try swinging with other couples and threesomes etc, and so I became immersed and fascinated by the swinging world!
We had a few more ffm with that friend, but never made it to a club. We eventually drifted out of touch as we moved jobs
Then I ended up here and found lots more like minded people!
Now that sounds amazing, it’s a shame you guys drifted apart then. Are you guys not in touch at all anymore then? "
Nope unfortunately not, it was almost 20 years ago now. We had joined swinging heaven together back then, and I progressed to here, but shes never shown back up!
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"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!
I used to run a bar, and was good friends with one of my barmaids who was a few years older than me at the time. We used to go out dancing and clubbing after finishing shifts and closing the pub, and even hung about together on days off, I though nothing more of it than friends and she was cool to hang about with.
Anyways one day we were shopping and she said she needed to try some clothes on, so I left her to it while I browsed the guys section. Next thing I got a call saying come to the fitting rooms and tell me if this outfit suits me.
When I got there she had her head sticking out of the curtain, checked no one was around and then came out in the sexiest red lingerie outfit (corset style top, little French knickers and stockings) to say I wasn't expecting it was an understatement, so kind of mumbled something about it being good yeah! She proceeded to try on 2 more sexy outfits and showing them off to me before buying them and us heading for tea like nothing unusual had happened.
The next time we went out after work as we were dancing she was grinding all over me, and then literally grabbed my
hard cock through my pants in the middle of the dancefloor while whispering to me that she was wearing that red outfit for me.... I didnt know what to say, but we left pretty sharpish and went back to hers so I could check she wasn't lying !!
Apparently the fashion show had even her way of seducing me, and when that didn't work she went more direct haha.
We agreed to stay fwb, and had fun whenever we could, but saw other people too, and then one time we were at her place she had invited a friend over who was even more direct. Her friend literllay poured a drink on my pants while saying "you better take them off, cant have you sitting round in wet clothes..." and this turned into a ffm, a youngster (22) seduced by 2 attractive 30 year old!
After these 2 events my friend opened up to me about wanting to go to swingers clubs and try swinging with other couples and threesomes etc, and so I became immersed and fascinated by the swinging world!
We had a few more ffm with that friend, but never made it to a club. We eventually drifted out of touch as we moved jobs
Then I ended up here and found lots more like minded people!
Now that sounds amazing, it’s a shame you guys drifted apart then. Are you guys not in touch at all anymore then?
Nope unfortunately not, it was almost 20 years ago now. We had joined swinging heaven together back then, and I progressed to here, but shes never shown back up!
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That’s a massive shame is that! But clearly got your taste of it with her back then! |
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By *rGenMan
over a year ago
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My brother introduced it to me, as he used it a lot.
I thought er OK, my turn then.
This is my 3rd or even 4th profile, I get bored or peed off with fab delete my profile and verifications  then find I am back soon after, starting again.
It's an addiction..but getting a tad old for it now as can't message loads of possible interesting folk, still giving it a go though. |
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"We met through mutual swinger friends. Been together 6 years now. Married next year.
How did the topic come up? "
We both had single profiles at the time, old swinger friends of mine had met her and thought we would be a good match, and we're still together happy and in love x |
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By accident in our case, took several years for it to come about what we’d done in the past but neither had the courage to discuss it and still both struggle at times if honest as both very private people especially when it comes to those around us, hence no one has any idea as far as we know! Still a long way to go with opening up more from both of us but glad we made the first step and hopefully as time goes on and general life/work stop getting in the way we can explore much more together  |
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Spoke about it in passing for a few years but never seriously we had a d*unken mff with a friend which we both enjoyed that same friend came round another night and showed D an app to find threesomes and more D downloaded it and sent me a link which the app was rubbish so we found this as an alternative so for us it just all kind off happened some good stories here though |
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"We started by having a kind of sexy instagram account for naughty pics. Got added into a few group chats on there and someone mentioned about Fab.
Joined on a Tuesday and had a female round for a meet that Saturday.
We’re now at the point that we realize we really enjoy clubs as we haven’t had the best luck outside of club environment.
What is it about the club environment you like? "
Being watched and watching others |
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"My brother introduced it to me, as he used it a lot.
I thought er OK, my turn then.
This is my 3rd or even 4th profile, I get bored or peed off with fab delete my profile and verifications then find I am back soon after, starting again.
Your brother? Family know about it then or just him?
It's an addiction..but getting a tad old for it now as can't message loads of possible interesting folk, still giving it a go though."
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A guy on Tinder told me about this site. Never done anything like it before but signed up and had some great meets. Told my best friend for safety reasons & then told my kid (adult).
One meet introduced me to a friend who took me to my first swingers club in December and now we are together and having a lot of fun!  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I used to use CL looking for section back in the day when I was a doe eyed, fresh faced twenty one year old.
I loved it at first but quickly found that men thought you were paid more often than not. And treated you in that sort of way. One person I met mentioned this site - me being in my cockslut phase jumped in legs wide open and here I am now.
Dating? I'm not really a swinger. But they'd definitely know I'm poly. |
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"We met through mutual swinger friends. Been together 6 years now. Married next year.
How did the topic come up?
