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By *ermaine44 OP Man
over a year ago
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For the people that use the wink feature, what is its purpose in your eyes?
I’ve received a few winks in the past week and naturally I have winked back at those I am interested in but then that tends to be the end of the interaction |
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Just an indication of liking what you have seen and an invitation to possibly check you out. If it's returned I'll often follow it up with a message thanking them for the wink and enquiring if they might like to converse. Often, the messages go unreplied, but such is the nature of fab  |
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over a year ago
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"Just an indication of liking what you have seen and an invitation to possibly check you out. If it's returned I'll often follow it up with a message thanking them for the wink and enquiring if they might like to converse. Often, the messages go unreplied, but such is the nature of fab "
Or not even opened.. |
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over a year ago
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A way of showing interest and want to communicate. I normally message back, even if not interested just to let them know. But at times it’s good to chat. |
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Since you can frequently waste a lot of time and effort constructing and sending decent messages that end up going unread, a quick wink is simply an easier way to show an interest and hopefully attract the attention of the person/people you like.
If they wink back then you can start a conversation. |
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people on here should really lighten up and stop being so serious and bloody miserable...
It’s meant to be a bit of fun chasing whatever your after...
A release from the crap of the world...
It’s meant to be a shag/swingers site...
Who cares if your the winker or winkee...
Or put lol or haha after your txt....
Smile a bit!!!
It won’t hurt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We use it as a way to show we’re interested and if we get one back, we send a message introducing ourselves. We do get winks and when we wink back nothing happens, some times we’ll drop a message anyway but a lot of the time we just move on. |
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"Just as a hi you look cool. If someone winks me and I like the look of profile I’ll wink back. It’s up to them if they message or not then
You must get an awful lot of winks  "
You know I thought by blocking men from messaging me (I prefer to approach guys directly ) it would have neutered it down.  |
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"Just as a hi you look cool. If someone winks me and I like the look of profile I’ll wink back. It’s up to them if they message or not then
You must get an awful lot of winks
You know I thought by blocking men from messaging me (I prefer to approach guys directly ) it would have neutered it down. "
I squirmed a bit when I read about neutering men then.  |
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"Just as a hi you look cool. If someone winks me and I like the look of profile I’ll wink back. It’s up to them if they message or not then
You must get an awful lot of winks
You know I thought by blocking men from messaging me (I prefer to approach guys directly ) it would have neutered it down.
I squirmed a bit when I read about neutering men then. "
It would certainly solve a few of society problems that’s for sure if we did |
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