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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Raises hand.

There are a few of us on this site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hello fellow kinkster

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This sites what you make of it.

Ive met guys for all kinds of play, not just 'normal' sex, people on here are into all kinds of stuff and if you look hard enough you will find others looking for the same as you, whaever that is.

Some people are just to quick criticize others who dont play the same way as them.

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By *andWnwcplCouple over a year ago

liverpool

Card carrying kinksters here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters "

kinky all the way here x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Two hands raised!

Kinksters here, we say so on our profile.

Alex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kink loving swinger here! Some feel the two don't mix, I've had fun finding they very much can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello fellow kinkster "

Hello to you too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More than you think.

And some, like me, who don;t get a look in lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hands raised here. But I'm on here for sex side and friends.

Although I have more lifestyle friends on here than i do on kink sites lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hello all,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy impact play with people who realize I have more than just an arse to aim for lol!

I used to think of myself as submissive but over the years realize there are very few I have felt truly compliant towards.

so now, I reckon I just enjoy a jolly good thrashing now and then

I'm not into rope.. it's quite beautiful to watch others who indulge but I'm an impatient girl, I get awful bored being trust up so by the time it's done I'm like 'Enough!' get me down!

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By *istress ValeporcaCouple over a year ago

South Yorkshire

loads of us

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By *errynjuneCouple over a year ago

Barnsley

Kinky couple here, but also love lots of extra cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I enjoy impact play with people who realize I have more than just an arse to aim for lol!

I used to think of myself as submissive but over the years realize there are very few I have felt truly compliant towards.

so now, I reckon I just enjoy a jolly good thrashing now and then

I'm not into rope.. it's quite beautiful to watch others who indulge but I'm an impatient girl, I get awful bored being trust up so by the time it's done I'm like 'Enough!' get me down!

We know what you mean, we have a interest in the rope play but couldnt go to some of the extent that some do, takes far too long and Mrs would be bored, just looking at more restraint that the suspension play.

Actually we are just trying everything and seeing what we enjoy or dont lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hands up we're kinky too!

We have friends in the kink scene who are adamant that they aren't swingers but share each others gfs/bfs/fbs...

We also have swinger friends who say they aren't kinky but enjoy alternative sexy undies, a bit of spanking, deep throating and other sexual habits that are a little out of the ordinary...

I'm sure the two cross over more than people will admit. I just find it amusing that people will adamantly deny they are one or the other due to the associations they make with a particular label.

At the end of the day - who cares?! As long as you're enjoying yourself and not harming anyone in anyway, shape or form.

crystal

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Wave's to everyone!!!

But then I'm single and straight so not really a swinger, as was pointed out on yet another thread!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I enjoy impact play with people who realize I have more than just an arse to aim for lol!

I used to think of myself as submissive but over the years realize there are very few I have felt truly compliant towards.

so now, I reckon I just enjoy a jolly good thrashing now and then

I'm not into rope.. it's quite beautiful to watch others who indulge but I'm an impatient girl, I get awful bored being trust up so by the time it's done I'm like 'Enough!' get me down!

Actually we are just trying everything and seeing what we enjoy or dont lol"

Experimenting is loads of fun

I've had some smashing times, and some outright hilarious ones too when it doesn't quite work out!

Have fun guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wave's to everyone!!!

But then I'm single and straight so not really a swinger, as was pointed out on yet another thread!

Faker!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Wave's to everyone!!!

But then I'm single and straight so not really a swinger, as was pointed out on yet another thread!

Faker!!

Don't tell everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wave's to everyone!!!

But then I'm single and straight so not really a swinger, as was pointed out on yet another thread!

Faker!!

Don't tell everyone!

looking great though xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters "

As the OP to the post you mentioned I think it is safe to say I enjoy BDSM...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I enjoy impact play with people who realize I have more than just an arse to aim for lol!

I used to think of myself as submissive but over the years realize there are very few I have felt truly compliant towards.

so now, I reckon I just enjoy a jolly good thrashing now and then

I'm not into rope.. it's quite beautiful to watch others who indulge but I'm an impatient girl, I get awful bored being trust up so by the time it's done I'm like 'Enough!' get me down!

Actually we are just trying everything and seeing what we enjoy or dont lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kinky couple here too! Lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Wave's to everyone!!!