We both had single profiles at the time, old swinger friends of mine had met her and thought we would be a good match, and we're still together happy and in love x "
Who broke the ice first when it came to the joint account? |
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"By accident in our case, took several years for it to come about what we’d done in the past but neither had the courage to discuss it and still both struggle at times if honest as both very private people especially when it comes to those around us, hence no one has any idea as far as we know! Still a long way to go with opening up more from both of us but glad we made the first step and hopefully as time goes on and general life/work stop getting in the way we can explore much more together "
Well you’ve took a big step by being on here  where do you eventually want to end up or what’s the next step? |
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"Spoke about it in passing for a few years but never seriously we had a d*unken mff with a friend which we both enjoyed that same friend came round another night and showed D an app to find threesomes and more D downloaded it and sent me a link which the app was rubbish so we found this as an alternative so for us it just all kind off happened some good stories here though "
How do you find fab? You find it easy to get what you guys want? |
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"We started by having a kind of sexy instagram account for naughty pics. Got added into a few group chats on there and someone mentioned about Fab.
Joined on a Tuesday and had a female round for a meet that Saturday.
We’re now at the point that we realize we really enjoy clubs as we haven’t had the best luck outside of club environment.
What is it about the club environment you like?
Being watched and watching others"
How hot is it knowing others are watching you and getting off on what you and a partner is doing. It’s such a great feeling |
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"A guy on Tinder told me about this site. Never done anything like it before but signed up and had some great meets. Told my best friend for safety reasons & then told my kid (adult).
One meet introduced me to a friend who took me to my first swingers club in December and now we are together and having a lot of fun! "
How do you find the conversations about clubs?
I find a lot of people on here got introduced to fab through other dating apps |
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"We started by having a kind of sexy instagram account for naughty pics. Got added into a few group chats on there and someone mentioned about Fab.
Joined on a Tuesday and had a female round for a meet that Saturday.
We’re now at the point that we realize we really enjoy clubs as we haven’t had the best luck outside of club environment.
What is it about the club environment you like?
Being watched and watching others
How hot is it knowing others are watching you and getting off on what you and a partner is doing. It’s such a great feeling "
Absolutely love seeing others get turned on watching us play |
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"A guy on Tinder told me about this site. Never done anything like it before but signed up and had some great meets. Told my best friend for safety reasons & then told my kid (adult).
One meet introduced me to a friend who took me to my first swingers club in December and now we are together and having a lot of fun!
How do you find the conversations about clubs?
I find a lot of people on here got introduced to fab through other dating apps "
With the people I've told or on here? |
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"I used to use CL looking for section back in the day when I was a doe eyed, fresh faced twenty one year old.
I loved it at first but quickly found that men thought you were paid more often than not. And treated you in that sort of way. One person I met mentioned this site - me being in my cockslut phase jumped in legs wide open and here I am now.
Dating? I'm not really a swinger. But they'd definitely know I'm poly."
Legs wide open hahaha love it.
Where do you think the line is between being called a swinger and someone who just loves sex? |
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"We started by having a kind of sexy instagram account for naughty pics. Got added into a few group chats on there and someone mentioned about Fab.
Joined on a Tuesday and had a female round for a meet that Saturday.
We’re now at the point that we realize we really enjoy clubs as we haven’t had the best luck outside of club environment.
What is it about the club environment you like?
Being watched and watching others
How hot is it knowing others are watching you and getting off on what you and a partner is doing. It’s such a great feeling
Absolutely love seeing others get turned on watching us play "
You know you’ve done a good job when you get a high five at the end… not by your partner by the way.. haha someone watching |
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"A guy on Tinder told me about this site. Never done anything like it before but signed up and had some great meets. Told my best friend for safety reasons & then told my kid (adult).
One meet introduced me to a friend who took me to my first swingers club in December and now we are together and having a lot of fun!
How do you find the conversations about clubs?
I find a lot of people on here got introduced to fab through other dating apps
With the people I've told or on here? "
With the person who took you to a club… are you planning on more visits? |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!"
Googled adult clubs after we planned a steamy night in and the kids decided to stay in!
Then it just happened in a club with another couple after a few drinks without any conversation with my partner, we were in a relationship where it was normal to make decisions for each other and quickly and discuss after.
Never knew about swinging until 7 years ago.
I just make it clear when I go on ‘regular’ dates that I’m poly. occasionally they try it or they run a mile, more often we stay friends and they play with the idea for a while then decide not for them |
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"A guy on Tinder told me about this site. Never done anything like it before but signed up and had some great meets. Told my best friend for safety reasons & then told my kid (adult).
One meet introduced me to a friend who took me to my first swingers club in December and now we are together and having a lot of fun!
How do you find the conversations about clubs?
I find a lot of people on here got introduced to fab through other dating apps
With the people I've told or on here?
With the person who took you to a club… are you planning on more visits?"
We went every Friday for 9 weeks I think it was and also Xmas eve and nye. We haven't been the last few weeks as both not been well but hopefully be back next Friday. I can talk to him about anything. We're very open with each other plus he's been swinging many years whilst I'm still quite new & he's definitely showing me the ropes |
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"My partner and I met on here. Only a very small handful of people know we are on here.
Privacy is a huge thing for the both of us. So we don't advertise the fact. But we weren't even actually/properly together before we opened a couples account on here.
How did the topic of conversation pop up about opening a couples account? was you both for it or was one hesitant?
Having met through the site. It wasn't an issue to talk about things in that way.
I think deep down, we both knew we were going to end up as more than just fuck buddies. And we both wanted 3somes. So it was kinda of a logical thing to do I guess.
You both definitely found what you was looking for then "
Definitely! Coming home to one and other with a story of what we got up to, drives the other wild! |
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"I was introduced to the site after a MFF with my best mate .. x
What was your first reaction about it?"
