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This made me chuckle… I married my last male meet, met in in august and married him in November  . So less than 17 weeks, that was 8 years ago and we still have amazing sex like we did on our first meet,sexually we know each others kinks as it was written on our profiles so there was no awkwardness explaining what we were both into,he is the best thing that ever happened to me. We were both just looking for sex although I was really picky so only had 2/3 meets before him..
When you know you know! And love can be found in the weirdest of places x |
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over a year ago
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"This made me chuckle… I married my last male meet, met in in august and married him in November . So less than 17 weeks, that was 8 years ago and we still have amazing sex like we did on our first meet,sexually we know each others kinks as it was written on our profiles so there was no awkwardness explaining what we were both into,he is the best thing that ever happened to me. We were both just looking for sex although I was really picky so only had 2/3 meets before him..
When you know you know! And love can be found in the weirdest of places x"
I’d just like to say, from someone who also met the love of their life on fab, fair play and what a lovely outcome!!
I’ll admit I was here for short term nsa and it took me a while to admit to myself but like you say, when you know, you know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This made me chuckle… I married my last male meet, met in in august and married him in November . So less than 17 weeks, that was 8 years ago and we still have amazing sex like we did on our first meet,sexually we know each others kinks as it was written on our profiles so there was no awkwardness explaining what we were both into,he is the best thing that ever happened to me. We were both just looking for sex although I was really picky so only had 2/3 meets before him..
When you know you know! And love can be found in the weirdest of places x"
You have made me smile deeply truly i mean that!
Thank you for shareing your story with us, faith keeps us going daily!
My journey after life support , near death. Has taken me too many points and thoughts.
I keep coming back to " real conne tins " of the hearts minds with, real true intentions! Will win you your peace here on earth.
Many we are in loss, fearful.hurt,traumatised,perplexed. And wandering to belong,yet we fear commitment the word " love " and more.
Seek ,search your lot. And Heal now! You will know when you have arrived Home!
But true love & peace is from within deep inside of you, not externaly nor in the other person.
I post much. It wont make sense. Some may do atimes. Share,be open grow. A short time is only here.
Peance n love to all.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm definitely just after sex
Me too. But minds have to connect. Plus lust and desire passion and fucksbilty!! oh no.. as long as they are not gross and say hi. Don't need any of the rest of it"
You do you. Your call. We need fuck n go heh a fix? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The added extra or enhancement to our sex life is great but I honestly believe that Dora gets a huge self confidence boost from the attention she gets in here and at clubs.
There’s no denying you are desirable when you’re surrounded by hard cocks. |
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"The added extra or enhancement to our sex life is great but I honestly believe that Dora gets a huge self confidence boost from the attention she gets in here and at clubs.
There’s no denying you are desirable when you’re surrounded by hard cocks. "
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Agree , many forms appeal. We are complex humams deeper than we admit. But we need and require stimulus from other bodys and minds.
I adore " Pussys and the word Cunt sexually.
Keep it moveing fabbers. |
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For me, right now I’m just looking for a long term FWB because I am focused on my career goals and being in relationships in the past has gotten in the way of my aspirations. Obviously if I meet someone who I have good chemistry with and supports my dreams and aspirations then that could change |
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"This made me chuckle… I married my last male meet, met in in august and married him in November . So less than 17 weeks, that was 8 years ago and we still have amazing sex like we did on our first meet,sexually we know each others kinks as it was written on our profiles so there was no awkwardness explaining what we were both into,he is the best thing that ever happened to me. We were both just looking for sex although I was really picky so only had 2/3 meets before him..
When you know you know! And love can be found in the weirdest of places x"
This is fantastic! Congratulations to you both. I always say that the best things come when you aren’t really looking, you just have to put yourself out there and see what happens. And you hit the jackpot. Awesome |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing deep but not just sex either.
Friendly enjoyment, let's put it that way"
Deep or non deep ad suits. I like some level of mind connections.
But blowing off steam and cobwebs!
I sure do need and want the physical as much as all out there!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sex and cake
Or is it cake and sex? 
We're big Cake by the Ocean fans, as the Scandinavians say."
Esp norfolk coast,winter or spring/summer best place in the Uk for me!' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely just sex, already have the relationship side of things."
cool.
I see where some have states its abit more open om fab.
Bar the no shows,and hyped status posts etc.
I hope the events post page , works well for meets daily and otherwise for just no drama sex and Fwb's and group play.
Any had good results from this kind of posts???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely more than sex as we love the social aspect just as much as the physical side of things. "
Same here.
I keep posting daily for social plus more.
Laughs,chat,food etc.
I can bang and go too. If thats what is required.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oldly enough we were both just purely seeking sex originally. But by the end of the first meet really we found something more in each other. That was over 5 years ago now."
nice.
We like good hearty stories of out comes that are smooth. |
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For me, it's usually more than that.