But then I'm single and straight so not really a swinger, as was pointed out on yet another thread!

Faker!!

Don't tell everyone!

looking great though xx"

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not into rope.. it's quite beautiful to watch others who indulge but I'm an impatient girl, I get awful bored being trust up so by the time it's done I'm like 'Enough!' get me down!

I have a roll of gaffa tape with your name on it!...

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm not into rope.. it's quite beautiful to watch others who indulge but I'm an impatient girl, I get awful bored being trust up so by the time it's done I'm like 'Enough!' get me down!

I love rope play! Doesn't have to be the full shebang (see my pic) but love all types of ropes and restraints

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By *atexbound_scotMan over a year ago

Livingston

Guilty as charged...kinky here too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

oooh look at all these pervs lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"oooh look at all these pervs lol "

I know and to think this is a SWING site tut tut what will the regulars think of us???? Time for a spanking I think!

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By *witch mix vanillaCouple over a year ago

Bolton

Well into BDSM/Kink/Rope.

Mrs, Loves being suspended, and even have a suspension hook in the lounge, hidden by a fire alarm.

Also have done suspension with scaffolding in the lounge, yes we are both into it in a big way!

We also have lots and lots of BDSM toys, that is why we like meeting at fetish nights at the Gatehouse.

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By *ub bbwWoman over a year ago

oldbury

Fem here from a kink couple there are more on here than we thought.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"oooh look at all these pervs lol

I know and to think this is a SWING site tut tut what will the regulars think of us???? Time for a spanking I think!"

Historically I think both scenes have tended to have an attitude of being superior to the other. Don't understand it myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its funny.. many swingers say to me.. oh.. how can you do that... yet many in bdsm ask how can you do what we do in swinging.. lol

I like being me and fitting into no category other than being myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well into BDSM/Kink/Rope.

Mrs, Loves being suspended, and even have a suspension hook in the lounge, hidden by a fire alarm.

Also have done suspension with scaffolding in the lounge, yes we are both into it in a big way!

We also have lots and lots of BDSM toys, that is why we like meeting at fetish nights at the Gatehouse."

That explains why a friend of mine has 4 smoke detectors in their bedroom!!!

crystal

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By *atasha_DavidCouple over a year ago

Slough

We are not kinky.

It is all the rest of this site who are repressed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its funny.. many swingers say to me.. oh.. how can you do that... yet many in bdsm ask how can you do what we do in swinging.. lol

I like being me and fitting into no category other than being myself."

My thoughts exactly Cali... no labels or tags, just do what you want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

as always there are more than '50 shades of grey....'

we can be found on the swinging scene and on the fetish scene, sometimes there is a cross over and sometimes that crossover is a little too ouchy for the swinging side and sometimes the fetishists dont swing...

Either way, be 'perverted and proud'

and remember there are more active people on both scenes than there are active members of the National Trust

So when you are next walking around a stately home...

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By *endoverbeckyWoman over a year ago

dublin

love bdsm and loads of different types of kink!

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By *lassic1Man over a year ago

bellshill

Also guilty of all charges...as with 90% of fab members if they would only admit it ...lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its all about the kinky play with us.

Alway looking for something abit differeent

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yet another kinkster here

When swinging I tend to keep things fairly vanilla though, as I have to have a very real trust in a person before entering into a bdsm relationship with them. I also have to find that I CAN submit to the person, and there aren't many out there that I will wholly submit to.

I've got to admit to bring surprised at the number of kinky people on here, which begs the question:

Do people tend to get kinky with swinging playmates, or tend to save it for trusted 'regulars'?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sure there must be people who would class aspects of swinging kinky.

I love watching my OH fucking another woman and bringing himself to orgasm... what aspect of that isn't kinky?

There are men who say they love watching their OH being fucked by other men or watching two women play together - surely that's kinky too?!

I'm certain that there's a crossover - just to different degrees.

crystal

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By *evilwolfCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

But of course we both are. Mrs has always been kinky, and I was kinky before I even realised I was kinky - so there you go

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me me me 'stands on my house roof and waves at Blackpool'

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Weve had a few chats about crossovers in the scenes, but for open minded scenes both scenes can be very singleminded and judgemental on this

which we both fine very strange

we believe the scenes are crossing over even more so recently

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Me me me 'stands on my house roof and waves at Blackpool'

us in Blackpool waves back xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love role play.. But some would probs say its a bit extreme.. But its my choice..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love all sorts of BDSM

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters "

Too many on this site believe it is their right to tell people whether they belong here or not.