To the site.. i was really interested in it… it was the night I had my first mff , they told me about it and at the time they were on here as a couple, I created a profile and within the same night I was off.. I knew what it was about but I wasn’t prepared for the inboxes of dick picks... had a bit of time off it came back in and not looked back since x |
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D told me stories about her past life when she was in London in the 80s. She used to frequent the private drinking clubs and told me of some of the events. She also revealed that she had a female partner for a while and that she was curious how I would react to that. We were in Edinburgh and after a particularly hot sex session she asked if I would allow her to invite a female friend to join us in the future. We googled and found FAB , joined and had great fun. I did all of the “Admin” but she always had the choice of yes or no. |
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"We met through mutual swinger friends. Been together 6 years now. Married next year.
How did the topic come up?
We both had single profiles at the time, old swinger friends of mine had met her and thought we would be a good match, and we're still together happy and in love x
Who broke the ice first when it came to the joint account?"
Her idea, made it easier to reply. |
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"I was introduced to the site after a MFF with my best mate .. x
What was your first reaction about it?
To the site.. i was really interested in it… it was the night I had my first mff , they told me about it and at the time they were on here as a couple, I created a profile and within the same night I was off.. I knew what it was about but I wasn’t prepared for the inboxes of dick picks... had a bit of time off it came back in and not looked back since x"
I can imagine it being overpowering when you get constant dick pics because as couples we get the same so I can’t imagine what it’s like for a single woman. I don’t get why men can’t get it into their heads that it’s not great to do that straight away. |
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"D told me stories about her past life when she was in London in the 80s. She used to frequent the private drinking clubs and told me of some of the events. She also revealed that she had a female partner for a while and that she was curious how I would react to that. We were in Edinburgh and after a particularly hot sex session she asked if I would allow her to invite a female friend to join us in the future. We googled and found FAB , joined and had great fun. I did all of the “Admin” but she always had the choice of yes or no. "
So the process sounded easy for you guys. Never looked back since? |
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"We met through mutual swinger friends. Been together 6 years now. Married next year.
How did the topic come up?
We both had single profiles at the time, old swinger friends of mine had met her and thought we would be a good match, and we're still together happy and in love x
Who broke the ice first when it came to the joint account? Her idea, made it easier to reply."
Who does most of the work on here? I.e messages, fabbing etc… |
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"D told me stories about her past life when she was in London in the 80s. She used to frequent the private drinking clubs and told me of some of the events. She also revealed that she had a female partner for a while and that she was curious how I would react to that. We were in Edinburgh and after a particularly hot sex session she asked if I would allow her to invite a female friend to join us in the future. We googled and found FAB , joined and had great fun. I did all of the “Admin” but she always had the choice of yes or no.
So the process sounded easy for you guys. Never looked back since?"
It worked really well, unfortunately D is no longer able to play due to a long term condition |
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"I lost my virginity at an orgy.
I spent a lot of years thinking I was just a slut. Then I found the poly community. And now life is good
Now that is interesting. How did you find it all?"
That was my first experience, so that was the baseline for the next ten years |
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"Spoke about it in passing for a few years but never seriously we had a d*unken mff with a friend which we both enjoyed that same friend came round another night and showed D an app to find threesomes and more D downloaded it and sent me a link which the app was rubbish so we found this as an alternative so for us it just all kind off happened some good stories here though
How do you find fab? You find it easy to get what you guys want?"
yea it’s good a lot of people With no self awareness though we have found avoid them and you can find a hidden gem |
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By *emma200Woman
over a year ago
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"I was introduced to the site after a MFF with my best mate .. x
What was your first reaction about it?
To the site.. i was really interested in it… it was the night I had my first mff , they told me about it and at the time they were on here as a couple, I created a profile and within the same night I was off.. I knew what it was about but I wasn’t prepared for the inboxes of dick picks... had a bit of time off it came back in and not looked back since x
I can imagine it being overpowering when you get constant dick pics because as couples we get the same so I can’t imagine what it’s like for a single woman. I don’t get why men can’t get it into their heads that it’s not great to do that straight away. "
They don’t really bother my anymore .. they just get ignored, deleted or blocked x |
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We had a general chat about fantasies, his ffm and I was bicurious so we had a look and found fab, we've had 2 profiles as a couple had a little break after having the little one and back again now, we enjoy the social side as much as the sexual side, it's great to meet people so open and honest about sex.
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"A few months after Mr and I started getting to know each other, and all that jazz, the subject of swinging randomly came up after I'd sent a meme about gangbangs
He'd already been on Fab as a single, and suggested we make a couples profile since he'd now unlocked my 'inner slut'lol - and it felt amazing just being able to accept my sexuality and for us to enjoy the sex life we've always wanted to have, but just never had the opportunity before now.
Mrs
Ahhhhh nice, this is interesting though because it was the missus who introduced me to all this, with you being introduced to this lifestyle do you often have plenty of questions or any issues with how it all works… because I’m still finding my feet and often ask questions about certain scenarios "
I'll be perfectly honest, even though we've had our couples profile for a wee while now, we are both still finding our feet and taking our time getting to know people without rushing into meets all the time. Monogamous sex never really fulfilled me, and I didn't really understand why. I was never unfaithful although had plenty of opportunities over the years. I love sex, and being stuck with vanilla sex and partners who were selfish lovers was just frustrating. When Mr and I got together, we instantly clicked, and the sex was and still is out of this world without even involving anyone else. I think the connection we have is a huge part in this because we talk about everything. And I mean everything. Things we want to try, things we aren't sure about, concerns about jealousy, fantasies, good points, bad points. We are completely open with each other, and we don't argue as such - we talk things through and listen to each others point of view. I've never had that with anyone before and it feels amazing. We just have this deep level of trust and I love it. So my best suggestion would be to keep talking about things and don't be afraid of asking questions. For us, we both love sex, and being able to share that with other people is such a turn on
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"We had a general chat about fantasies, his ffm and I was bicurious so we had a look and found fab, we've had 2 profiles as a couple had a little break after having the little one and back again now, we enjoy the social side as much as the sexual side, it's great to meet people so open and honest about sex.
