FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Sleeping overnight with a meet
Sleeping overnight with a meet
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago
London |
It's one of the questions we get out of the way before we meet.
We prefer to stay overnight whenever we meet at a neutral location so we ask what the other party's intention is.
Clarify but we have met some guys that want to go relatively quickly (probably in a relationship), whilst others prefer to stay, as we have a submissive relationship.
No right or wrong.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It really depends . On a first meet very unlikely.
After that I like a guy who can repeat so wouldn't be adverse to it. Who doesn't love middle of the night and morning sex?
However sometimes I do just want my own bed and my own space and for many reasons I've preferred not to sleepover |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I’ve done it three times. The first two were a little awkward. He was a night owl so only came to bed in the early morning. Third time was more intimate. Cuddles and sex. Feels quite personal |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
For me it all depends on the comfort of the other person. Sleeping next to someone after having fun is rather lovely if the other person feels the same way. Waking up in the night to ‘play’ again is always fun and morning sex has always been one of my favourite things.
It’s intimate however so totally understand someone’s reticence on a first meet and often times if they’re part of a couple there are rules, boundaries etc that have to be respected.
So not opposed to it. Can be lots of fun with the right person. Judgement call based on ‘feels’ |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"For me it's a no.
I may got to sleep a booful laydee, but I wake up looking like an Iggy Pop tribute act!"
This made me chuckle 
Does anyone look picture perfect in the mornings? Especially if it’s been an interesting night!
And there’s worse people to look like than Iggy Pop, tribute or otherwise  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Its good manners to offer an overnight sleepover that way the fun doesn't need to feel rushed also to just have fun and then go feels like a wham bam thank you maam
Thats not for me I like to know their mindset and energy over a drink and chat and each time can only get better
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Never done it but would stay if get invited in one bed with women only. Love kisses, cuddles no rushing anywhere. Might offer ever breakfast in bed serving naked. As well as morning sex before leaving.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eliWoman
over a year ago
. |
Yes. Quite often I do. But... I'm also learning that it's quite hot to not if that makes sense? Go home after hours of kissing and then see what happens later.
I quite like waking up next to someone but it's not something I do straight away. For one, my bedhair troll impersonation will wither even the strongest morning glory.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