I like a little rope play - can get quite involved with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Waves hi

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Waves hi

Back at you!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Waves hi

Back at you!!

Hi foxy

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Waves hi

Back at you!!

Hi foxy

x "

Must be something in the water just now, we'll be taking over the site soon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yup devoted kinkster, fetishist, switch and happy swinger too.

I'd go back to the bdsm sites but tbh have more luck meeting genuine people here!!!

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By *lassic1Man over a year ago

bellshill

As some one once said erotic and sensual is using a feather during foreplay......kinky is using the whole chicken.

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By *evilwolfCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Waves hi

Back at you!!

Hi foxy

Must be something in the water just now, we'll be taking over the site soon

get a dungeon!

Wolf

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Waves hi

Back at you!!

Hi foxy

Must be something in the water just now, we'll be taking over the site soon

get a dungeon!

Wolf

Sounds like a plan!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Waves hi

Back at you!!

Hi foxy

Must be something in the water just now, we'll be taking over the site soon

get a dungeon!

Wolf

Sounds like a plan!

I'm thinking of clearing my coal shed out of all the crap that is in it and making into a dungeon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Waves hi

Back at you!!

Hi foxy

Must be something in the water just now, we'll be taking over the site soon

get a dungeon!

Wolf

Sounds like a plan!

I'm thinking of clearing my coal shed out of all the crap that is in it and making into a dungeon

I'll help! I'm good at interior designing!

Is it gonna be big enough for a cage and a bench and a st andrew's cross and a medical chair?!

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By *pecifically1Woman over a year ago

Hull

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters "

Raises both hands and ankles....oh damn that's because they are still handcuffed together...

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By *evilwolfCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters

Raises both hands and ankles....oh damn that's because they are still handcuffed together..."

It's okay I always carry a key

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By *heWolfMan over a year ago

warwickshire

Give me the Kink too please...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great to see so many on this thread, big fetish lover here

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By *pecifically1Woman over a year ago

Hull

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters

Raises both hands and ankles....oh damn that's because they are still handcuffed together...

It's okay I always carry a key

I wondered where it was Wolf...and all the time..You had it...x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Waves hi

Back at you!!

Hi foxy

Must be something in the water just now, we'll be taking over the site soon

get a dungeon!

Wolf

Sounds like a plan!

I'm thinking of clearing my coal shed out of all the crap that is in it and making into a dungeon

I'll help! I'm good at interior designing!

Is it gonna be big enough for a cage and a bench and a st andrew's cross and a medical chair?!"

Maybe if I knock a partition out but not sure the council would agree to it... I've actually drilled and screwed in eye hooks to my bedroom wall and skirting board to tie a willing player too... now where is my whip?????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yup devoted kinkster, fetishist, switch and happy swinger too.

I'd go back to the bdsm sites but tbh have more luck meeting genuine people here!!!"

Same here...most of the fet sites are full of Yanks, and that's a little bit too far to travel!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

Did someone say St Andrews cross?

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By *rPandSlutCouple over a year ago

wakefield

Hi we like kink two

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By *evilwolfCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters

Raises both hands and ankles....oh damn that's because they are still handcuffed together...

It's okay I always carry a key

I wondered where it was Wolf...and all the time..You had it...x"

I'm a bit of a bugger like that

lol

Wolf

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By *heWolfMan over a year ago

warwickshire

"Did someone say St Andrews cross?

Well, you can't blame him really, people don't usually have a clue when his St. Day is...

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By *mileyBWoman over a year ago

Northwood

That's just silly ..... Are we only allowed to choose one 'kink' and stay in our allotted box???

And are 'swingers' not allowed to be 'kinky' or be into anything else other than just swapping???

Sounds like that couple are a little too 'vanilla' for THIS site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

completely rampant kinkster here too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's just silly ..... Are we only allowed to choose one 'kink' and stay in our allotted box???

And are 'swingers' not allowed to be 'kinky' or be into anything else other than just swapping???

Sounds like that couple are a little too 'vanilla' for THIS site.

Correct... now get back inside your box!

You're not allowed to be an individual and have your own turn ons

crystal

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By *mileyBWoman over a year ago

Northwood

"That's just silly ..... Are we only allowed to choose one 'kink' and stay in our allotted box???