Mrs "
That's the same for us, we love the social side as much as the fun. And being open and honest about sex as well, it's so liberating
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Did partner swaps and 3 somes as a teenager. Then did 15 year monogamous marriage. Found the kink scene 6 years ago , outstanding experiences still doing that. Swinging clubs less than a year , love both now always go alone never on my own long |
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"D told me stories about her past life when she was in London in the 80s. She used to frequent the private drinking clubs and told me of some of the events. She also revealed that she had a female partner for a while and that she was curious how I would react to that. We were in Edinburgh and after a particularly hot sex session she asked if I would allow her to invite a female friend to join us in the future. We googled and found FAB , joined and had great fun. I did all of the “Admin” but she always had the choice of yes or no.
So the process sounded easy for you guys. Never looked back since?
It worked really well, unfortunately D is no longer able to play due to a long term condition "
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"I lost my virginity at an orgy.
I spent a lot of years thinking I was just a slut. Then I found the poly community. And now life is good
Now that is interesting. How did you find it all?
That was my first experience, so that was the baseline for the next ten years "
What was the next step from there, how do you even top it? |
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"Spoke about it in passing for a few years but never seriously we had a d*unken mff with a friend which we both enjoyed that same friend came round another night and showed D an app to find threesomes and more D downloaded it and sent me a link which the app was rubbish so we found this as an alternative so for us it just all kind off happened some good stories here though
How do you find fab? You find it easy to get what you guys want? yea it’s good a lot of people With no self awareness though we have found avoid them and you can find a hidden gem "
Are you guys a picky couple, like you know exactly what you want and won’t settle for any less? |
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"I was introduced to the site after a MFF with my best mate .. x
What was your first reaction about it?
To the site.. i was really interested in it… it was the night I had my first mff , they told me about it and at the time they were on here as a couple, I created a profile and within the same night I was off.. I knew what it was about but I wasn’t prepared for the inboxes of dick picks... had a bit of time off it came back in and not looked back since x
I can imagine it being overpowering when you get constant dick pics because as couples we get the same so I can’t imagine what it’s like for a single woman. I don’t get why men can’t get it into their heads that it’s not great to do that straight away.
They don’t really bother my anymore .. they just get ignored, deleted or blocked x"
I bet as a single woman you will get the odd few who will constantly message you despite you ignoring them or what not. I presume you know exactly what you are looking for then? |
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"We took our first tentative steps with our close friends, that went on for a few years then we got more adventurous and never looked back."
With friends? Now that’s interesting. Was you not afraid it would go sour if something happened or if anyone got jealous or even a fall out? |
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"After getting together we often fantasised with eachother about having someone watch us. It all progressed from there. "
Have you guys moved on from other people watching you or still at that stage? |
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"We had a general chat about fantasies, his ffm and I was bicurious so we had a look and found fab, we've had 2 profiles as a couple had a little break after having the little one and back again now, we enjoy the social side as much as the sexual side, it's great to meet people so open and honest about sex.
Mrs "
How good is the social side of it? I find it brilliant (mr speaking) how nice a large majority of the people are. I’ve rarely seen anything bad in a club environment. Everyone seems so nice and down to earth |
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"A few months after Mr and I started getting to know each other, and all that jazz, the subject of swinging randomly came up after I'd sent a meme about gangbangs
He'd already been on Fab as a single, and suggested we make a couples profile since he'd now unlocked my 'inner slut'lol - and it felt amazing just being able to accept my sexuality and for us to enjoy the sex life we've always wanted to have, but just never had the opportunity before now.
Mrs
Ahhhhh nice, this is interesting though because it was the missus who introduced me to all this, with you being introduced to this lifestyle do you often have plenty of questions or any issues with how it all works… because I’m still finding my feet and often ask questions about certain scenarios
I'll be perfectly honest, even though we've had our couples profile for a wee while now, we are both still finding our feet and taking our time getting to know people without rushing into meets all the time. Monogamous sex never really fulfilled me, and I didn't really understand why. I was never unfaithful although had plenty of opportunities over the years. I love sex, and being stuck with vanilla sex and partners who were selfish lovers was just frustrating. When Mr and I got together, we instantly clicked, and the sex was and still is out of this world without even involving anyone else. I think the connection we have is a huge part in this because we talk about everything. And I mean everything. Things we want to try, things we aren't sure about, concerns about jealousy, fantasies, good points, bad points. We are completely open with each other, and we don't argue as such - we talk things through and listen to each others point of view. I've never had that with anyone before and it feels amazing. We just have this deep level of trust and I love it. So my best suggestion would be to keep talking about things and don't be afraid of asking questions. For us, we both love sex, and being able to share that with other people is such a turn on
Mrs"
I think your relationship and ours is very much similar. The trust me and L have is amazing. We are so open and honest with stuff and like you said the fantasies, it’s just absolutely amazing. |
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"Did partner swaps and 3 somes as a teenager. Then did 15 year monogamous marriage. Found the kink scene 6 years ago , outstanding experiences still doing that. Swinging clubs less than a year , love both now always go alone never on my own long "
So been doing it some time now. How do you find the clubs? Do you prefer meets out of clubs or what scenario do you prefer? |
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"A few months after Mr and I started getting to know each other, and all that jazz, the subject of swinging randomly came up after I'd sent a meme about gangbangs
He'd already been on Fab as a single, and suggested we make a couples profile since he'd now unlocked my 'inner slut'lol - and it felt amazing just being able to accept my sexuality and for us to enjoy the sex life we've always wanted to have, but just never had the opportunity before now.
