As a couple not sure how to take this question when asked during messages. A few times when answered it’s the male half they stop responding. Would have thought if you’re messaging a couple you would be be willing to converse with either or both. It’s not something we’ve ever thought to ask a couple.
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It's practically a nailed on guarantee that when this happens, it's just a bloke either pretending to be a couple or said Mrs isn't active on fab or even real....and all they're after is horny chat with the lady half 
It's happened plenty of times to us |
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Of course it matters. Always nice to know who one is talking to. You're not one person. Alters the flavour. To stop chatting if it's the one you don't fancy so much - now that's wrong. But knowledge is nice. |
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95 percent of conversations I've had on here with couples have been with the female half and that has been fairly obvious.
The few times I've had to ask who I'm speaking to is when it's like trying to get blood from a stone conversation wise with their monosyllabic messages.
Bearing in mind I haven't sent an introductory message in 3 years so these are all very well verified couples who contact me and then often expect me to carry the conversation. |
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By *oots11Couple
over a year ago
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"As a couple not sure how to take this question when asked during messages. A few times when answered it’s the male half they stop responding. Would have thought if you’re messaging a couple you would be be willing to converse with either or both. It’s not something we’ve ever thought
to ask a couple.
Gets us every time ! Had a couple today thought it was angel I told them it was Tom GHOST !! I think they are the male wanting fun on own or not a real couple account
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Just from my perspective I've spoken to some "couples" and suddenly it's "oh she's asleep" or "Mrs would prefer us to meet alone first" or they just mess up and say I instead of us and I'm thinking, hmm this is just a dude not a couple.
I prefer meeting in clubs now so I know who I'm talking to x
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I (N) work away from home a lot. I happy to engage in conversation if we’re not together or move to chat to a platform where we can both respond.but wouldn’t go arranging meets or go into inappropriate chat without L being involved.
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over a year ago
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Mr W&W does most of the intial chatting , but he always tell who we are interested in its him.
Im more a face to face person as messages dont show thw real personality of a person much prefer a social  |
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Sorry, I should've said it's either guys posing as a couple or a couple where it's made out I'm chatting to the lady then I realise it's the guy, that ticks me off. Best thing is ending messages with an initial so I know who is replying. Didn't mean any disrespect to you guys x |
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over a year ago
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When messaging from our joint profile we always sign off with an initial so the recipient knows who they’re talking to.
I’d expect the same, although as others have said, it’s usually easy to tell.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just from my perspective I've spoken to some "couples" and suddenly it's "oh she's asleep" or "Mrs would prefer us to meet alone first" or they just mess up and say I instead of us and I'm thinking, hmm this is just a dude not a couple.
I prefer meeting in clubs now so I know who I'm talking to x
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And this is why some will ask who they're talking to, as there are a fair few fake couples profiles on here.
Also, it can be helpful knowing which half of the couple you're conversing with depending on the dynamics of the conversation and what you're talking about |
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We always say straight away that it tends to mostly Mr Brum chatting. Explain that while we both read the messages, Mr Brum is quicker at replying.
We never ask, you can normally tell if it is the make or female messaging. |
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For the purposes of fab we see ourselves as one unit. If someone is going to change the way they talk depending on which one of us they think is reading it tells us all we need to know. Same with the forum, it is always me but why is that important? |
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We tend to be more often in the situation where a lot of people assume it’s Mrs they are chatting to and depending on the time of day/night it may be Mr. If it’s people we have met or have been chatting to we will straight up say who’s chatting. Also our typing styles although not totally different have enough differences to show who is chatting. |
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It’s always me, the F of the couple, who is chatting and this is the first thing that it says on our profile. Mr can’t be doing with the high volume of ‘questionable’ messages that we receive. I have more patience and a great fake profile radar.
I never ask who I’m talking to. It usually ‘feels’ quite clear anyway. If I’m talking to a couple it makes no difference who it is but from time to time when it is the lady of the other couple it’s really nice to have a girlie chat about the lifestyle instead of the usual! |
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Totally agree 95% of single males freak out when they eventually ask who is typing and beard replies that it's him just to see there reaction we believe that our profile is 50/50 with regards to messages and responses and if males don't like beard replying then we would rather just block them anyway |
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But I would ask who I’m talking to….more for names sake than sex of the person!