And are 'swingers' not allowed to be 'kinky' or be into anything else other than just swapping???

Sounds like that couple are a little too 'vanilla' for THIS site.

Correct... now get back inside your box!

You're not allowed to be an individual and have your own turn ons

crystal"

Stop it ..... You bring all bossy is turning me on *climbs obediently back into box*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's just silly ..... Are we only allowed to choose one 'kink' and stay in our allotted box???

And are 'swingers' not allowed to be 'kinky' or be into anything else other than just swapping???

Sounds like that couple are a little too 'vanilla' for THIS site.

Correct... now get back inside your box!

You're not allowed to be an individual and have your own turn ons

crystal

Stop it ..... You bring all bossy is turning me on *climbs obediently back into box*

*pats on the head

What an obedient puppy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bdsm is the love of my loin's my sin my soul

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By *ushandkittyCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

We have an interest in light bdsm and have some rope pics on our profile

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By *mileyBWoman over a year ago

Northwood

"That's just silly ..... Are we only allowed to choose one 'kink' and stay in our allotted box???

And are 'swingers' not allowed to be 'kinky' or be into anything else other than just swapping???

Sounds like that couple are a little too 'vanilla' for THIS site.

Correct... now get back inside your box!

You're not allowed to be an individual and have your own turn ons

crystal

Stop it ..... You bring all bossy is turning me on *climbs obediently back into box*

*pats on the head

What an obedient puppy

*simpers*

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By *mileyBWoman over a year ago

Northwood

"That's just silly ..... Are we only allowed to choose one 'kink' and stay in our allotted box???

And are 'swingers' not allowed to be 'kinky' or be into anything else other than just swapping???

Sounds like that couple are a little too 'vanilla' for THIS site.

Correct... now get back inside your box!

You're not allowed to be an individual and have your own turn ons

crystal

Stop it ..... You bring all bossy is turning me on *climbs obediently back into box*

*pats on the head

What an obedient puppy

*simpers*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

100% kinky girl here!

Have met more dominant men I enjoy playing with on here than when I tried kink sites..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another kinky female here.

However what some define as kinky I see as normal.

A vanilla friend views her fluffy handcuffs and blindfold as kinky where to me that's normal (metal handcuffs or bed restraints - not fluffy)

I enjoy BDSM very much and spent a few years in a sub/Dom relationship.

My favourite site for all things kinky is kink dot com.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yep i'm a kink dot com subscriber for a few years now.Any guys wanting to be a great dom watch some of their vids for plenty of ideas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yep i'm a kink dot com subscriber for a few years now.Any guys wanting to be a great dom watch some of their vids for plenty of ideas

Yay I'm not alone. I would happily spend some time with James Deen.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Happen to have a pic of me in rope in my private pics. Love it and met the guy who is into kink big time on here as well.

I love being tied up in rope and have had it done in a fet club too.

I have developed a kink side more in the last year and will be off to TG in April for my birthday.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I raise my cock at u fellow kinksters

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By *eavenNhellCouple over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

You know how much we love the fetish scene OP great that we are getting to find likeminded swingers from this post

Well done you two lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yep i'm a kink dot com subscriber for a few years now.Any guys wanting to be a great dom watch some of their vids for plenty of ideas

Yay I'm not alone. I would happily spend some time with James Deen."

mmm,absolutely.!! And I like Derrick pierce too..I would love to do a kink shoot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm Switch and so is my bloke.

It's amusing when some people get all uppity about how we use this site.

Dontchya know.... Swinging is for bi fem couples swapping partners.... Nothing else!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You know how much we love the fetish scene OP great that we are getting to find likeminded swingers from this post

Well done you two lol"

I am glad I opened it, had some great response both on here and in PM...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You know how much we love the fetish scene OP great that we are getting to find likeminded swingers from this post

Well done you two lol

I am glad I opened it, had some great response both on here and in PM... "

I correct myself... I opened the post the OP mentiions

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By *eterpan6b1Couple over a year ago

Hedon

yep we too are more than happy to explore and enjoy different delights that people have to offer x

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By *imandlinCouple over a year ago

merseyside

Abso-bloody-lutely. We love kink but our time as a couple is very limited. Simandlin