Mrs
Ahhhhh nice, this is interesting though because it was the missus who introduced me to all this, with you being introduced to this lifestyle do you often have plenty of questions or any issues with how it all works… because I’m still finding my feet and often ask questions about certain scenarios
I'll be perfectly honest, even though we've had our couples profile for a wee while now, we are both still finding our feet and taking our time getting to know people without rushing into meets all the time. Monogamous sex never really fulfilled me, and I didn't really understand why. I was never unfaithful although had plenty of opportunities over the years. I love sex, and being stuck with vanilla sex and partners who were selfish lovers was just frustrating. When Mr and I got together, we instantly clicked, and the sex was and still is out of this world without even involving anyone else. I think the connection we have is a huge part in this because we talk about everything. And I mean everything. Things we want to try, things we aren't sure about, concerns about jealousy, fantasies, good points, bad points. We are completely open with each other, and we don't argue as such - we talk things through and listen to each others point of view. I've never had that with anyone before and it feels amazing. We just have this deep level of trust and I love it. So my best suggestion would be to keep talking about things and don't be afraid of asking questions. For us, we both love sex, and being able to share that with other people is such a turn on
Mrs
I think your relationship and ours is very much similar. The trust me and L have is amazing. We are so open and honest with stuff and like you said the fantasies, it’s just absolutely amazing. "
Without the trust and communication it just wouldn't work for me, at least. And I know he feels the same. Cannot imagine doing life with anyone else now
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Hi OP,
Had a chance one night MFF many years ago that created a spark that smouldered in the background.
Married with the best of intentions, but it was a sexless, controlling disaster. Cut off from family, friends I was a bit of an emotional zombie. I needed an escape to save my soul. A swingers site is somewhere where you chat chat to people who will not accidentally contact your controller.
Divorced and so happy. |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
Seen my partner, give a guy a blow job without them, knowing I was watching, and getting turned on by it.
I later told her what I’d seen how it made me feel, and we have the best sex ever. We took it from the convention to a club to see what it was all about. This was, however, back in 1988. |
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"What was the next step from there, how do you even top it?"
Why would I need to top it?
Obviously I got to know a few people there and got invites to other house parties, eventually to the clubs once I was old enough to drink. I've just always seen sex as a fun and non exclusive thing. |
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"A few months after Mr and I started getting to know each other, and all that jazz, the subject of swinging randomly came up after I'd sent a meme about gangbangs
He'd already been on Fab as a single, and suggested we make a couples profile since he'd now unlocked my 'inner slut'lol - and it felt amazing just being able to accept my sexuality and for us to enjoy the sex life we've always wanted to have, but just never had the opportunity before now.
Mrs
Ahhhhh nice, this is interesting though because it was the missus who introduced me to all this, with you being introduced to this lifestyle do you often have plenty of questions or any issues with how it all works… because I’m still finding my feet and often ask questions about certain scenarios
I'll be perfectly honest, even though we've had our couples profile for a wee while now, we are both still finding our feet and taking our time getting to know people without rushing into meets all the time. Monogamous sex never really fulfilled me, and I didn't really understand why. I was never unfaithful although had plenty of opportunities over the years. I love sex, and being stuck with vanilla sex and partners who were selfish lovers was just frustrating. When Mr and I got together, we instantly clicked, and the sex was and still is out of this world without even involving anyone else. I think the connection we have is a huge part in this because we talk about everything. And I mean everything. Things we want to try, things we aren't sure about, concerns about jealousy, fantasies, good points, bad points. We are completely open with each other, and we don't argue as such - we talk things through and listen to each others point of view. I've never had that with anyone before and it feels amazing. We just have this deep level of trust and I love it. So my best suggestion would be to keep talking about things and don't be afraid of asking questions. For us, we both love sex, and being able to share that with other people is such a turn on
Mrs
I think your relationship and ours is very much similar. The trust me and L have is amazing. We are so open and honest with stuff and like you said the fantasies, it’s just absolutely amazing.
Without the trust and communication it just wouldn't work for me, at least. And I know he feels the same. Cannot imagine doing life with anyone else now
Mrs"
When the feeling is mutual and everything is flowing nicely it makes it all better I agree |
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"Hi OP,
Had a chance one night MFF many years ago that created a spark that smouldered in the background.
Married with the best of intentions, but it was a sexless, controlling disaster. Cut off from family, friends I was a bit of an emotional zombie. I needed an escape to save my soul. A swingers site is somewhere where you chat chat to people who will not accidentally contact your controller.
Divorced and so happy. "
Things worked out for the best then? |
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"Seen my partner, give a guy a blow job without them, knowing I was watching, and getting turned on by it.
I later told her what I’d seen how it made me feel, and we have the best sex ever. We took it from the convention to a club to see what it was all about. This was, however, back in 1988."
Oh wow! Fair play to you on that then. Wouldn’t know what I’d do in that situation |
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"What was the next step from there, how do you even top it?
Why would I need to top it?
Obviously I got to know a few people there and got invites to other house parties, eventually to the clubs once I was old enough to drink. I've just always seen sex as a fun and non exclusive thing."
What do you prefer going to a club or doing like house meets? |
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"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!"
An ex got in touch a few years after we split up and told me she was into the lifestyle. Got my interest piqued, kept looking into it, now can’t think of anything else. Fucked me right up - she wasn’t into it when we were together! |
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"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!
