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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We see a lot of couples with a bi female, but it seems rarer for the male to be bi? We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening. |
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We're a couple with a bi male and we get plenty of interest.However,we are only looking to meet single guys these guys.There are those who state "no bi guys" so they are of no interest to us!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We see a lot of couples with a bi female, but it seems rarer for the male to be bi? We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening. "
Use the Advanced search, look for couples and tick the box where both are bi. 
Some people don't want to meet bi guys. The reason is irrelevant. They just don't want to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a bi male couple, there are more of us than you think."
Same here but we search for bi male couples not looking for singles on here meet enough at clubs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s because people have outdated opinions on male bisexuality, mostly relating to homophobic stereotypes.
Edited due to typo"
This is still sadly so true.. but us bi guys will continue to fight the fight. Guys be what you want there are no rules |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"We see a lot of couples with a bi female, but it seems rarer for the male to be bi? We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening. "
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It is a lot rarer for the male half to have the bi/curious box ticked
I'd say you see a lot more than you used to though
Joining in threads like this are bound to help you find a match too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are equal opportunity pervs..lol
What's not to like it's great fun for all."
Love your equal opportunities 
As the OP says a lot of profiles state that the female is bi but the male is straight. Nice to see on here that there are plenty of bi couples around.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re here..
it’s the same issue with finding a couple where all are attracted to each other.
Only this way, all 4 have to be attracted to each other.. "
Yes!! It’s nigh on impossible!! |
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Bi male couple here
Don’t think we’re in that short of a supply tbh but we do see a lot of couples with straight males who state they won’t meet couples with a bi male, fair enough, we move along.
Now profile straight but bi in dms single guys numbers are off the charts haha |
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By *ndi37Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
I totally agree. I have always been curious about meeting a couple, ideally for me to play with the guy while he pleases the Mrs. It seems OK for straight/curious but people forget there is gay/curious people too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We see a lot of couples with a bi female, but it seems rarer for the male to be bi? We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening. "
Because women themselves find it hard to accept men to be bisexual. Sex is still deeply steeped in power interpretations and symbolism. The one screwing is the one who has the power, and traditionally as determined by pure biology it's the masculine that can do it because of his phallus.
The same way as how men are usually fine with their female partner being bisexual, but get iffy when they see her get fucked by another woman with a strap on or a dildo bigger than their cock. Like it or not, a lot of women are still biologically and evolutionally hardwired to have an aversion mentality towards men playing with cocks that aren't their own, or god forbid get penetrated by one and "fucked like a woman" by another man. It's still seen as immensely emasculating.
That leaves aside the point that bisexuality is the least accepted and most stigmatised bit of the overall LGBT community, even by fellow non-heterosexual people. We're seen as greedy, closeted, and basically either gay or lesbian but yet to find the guts to come out as such. It's pretty much lesbian porn made to appeal to heterosexual male taste for more pussy and boobs in their face at the same time which has sort of normalised lesbians in societal sexual acceptance. You don't see that the other way round though (gay porn made to appeal to straight females normalising gays in societal sexual acceptance), because female sexual desire has always been seen as secondary to male sexual desire.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We state were only looking for both bi/bi-curious couples but couples message us and the male half is straight but when you talk to them they say they are bi, most of the time they put straight as they can play straight with couples but it puts some couples off if the male half is bi, probably scared the bi guy will try and suck their cock
Lol, jokes aside..everyone has their preferences though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both bi here and not ashamed to state in profile can't be everyone's cup of tea true is we don't get to much interest for some reason but this is fab we still have our funs so we are happy "
No shame needed more fool them for missing out |
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"It’s because people have outdated opinions on male bisexuality, mostly relating to homophobic stereotypes.
Edited due to typo"
This. 100% this.
And there are more couples with a bi male on here than it would appear. Lots just don’t advertise it openly. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"It’s because people have outdated opinions on male bisexuality, mostly relating to homophobic stereotypes.
Edited due to typo
This. 100% this.
And there are more couples with a bi male on here than it would appear. Lots just don’t advertise it openly. "
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That's true, it's a shame they do but I suppose everyone is entitled to keep a part of themselves private if they wish |
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We're a bi couple, but we don't play with couples, only single guys. We're also not into 3somes, however our profile is clear and we still get a lot of interest.
We don't usually have any trouble finding guys when we want to play. |
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" We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening. "
Why? People have the right to choose who they want to interact with in the swinging scene. We don't want to meet with bi males, but we're not stopping anybody else seeking out bi males. |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
Hinckley |
"It’s because people have outdated opinions on male bisexuality, mostly relating to homophobic stereotypes.
Edited due to typo"
We’re totally bisexual and don’t give a hoot what people think. Give us both any day. Getting freaky with other bi people is awesome. Xx |
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"We see a lot of couples with a bi female, but it seems rarer for the male to be bi? We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening. "
Not that rare as we are both bi. |
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Definite Bi male phobia in the swinging scene…
Not entirely sure of the cause in this day and age.
But toooooo many straight men message.
So, it’s not just our imagination.
But definitely an added level of complication…
As the guy on guy dynamic might “cock block” lol…
Two tops? Or two bottoms??
Ahh well…
Good luck to all us Bi male couples ! |
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"We see a lot of couples with a bi female, but it seems rarer for the male to be bi? We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening. "
Don’t get discouraged or disheartened there are couples out there which you will find it’s amazing how many men have straight on their profile that are actually bicurious or bisexual
Chin up and best foot forward!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We use Bi-curious as hubby is still exploring this side of himself openly more now.
It's nice to see him letting go and allowing himself to truly be himself sexually.
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
Hinckley |
"Definite Bi male phobia in the swinging scene…
Not entirely sure of the cause in this day and age.
But toooooo many straight men message.
So, it’s not just our imagination.
But definitely an added level of complication…
As the guy on guy dynamic might “cock block” lol…
Two tops? Or two bottoms??
Ahh well…
Good luck to all us Bi male couples ! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both bi couples on our couples profile...it is really hard...who's fairly local, rule out the smokers, the barebackers, the ones who can only meet during the day, the ones who are only really orally bi curious or who don't top and were casting our net into very shallow, dead waters...then you both have to find them at least vaguely attractive...bi nights in clubs have been the answer for my partner mostly...but it's still hard |
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"We see a lot of couples with a bi female, but it seems rarer for the male to be bi? We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening.
Use the Advanced search, look for couples and tick the box where both are bi.
Some people don't want to meet bi guys. The reason is irrelevant. They just don't want to.
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the reason is they are bigots, |
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"We see a lot of couples with a bi female, but it seems rarer for the male to be bi? We also see quite a lot of people state "no bi guys", why is that? It seems to be a lot more accepted for the woman to be bi, its all a bit disheartening.
Use the Advanced search, look for couples and tick the box where both are bi.
Some people don't want to meet bi guys. The reason is irrelevant. They just don't want to.
the reason is they are bigots, "
This could be true yes.
Though I've messaged and met happy and lovely relaxed bi couples from here.
I think lots do hide it. |
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