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

good morning kinksters, whips and floggers at the ready lets take over this site lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"good morning kinksters, whips and floggers at the ready lets take over this site lol "

I'm all for taking over the site. I'll bring my speculum and gas mask!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"good morning kinksters, whips and floggers at the ready lets take over this site lol "

good morning you two and all the fellow kinksters on this post

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By *pecifically1Woman over a year ago

Hull

"good morning kinksters, whips and floggers at the ready lets take over this site lol "

Let's take over the world!"!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"good morning kinksters, whips and floggers at the ready lets take over this site lol

good morning you two and all the fellow kinksters on this post

Morning Dave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"good morning kinksters, whips and floggers at the ready lets take over this site lol

Let's take over the world!"!!!! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me too definately! And straight too.

Everyone is kinky .

Be proud x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"good morning kinksters, whips and floggers at the ready lets take over this site lol

Let's take over the world!"!!!!

Bend over then x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"good morning kinksters, whips and floggers at the ready lets take over this site lol

Let's take over the world!"!!!! "

its a bit early in the day for me for that, can we wait till after lunch?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well we have to put our hands up to love the fetish clubs as well as swingers clubs and the crossover has been going on for a lot of years now and who cares what others think and what sites your on as long as we are all having good clean safe fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well we have to put our hands up to love the fetish clubs as well as swingers clubs and the crossover has been going on for a lot of years now and who cares what others think and what sites your on as long as we are all having good clean safe fun xxx "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm Switch and so is my bloke.

It's amusing when some people get all uppity about how we use this site.

Dontchya know.... Swinging is for bi fem couples swapping partners.... Nothing else!!!!!

I've been told because I would want to play with the bloke half of a couple as well as the lady half and not just put on a show for both the guys with the other lady that I'm not properly bi... Didn't realise being bi meant I only play with women!!!

crystal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm Switch and so is my bloke.

It's amusing when some people get all uppity about how we use this site.

Dontchya know.... Swinging is for bi fem couples swapping partners.... Nothing else!!!!!

crystal"

That's so funny! I can almost see the boxes around some people's heads they are so deluded and trapped with tunnel vision.

I think they were actually looking for a lesbian.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Present Mistress. What be thy bidding?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm Switch and so is my bloke.

It's amusing when some people get all uppity about how we use this site.

Dontchya know.... Swinging is for bi fem couples swapping partners.... Nothing else!!!!!

crystal

That's so funny! I can almost see the boxes around some people's heads they are so deluded and trapped with tunnel vision.

I think they were actually looking for a lesbian.

Good luck to them-wonder how many MF couples there are where the F is a lesbian considering that's what they were looking for?! Or am I now being the ignorant one?!

And you mentioned your bloke is a switch too-in some sections of the kink scene that would be looked down on too! As a man you're only allowed to be a Dom don't ya know?!

Seems like people look down on you for just being you whatever scene you play in!

crystal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a fellow kinkster and being used as a rope bunny isn't boring for me.. It may take a while but the lust that builds up inside is so awesome and its fascinating to watch too x

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By *inkypervertMan over a year ago

Durham

Please count me in

Have been into BDSM play for more than 10 years.

Sadly, it seems that all kinky peopl live up north...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"good morning kinksters, whips and floggers at the ready lets take over this site lol

good morning you two and all the fellow kinksters on this post

Totally off subject....love your pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any fans of fetish/kink play local to me?

I have a meet ad up for tonight (I can accom) but no replies that really fit my bill.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm Switch and so is my bloke.

It's amusing when some people get all uppity about how we use this site.

Dontchya know.... Swinging is for bi fem couples swapping partners.... Nothing else!!!!!

crystal

That's so funny! I can almost see the boxes around some people's heads they are so deluded and trapped with tunnel vision.

I think they were actually looking for a lesbian.

Good luck to them-wonder how many MF couples there are where the F is a lesbian considering that's what they were looking for?! Or am I now being the ignorant one?!

And you mentioned your bloke is a switch too-in some sections of the kink scene that would be looked down on too! As a man you're only allowed to be a Dom don't ya know?!

Seems like people look down on you for just being you whatever scene you play in!

crystal"

Sorry I was being jokey about the lesbian thing. As they say the women are only allowed to play with each other....

Yes I know about Switch being looked down on. Men are Dom and women are sub.