An ex got in touch a few years after we split up and told me she was into the lifestyle. Got my interest piqued, kept looking into it, now can’t think of anything else. Fucked me right up - she wasn’t into it when we were together!"
Did she not give you any indication whilst you two were together? |
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"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!
An ex got in touch a few years after we split up and told me she was into the lifestyle. Got my interest piqued, kept looking into it, now can’t think of anything else. Fucked me right up - she wasn’t into it when we were together!
Did she not give you any indication whilst you two were together?"
Nope. If she had, who knows |
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"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!
An ex got in touch a few years after we split up and told me she was into the lifestyle. Got my interest piqued, kept looking into it, now can’t think of anything else. Fucked me right up - she wasn’t into it when we were together!
Did she not give you any indication whilst you two were together?
Nope. If she had, who knows"
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"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!
An ex got in touch a few years after we split up and told me she was into the lifestyle. Got my interest piqued, kept looking into it, now can’t think of anything else. Fucked me right up - she wasn’t into it when we were together!
Did she not give you any indication whilst you two were together?
Nope. If she had, who knows
You both go together now?"
No, it’s never quite happened, I’m married to someone else and she is well into the lifestyle. There’s been a few near misses and I keep getting drawn back to her but something always stops it |
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"Tell me your stories, how did you start?
How did you tell your partner you wanted to start swinging?
Did you just join fab and take it from there?
Have you always known about the swinging world?
If you are single, how do you break it to people you are dating?
THIS WHOLE WORLD IS FASCINATING! TELL US MORE!!!
An ex got in touch a few years after we split up and told me she was into the lifestyle. Got my interest piqued, kept looking into it, now can’t think of anything else. Fucked me right up - she wasn’t into it when we were together!
Did she not give you any indication whilst you two were together?
Nope. If she had, who knows
You both go together now?
No, it’s never quite happened, I’m married to someone else and she is well into the lifestyle. There’s been a few near misses and I keep getting drawn back to her but something always stops it"
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"We had a general chat about fantasies, his ffm and I was bicurious so we had a look and found fab, we've had 2 profiles as a couple had a little break after having the little one and back again now, we enjoy the social side as much as the sexual side, it's great to meet people so open and honest about sex.
Mrs
How good is the social side of it? I find it brilliant (mr speaking) how nice a large majority of the people are. I’ve rarely seen anything bad in a club environment. Everyone seems so nice and down to earth"
It's great we love the arranged socials and have met some amazing people, we're heading to the Leeds one in may.
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"Hi OP,
Had a chance one night MFF many years ago that created a spark that smouldered in the background.
Married with the best of intentions, but it was a sexless, controlling disaster. Cut off from family, friends I was a bit of an emotional zombie. I needed an escape to save my soul. A swingers site is somewhere where you chat chat to people who will not accidentally contact your controller.
Divorced and so happy.
Things worked out for the best then?"
Working out, it is still a work in progress.
I do look a some of the relationships described here and I am so full of admiration. I think people who have embraced swinging/ENM are in a better emotional place. |
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We was having sex after a night out and Mazikeen whispered into my ear think we should get another woman to join us. That definitely intensified the the sex. After we had finished I said tell me that in the morning when you have not had a drink and laughed.
Well the next morning Mazikeen leaned over and said so are we going to find that other woman. So we started our search online and eventually found FAB after a few weeks of discussions and lots of hot sex talking about it I said well if I am to be allowed to be with another woman would only be fair for her to have another male involved with us and thing kind of went from there and now we are here almost 2 years into our swinging lifestyle and had lots of amazing encounters with single female/ males and couples x |
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"We had a general chat about fantasies, his ffm and I was bicurious so we had a look and found fab, we've had 2 profiles as a couple had a little break after having the little one and back again now, we enjoy the social side as much as the sexual side, it's great to meet people so open and honest about sex.
Mrs
Yes we are going to the next Leeds social it should be great
How good is the social side of it? I find it brilliant (mr speaking) how nice a large majority of the people are. I’ve rarely seen anything bad in a club environment. Everyone seems so nice and down to earth
It's great we love the arranged socials and have met some amazing people, we're heading to the Leeds one in may.
Mrs "
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"Hi OP,
Had a chance one night MFF many years ago that created a spark that smouldered in the background.
Married with the best of intentions, but it was a sexless, controlling disaster. Cut off from family, friends I was a bit of an emotional zombie. I needed an escape to save my soul. A swingers site is somewhere where you chat chat to people who will not accidentally contact your controller.
Divorced and so happy.
Things worked out for the best then?
Working out, it is still a work in progress.
I do look a some of the relationships described here and I am so full of admiration. I think people who have embraced swinging/ENM are in a better emotional place. "
Well I hope you get to where you wanna be and I’m pretty sure you will do |
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On our 3rd date I said my biggest worry is having one person long term to play with and soon discussed getting others involved.
Used google and 1 hour later we drove to local swingers club and 15 years plus still enjoying xx |
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I do look a some of the relationships described here and I am so full of admiration. I think people who have embraced swinging/ENM are in a better emotional place.
Well I hope you get to where you wanna be and I’m pretty sure you will do "
Thank you, one of the strengths of Fab is you get to meet really interesting people from backgrounds and places that you would never otherwise come across. It has been an enriching experience - and some hot sex too. |
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"On our 3rd date I said my biggest worry is having one person long term to play with and soon discussed getting others involved.
Used google and 1 hour later we drove to local swingers club and 15 years plus still enjoying xx"
Wow! So of you both who is the more sexually dominant?
It’s crazy that you took that leap, you don’t often hear of conversations like that especially on a 3rd date haha |
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I do look a some of the relationships described here and I am so full of admiration. I think people who have embraced swinging/ENM are in a better emotional place.