Don't get me wrong, every so often I'm happy to indulge in general hedonism with pretty things. But mostly I prefer to have an actual connection with someone rather than just fuck for the sake of it. |
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over a year ago
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"Connection and regular who I would be able to open up and be myself. "
I agree,
Respect,value,safe space,place for both no shameing coz of differences.
exactley my point for connections, so to share more and be in a safe space and place vice_verse. To grow and enjoy , where once there may have been limits.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me, it's usually more than that.
Don't get me wrong, every so often I'm happy to indulge in general hedonism with pretty things. But mostly I prefer to have an actual connection with someone rather than just fuck for the sake of it.
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We think the same.
Everything really is a " connection ' is it not even so on here??
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By *ommy_73Man
over a year ago
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For me it's sex - but there obviously has to be a physical or personal attraction.
And for any repeat meets it really, really helps if we actually get on - similar outlooks, opinions etc.
But, yeah, sometimes it's just about the coitus. Just letting go and fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does it have to be one or the other, cant we just vibe with the people we vibe with and let it be whatever it turns out to be?"
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Create what you want it to be. .your own reality! |
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For us it is just sex. Fulfilling fantasies that we are unable to fulfil with just the two of us. Not looking for love or soul mate connections as we have that ourselves.
But whether it’s club fun or an arranged meet, the guys still have to have something about them other than performance. We like to build a bit of a rapport with them. Gents are invited to join us based on personality as well as looks. Even if it is a blindfolded type meet, we still like to have a chat and laugh with the guys during/after. |
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"This made me chuckle… I married my last male meet, met in in august and married him in November . So less than 17 weeks, that was 8 years ago and we still have amazing sex like we did on our first meet,sexually we know each others kinks as it was written on our profiles so there was no awkwardness explaining what we were both into,he is the best thing that ever happened to me. We were both just looking for sex although I was really picky so only had 2/3 meets before him..
When you know you know! And love can be found in the weirdest of places x"
Wow!
This is my dream  |
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There has to be more than just sex.
I couldn't do it without some sort of connection. A spark. A good vibe. A nice pair of eyes that i can look into and get lost in.
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"For us it is just sex. Fulfilling fantasies that we are unable to fulfil with just the two of us. Not looking for love or soul mate connections as we have that ourselves.
But whether it’s club fun or an arranged meet, the guys still have to have something about them other than performance. We like to build a bit of a rapport with them. Gents are invited to join us based on personality as well as looks. Even if it is a blindfolded type meet, we still like to have a chat and laugh with the guys during/after. "
Totally agree, we're definitely of the same mindset |
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I think as a couple you have that connection etc at home so it's just sex for you .
But for me as a single I like to have some sort off connection as if its not there I can not have sex . And to find a fwb you I can feel comfortable safe with and discover my sexual desires as meeting just randoms for me I cant do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do have to have an attraction, good vibe and get along with the person.. i dont fuck anyone but its purely sex for me. Some are now friends but thats it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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There is deff more, most like more and want amd desire more!
Yet wish and want freedom's without the constraints of full blown commited relationships because of past experiemces.
Many stay conservative because they " Fear " the responce of loseing it.
Be open many may want the same!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just sex for me but hubby gets excitement out of watching me with other guys"
Nice,we admire confident people.
And gents whom encourage pleasures for their ladies.
Step up you londoners?? |
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"For me, right now I’m just looking for a long term FWB because I am focused on my career goals and being in relationships in the past has gotten in the way of my aspirations. Obviously if I meet someone who I have good chemistry with and supports my dreams and aspirations then that could change"
Grind your thing pal. Sex comes n goes. |
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When I first joined the site I was looking for sex sex and more sex but latterly I come to find that rather unfulfilling. Meeting relative strangers, stripping off and getting down to it used to be exciting but now I'm at the point I was barely getting hard it was doing so little for me. I'm not looking for a relationship from fab but realised someone regular to get to know and explore various things together is better than random one offs. Sadly it appeared that is very rarely available here hence I don't even bother looking for it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just sex is empty, but too deep is off putting…
Best experiences are a mix - both looking for a connection but with the understanding that it’s not too serious |
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"When I first joined the site I was looking for sex sex and more sex but latterly I come to find that rather unfulfilling. Meeting relative strangers, stripping off and getting down to it used to be exciting but now I'm at the point I was barely getting hard it was doing so little for me. I'm not looking for a relationship from fab but realised someone regular to get to know and explore various things together is better than random one offs. Sadly it appeared that is very rarely available here hence I don't even bother looking for it now."
.. " Connection's " is the key!.
Deep down most are seeking it,yet they run away from it. I have posted much about this area apart from the Sex.
Many frown upon my posts thinkng iam d*unk or too deep etc etc.
Dont seek,it will come its a process of patìence.
But we all have to engage. The planets and systems work hand in hand.
I hope you find your peace soon.
Peace out.
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