We're both bi too.... Frowned upon by both gay and straight people. Bisexuality doesn't exist. It's a myth!

And I'm a single on a swinging site.... I feel the daggers in my back arrgghhh!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good luck to them-wonder how many MF couples there are where the F is a lesbian considering that's what they were looking for?! Or am I now being the ignorant one?!

And you mentioned your bloke is a switch too-in some sections of the kink scene that would be looked down on too! As a man you're only allowed to be a Dom don't ya know?!

Seems like people look down on you for just being you whatever scene you play in!

crystal

Sorry I was being jokey about the lesbian thing. As they say the women are only allowed to play with each other....

Yes I know about Switch being looked down on. Men are Dom and women are sub.

We're both bi too.... Frowned upon by both gay and straight people. Bisexuality doesn't exist. It's a myth!

And I'm a single on a swinging site.... I feel the daggers in my back arrgghhh!!

Ohhhh noooo-that came across all wrong! Sorry-I wasn't having a pop! I need to make my sarcasm more obvious sometimes!

And we can't be bi-it's just greedy! Choose one or the other

Daggers... mmmmmm... going into that might be taking things a bit too far!!

crystal

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I'm Switch and so is my bloke.

It's amusing when some people get all uppity about how we use this site.

Dontchya know.... Swinging is for bi fem couples swapping partners.... Nothing else!!!!!

crystal"

Lmao heard this so many times.

Definitely not making the most of available playtime!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have our kinks as it says on our profile. But then equally we only bring that out to play if others wish it.

It's more extreme at home but we've had lots of fun in Chams with others who wanted to just see what it felt like to use a crop/flogger/whip etc and thankfully Dave is quite receptive to that kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plenty of us here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me me me 'stands on my house roof and waves at Blackpool'

Also stands on roof and waves at Blackpool as well!

And Gloucester!

And anyone else waving!!!!

Love kink and bdsm, there is no reason why kink bdsm and swinging shouldn't mix! Loads i know on here are also on sites like Fet Life!!

Enjoy people!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm Switch and so is my bloke.

It's amusing when some people get all uppity about how we use this site.

Dontchya know.... Swinging is for bi fem couples swapping partners.... Nothing else!!!!!

crystal

That's so funny! I can almost see the boxes around some people's heads they are so deluded and trapped with tunnel vision.

I think they were actually looking for a lesbian.

Good luck to them-wonder how many MF couples there are where the F is a lesbian considering that's what they were looking for?! Or am I now being the ignorant one?!

And you mentioned your bloke is a switch too-in some sections of the kink scene that would be looked down on too! As a man you're only allowed to be a Dom don't ya know?!

Seems like people look down on you for just being you whatever scene you play in!

crystal

Sorry I was being jokey about the lesbian thing. As they say the women are only allowed to play with each other....

Yes I know about Switch being looked down on. Men are Dom and women are sub.

We're both bi too.... Frowned upon by both gay and straight people. Bisexuality doesn't exist. It's a myth!

And I'm a single on a swinging site.... I feel the daggers in my back arrgghhh!!

How do you sleep at night lol

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters "

Waving madly till slams hands on "3 foot long play bag"!

As far as I know rope play is a fetish... fetishes of all sorts are covered by the Swinging exploration" umbrella.

If anyone thinks fetishes are not part of swinging, I dare them to say that to the TV /CD/TS/TG/Bi/PVC group! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters

Waving madly till slams hands on "3 foot long play bag"!

As far as I know rope play is a fetish... fetishes of all sorts are covered by the Swinging exploration" umbrella.

If anyone thinks fetishes are not part of swinging, I dare them to say that to the TV /CD/TS/TG/Bi/PVC group! Lol."

That would make great viewing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm Switch and so is my bloke.

It's amusing when some people get all uppity about how we use this site.

Dontchya know.... Swinging is for bi fem couples swapping partners.... Nothing else!!!!!

crystal

That's so funny! I can almost see the boxes around some people's heads they are so deluded and trapped with tunnel vision.

I think they were actually looking for a lesbian.

Good luck to them-wonder how many MF couples there are where the F is a lesbian considering that's what they were looking for?! Or am I now being the ignorant one?!

And you mentioned your bloke is a switch too-in some sections of the kink scene that would be looked down on too! As a man you're only allowed to be a Dom don't ya know?!