Well I hope you get to where you wanna be and I’m pretty sure you will do
Thank you, one of the strengths of Fab is you get to meet really interesting people from backgrounds and places that you would never otherwise come across. It has been an enriching experience - and some hot sex too."
You do tend to find very interesting people on here. I love hearing about everyone’s stories |
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i met someone on an airplane, a few hours later and I was shocked that me at 6.2” fit into the back of a Nissan micra with someone on my lap. She told me about a couple she knew that are swingers, after some googling I ended up here. Now on my fourth(I think) account as I have a bit of a love hate relationship with the site. |
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"Spoke about it in passing for a few years but never seriously we had a d*unken mff with a friend which we both enjoyed that same friend came round another night and showed D an app to find threesomes and more D downloaded it and sent me a link which the app was rubbish so we found this as an alternative so for us it just all kind off happened some good stories here though
How do you find fab? You find it easy to get what you guys want? yea it’s good a lot of people With no self awareness though we have found avoid them and you can find a hidden gem
Are you guys a picky couple, like you know exactly what you want and won’t settle for any less?"
I wouldnt say picky but we do know what we want D has to be attracted to someone both physically and mentally J only stipulation is that he doesn’t think they are a d*ck if they are decent personality wise we would happily meet for a social and see what happens |
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"i met someone on an airplane, a few hours later and I was shocked that me at 6.2” fit into the back of a Nissan micra with someone on my lap. She told me about a couple she knew that are swingers, after some googling I ended up here. Now on my fourth(I think) account as I have a bit of a love hate relationship with the site."
When you come away from the site do you carry on with the lifestyle or is it just the site you fall out with? |
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"Spoke about it in passing for a few years but never seriously we had a d*unken mff with a friend which we both enjoyed that same friend came round another night and showed D an app to find threesomes and more D downloaded it and sent me a link which the app was rubbish so we found this as an alternative so for us it just all kind off happened some good stories here though
How do you find fab? You find it easy to get what you guys want? yea it’s good a lot of people With no self awareness though we have found avoid them and you can find a hidden gem
Are you guys a picky couple, like you know exactly what you want and won’t settle for any less? I wouldnt say picky but we do know what we want D has to be attracted to someone both physically and mentally J only stipulation is that he doesn’t think they are a d*ck if they are decent personality wise we would happily meet for a social and see what happens "
That’s good then. I think one for us is that you have to firstly be physically attracted to someone but as soon as that person/couple start acting in a certain way they could easily drop to a 2-3/10 cause it can be off putting |
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I was dating someone and he mentioned it was something he used to do before he married his ex. My eyes lit up and he then told me more about it, we went to a party together but it was really quiet. Ended up not dating for long and I never looked into it...
Until lockdown when the cam rooms became my saviour and i started to really enjoy this scene as a single woman. Now exploring clubs and enjoying it. Not sure I'd tell people early on in dating about it, but its interesting reading how many people have met their partners on here, as it threw me the meets ive had wanted to date me, i expected it to be much more throwaway on here! |
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"I was dating someone and he mentioned it was something he used to do before he married his ex. My eyes lit up and he then told me more about it, we went to a party together but it was really quiet. Ended up not dating for long and I never looked into it...
Until lockdown when the cam rooms became my saviour and i started to really enjoy this scene as a single woman. Now exploring clubs and enjoying it. Not sure I'd tell people early on in dating about it, but its interesting reading how many people have met their partners on here, as it threw me the meets ive had wanted to date me, i expected it to be much more throwaway on here!"
I expected it just to be all about sex on this site ngl but what about the cams did you enjoy? It’s not something that crosses our minds |
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Mid 90s with a long since ex.
She always enjoyed read top shelf mags as much as me. We used to joke about contact adds in them.
Talked about fantasies etc
I said I always fancied older lady she said about taking 2 men at once. We talked then talked about soft swing eventually put own add in mag. Agreed to meet a couple never looked back. We separated few years after I met odd couple now again odd single since then
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"I was dating someone and he mentioned it was something he used to do before he married his ex. My eyes lit up and he then told me more about it, we went to a party together but it was really quiet. Ended up not dating for long and I never looked into it...
Until lockdown when the cam rooms became my saviour and i started to really enjoy this scene as a single woman. Now exploring clubs and enjoying it. Not sure I'd tell people early on in dating about it, but its interesting reading how many people have met their partners on here, as it threw me the meets ive had wanted to date me, i expected it to be much more throwaway on here!
I expected it just to be all about sex on this site ngl but what about the cams did you enjoy? It’s not something that crosses our minds "
Originally it was because of covid and i was stuck at home and frustrated. But i loved being watched and knowing guys were getting off watching me |
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"Mid 90s with a long since ex.
She always enjoyed read top shelf mags as much as me. We used to joke about contact adds in them.
Talked about fantasies etc
I said I always fancied older lady she said about taking 2 men at once. We talked then talked about soft swing eventually put own add in mag. Agreed to meet a couple never looked back. We separated few years after I met odd couple now again odd single since then
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How did that all go with the Ad? How did it all even go? This is well intriguing.
Do you go to clubs as a single? |
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"I was dating someone and he mentioned it was something he used to do before he married his ex. My eyes lit up and he then told me more about it, we went to a party together but it was really quiet. Ended up not dating for long and I never looked into it...
Until lockdown when the cam rooms became my saviour and i started to really enjoy this scene as a single woman. Now exploring clubs and enjoying it. Not sure I'd tell people early on in dating about it, but its interesting reading how many people have met their partners on here, as it threw me the meets ive had wanted to date me, i expected it to be much more throwaway on here!