Seems like people look down on you for just being you whatever scene you play in!

crystal

Sorry I was being jokey about the lesbian thing. As they say the women are only allowed to play with each other....

Yes I know about Switch being looked down on. Men are Dom and women are sub.

We're both bi too.... Frowned upon by both gay and straight people. Bisexuality doesn't exist. It's a myth!

And I'm a single on a swinging site.... I feel the daggers in my back arrgghhh!!

How do you sleep at night lol

I don't....

I use the time to dream up new ideas for using the contents of my toy bag....!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whohoooo! Quietly exploring my kinky side here..... Any ladies waving in long shiny gloves? *scans horizon expectantly*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm Switch and so is my bloke.

It's amusing when some people get all uppity about how we use this site.

Dontchya know.... Swinging is for bi fem couples swapping partners.... Nothing else!!!!!

crystal

That's so funny! I can almost see the boxes around some people's heads they are so deluded and trapped with tunnel vision.

I think they were actually looking for a lesbian.

Good luck to them-wonder how many MF couples there are where the F is a lesbian considering that's what they were looking for?! Or am I now being the ignorant one?!

And you mentioned your bloke is a switch too-in some sections of the kink scene that would be looked down on too! As a man you're only allowed to be a Dom don't ya know?!

Seems like people look down on you for just being you whatever scene you play in!

crystal

Sorry I was being jokey about the lesbian thing. As they say the women are only allowed to play with each other....

Yes I know about Switch being looked down on. Men are Dom and women are sub.

We're both bi too.... Frowned upon by both gay and straight people. Bisexuality doesn't exist. It's a myth!

And I'm a single on a swinging site.... I feel the daggers in my back arrgghhh!!

How do you sleep at night lol

I don't....

I use the time to dream up new ideas for using the contents of my toy bag....!

Mmmmm look forward to those ideas when we meet next!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hello .... can someone tell me where i go to renew my "kinkter" membership please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters "

Yup ..raises hand - been on this 'scene' for a long long time...

In fact you can find me elsewhere on IC and FL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been getting into a kinkier way of life recently. I bought a leather look studded thong a few weeks back, no just need a willing participant to try out my moves on!

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By *landfordfabbersCouple over a year ago

Blandford ish

We are too.

We say on our profile that we like it but we don't have to bring it to a meet. Happy to play vanilla if that's what they like.

Or if they are keen show them the 'ropes' if u excuse the pun.

Soph

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By *NicenNaughteyCouple over a year ago

Preston

were a kinky couple too we like most things shiney lol ie pvc and stuff heels stockings small amounts of pain

so yes swingers can be kinky xxx

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By *aster n subCouple over a year ago

pickering

hi all as the name suggests we are .its quite funny how many people assume that being a master makes you a monster and yet they play the same sort of games in the bedroom .you only become a master if the sub wants you to so who is in control the master only gives the sub what she wants.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Raised hands over here as well!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are too.

We say on our profile that we like it but we don't have to bring it to a meet. Happy to play vanilla if that's what they like.

Or if they are keen show them the 'ropes' if u excuse the pun.

Soph "

Swingers that are happy to play "vanilla!" you really are a kinky pair!!! hehe

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By *ir and Bi herCouple over a year ago

Hebburn

Yep we are defo kinky and enjoy all aspects of BDSM. We find a lot of swingers are both curious and intrigued in what we do, and are often up for trying things once they understand the dynamics and that everything we do is safe, sane and consentual oh and lots of fun lol

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By *ilthyTgirlCplCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

"Seen a post earlier about rope play, and another couple insisted that this was a swingign site and he should look on another site,

As a Fetish/Swinger crossover couple, it got us wondering how many Kinksters was out there,

And would be great to meet up with fellow kinksters "

We're back and absolutely LOVE Bi Fun, Kinky, Fetish, BDSM, and alsorts of debauchery

mmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Raises hand

I'm gonna concentrate more on the kink side this year. I am on fl too but don't like the site. I prefer the cross over element. The actual fet scene can be too regimented and it got on my nerves. I like swinging and kink, don't see why I should have to choose one or the other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive just said I would go to BDSM classes as I want to do it right.

Yes there are such things, given by an experienced dom so I have 'L' plates for my kink but getting there!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would like to be a sub maid for the ladies do as I am told housework and stuff all bound and gagged love roleplay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would like to be a sub maid for the ladies do as I am told housework and stuff all bound and gagged love roleplay

How would you use the vacuum cleaner if you're bound?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it would be difficult but would have to do it if asked

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By *odkaboy2Man over a year ago

bristol

Firstly, your pics are great!

And secondly, kinkster here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks guys, its great to see all of you, wow shame though not lots are from the northwest otherwise we,d be busy for a good few weeks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks guys, its great to see all of you, wow shame though not lots are from the northwest otherwise we,d be busy for a good few weeks

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i love wonen in heels an nylon its whatever lights your candle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks guys, its great to see all of you, wow shame though not lots are from the northwest otherwise we,d be busy for a good few weeks

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i love wonen in heels an nylon its whatever lights your candle

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By *cotsman76Man over a year ago

EDINBURGH

we have a dom/sub couple profile 'scottishdomsub' and had lots of people telling us we should be on a different site x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it would be difficult but would have to do it if asked

Asked. Or told....?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mmm I would love to meet a couple who would like a bi guy to join them for some tie n tease

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By *ixenSubminxiveWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I enjoy the kinkier side of sex too... At the moment do seem to be getting more meets from here rather than the fet sites.

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By *anSusieCouple over a year ago

Midlothian

oooh better post quickly on here before the threat closes because of to many kinky swingers

we show in our pics that we swing without kink,with kink and just kink.....but set the more kinky ones to private so we don't scare the non-kinksters

susie

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Very kinky girl here....

Weekly at various Fetish events in London and around Hertfordshire.

Can't actually get enough kink!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We should throw our hats in the ring.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We should throw our hats in the ring.

Is that the modern equivalent of keys in a fruit bowl?

Kinky version... chuck nipple clamps on a bondage table.

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By *essiCouple over a year ago

suffolk

mmm sounds kinky to me.....

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

yes we partake now and then..

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By *azzaahhWoman over a year ago

north wales / chester

Waves to fellow kinksters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I enjoy the kinkier side of sex too... At the moment do seem to be getting more meets from here rather than the fet sites. "

Have to agree, i am finding a similar trend!!

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By *eavenNhellCouple over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

see lots of hands going up in this thread how many are coming back down on a nice bare bottom ?

thwack

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"see lots of hands going up in this thread how many are coming back down on a nice bare bottom ?

thwack "

Bends over and glasps ankles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Monster munch attendee here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are there any similar sites to fab that are for the kinkier amount us ??? Ive been on here for nearly a year now and have yet to meet up with any like minded peeps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe Fab could set up a sister Fetish/swinging site ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe Fab could set up a sister Fetish/swinging site ?

Great idea!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe Fab could set up a sister Fetish/swinging site ?

Great idea!!!

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By *adyJayneWoman over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Card carrying kinkster here too...

Actually it's several cards and I crossed the line to pervert some time ago...

Anyone at Lash tomorrow?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are there any similar sites to fab that are for the kinkier amount us ??? Ive been on here for nearly a year now and have yet to meet up with any like minded peeps

met more perverts on here than anywhere else!! am I doing something wrong?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

"see lots of hands going up in this thread how many are coming back down on a nice bare bottom ?

thwack

Bends over and glasps ankles

But a cane has so much more potential!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone taken a thwack to their cock?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i do both so can i hold up both hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Card carrying kinkster here too...

Actually it's several cards and I crossed the line to pervert some time ago...

Anyone at Lash tomorrow?"

We have 2 tickets to attend so might be going

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By *aisyandDukeCouple over a year ago

Formby

It's all sex just different flavours! there are definitely several flavours we enjoy! main thing that's annoying about fetish clubs (particularly in the NW in our experience) is restrictions like nudity and sex not allowed.. can't really see the point in those clubs. Stopped going to Lash for that reason, which is a shame as it would be nice to have a decent bdsm play club that you can also dance at up this way. TG is great but a pain to get to!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suppose I am, but can't decide if I am sub, dom or switch. I probably dom from the bottom. That's a headfuck in itself.

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By *NicenNaughteyCouple over a year ago

Preston

More kindness in the northwest lol come on you northwest pervsters let's show the north how it's done

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By *dsuzieTV/TS over a year ago

Burton-upon-trent

Hi kinksters one and all x

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By *illdeeCouple over a year ago

nr Edinburgh

It's a big yum from us too!!

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