I expected it just to be all about sex on this site ngl but what about the cams did you enjoy? It’s not something that crosses our minds
Originally it was because of covid and i was stuck at home and frustrated. But i loved being watched and knowing guys were getting off watching me"
What clubs do you enjoy? Do you still do the cams or because lockdown as lifted you don’t do it anymore? |
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"Mid 90s with a long since ex.
She always enjoyed read top shelf mags as much as me. We used to joke about contact adds in them.
Talked about fantasies etc
I said I always fancied older lady she said about taking 2 men at once. We talked then talked about soft swing eventually put own add in mag. Agreed to meet a couple never looked back. We separated few years after I met odd couple now again odd single since then
How did that all go with the Ad? How did it all even go? This is well intriguing.
Do you go to clubs as a single?"
Been couple times as a single to cupids not as much fun as been part of a couple.
Back mid 90s contact mags slow writing to a box no etc. But no time wasters handing behind a key board when you got a reply was genuine |
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"Mid 90s with a long since ex.
She always enjoyed read top shelf mags as much as me. We used to joke about contact adds in them.
Talked about fantasies etc
I said I always fancied older lady she said about taking 2 men at once. We talked then talked about soft swing eventually put own add in mag. Agreed to meet a couple never looked back. We separated few years after I met odd couple now again odd single since then
How did that all go with the Ad? How did it all even go? This is well intriguing.
Do you go to clubs as a single?
Been couple times as a single to cupids not as much fun as been part of a couple.
Back mid 90s contact mags slow writing to a box no etc. But no time wasters handing behind a key board when you got a reply was genuine "
I’m gonna guess that you have had a few time wasters in your time then? |
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"We had a general chat about fantasies, his ffm and I was bicurious so we had a look and found fab, we've had 2 profiles as a couple had a little break after having the little one and back again now, we enjoy the social side as much as the sexual side, it's great to meet people so open and honest about sex.
Mrs
How good is the social side of it? I find it brilliant (mr speaking) how nice a large majority of the people are. I’ve rarely seen anything bad in a club environment. Everyone seems so nice and down to earth"
The social side is more than just clubs for us, we've got to know some lovely people that have become friends to meet up with, even for just coffee etc. We love that aspect of the lifestyle as much as the actual sex
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I lost my virginity at an orgy.
I spent a lot of years thinking I was just a slut. Then I found the poly community. And now life is good "
I spent most of my adult life thinking I was some kind of slutty, weird pervert...well, actually I am but it turns out there's a whole other community of people out there just like me, and suddenly everything made sense about my sexuality. Meeting Mr has been the best thing to happen to me at all levels
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"We had a general chat about fantasies, his ffm and I was bicurious so we had a look and found fab, we've had 2 profiles as a couple had a little break after having the little one and back again now, we enjoy the social side as much as the sexual side, it's great to meet people so open and honest about sex.
Mrs
How good is the social side of it? I find it brilliant (mr speaking) how nice a large majority of the people are. I’ve rarely seen anything bad in a club environment. Everyone seems so nice and down to earth
The social side is more than just clubs for us, we've got to know some lovely people that have become friends to meet up with, even for just coffee etc. We love that aspect of the lifestyle as much as the actual sex
Mrs"
We haven’t had the opportunity to have a social yet. Unfortunately. But I’d love that where you could discuss what each couple has got up to since the last time they seen each other and not just that talk about anything really
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"Hi OP,
Had a chance one night MFF many years ago that created a spark that smouldered in the background.
Married with the best of intentions, but it was a sexless, controlling disaster. Cut off from family, friends I was a bit of an emotional zombie. I needed an escape to save my soul. A swingers site is somewhere where you chat chat to people who will not accidentally contact your controller.
Divorced and so happy.
Things worked out for the best then?
Working out, it is still a work in progress.
I do look a some of the relationships described here and I am so full of admiration. I think people who have embraced swinging/ENM are in a better emotional place. "
I'm sorry you went through that experience with your marriage. It was the same for me, I was emotionally and psychologically controlled and abused to the point I almost took my own life. Thankfully I didn't, I got out with my kids and started a new life on my own. Then a couple of years later, I randomly got to know Mr, we clicked like we've never clicked with other people before and here we are. I love the deep level of trust and emotional connection we have. I've never experienced anything like it before. And will never, ever take it for granted. Good luck on your journey and remember to always be kind to yourself
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"Hi OP,
Had a chance one night MFF many years ago that created a spark that smouldered in the background.
Married with the best of intentions, but it was a sexless, controlling disaster. Cut off from family, friends I was a bit of an emotional zombie. I needed an escape to save my soul. A swingers site is somewhere where you chat chat to people who will not accidentally contact your controller.
Divorced and so happy.
Things worked out for the best then?
Working out, it is still a work in progress.
I do look a some of the relationships described here and I am so full of admiration. I think people who have embraced swinging/ENM are in a better emotional place.
I'm sorry you went through that experience with your marriage. It was the same for me, I was emotionally and psychologically controlled and abused to the point I almost took my own life. Thankfully I didn't, I got out with my kids and started a new life on my own. Then a couple of years later, I randomly got to know Mr, we clicked like we've never clicked with other people before and here we are. I love the deep level of trust and emotional connection we have. I've never experienced anything like it before. And will never, ever take it for granted. Good luck on your journey and remember to always be kind to yourself
Mrs"
I could see how you could get into that state. It is really hard to describe these types of relationships to someone who has not been through it themselves. To the outside world it seemed like I had the perfect wife.
I am so glad you have found a positive way ahead.
Lovely profile BTW.
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