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Before we start, this is not a advertisement either 
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
90% that's quite a high stat |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
90% that's quite a high stat"
That's within a good 30 Mike radius. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
90% that's quite a high stat
That's within a good 30 Mike radius."
That's bonkers.. u promise you some of us are real |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
90% that's quite a high stat
That's within a good 30 Mike radius.
That's bonkers.. u promise you some of us are real"
Oh of course, just frustrating haha, we start coming around to idea and then bam... Added frustrations haha |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
90% that's quite a high stat
That's within a good 30 Mike radius.
That's bonkers.. u promise you some of us are real
Oh of course, just frustrating haha, we start coming around to idea and then bam... Added frustrations haha "
Ha try being a single guy. Drop me amessage might ve easier go compare notes |
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Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around! |
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"Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around!"
I'm sure you have the pick of the bunch |
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"Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around!"
Luckily our filter message setting is on, nothing against guys we avoid tarnishing all, but many would just slam with dick pics, so it's on ours.
We've spoken to a couple, 1 got cold feet.
Yeah doesn't knock us, just frustrating really. |
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"Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around!
I'm sure you have the pick of the bunch"
We find great profiles but there 100+ miles away haha |
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"Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around!
I'm sure you have the pick of the bunch
We find great profiles but there 100+ miles away haha "
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
I would very happily reach out to you if you either allowed single men to message you, or if we were any closer in geographical distance.
Keep looking, no pressure on yourselves to find the right guy for MMF fun within a certain time limit. You don't need 100 eligible guys, you just need that 1 or 2 men to become regular MMF buddies with you two.
Good luck! Fabbed some of your pics, you two are very photogenic. |
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"Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around!
I'm sure you have the pick of the bunch
We find great profiles but there 100+ miles away haha "
Hello, just looked at your profile and pics, all looks great. Would be interested to know what you’re looking for. Maybe I can apply |
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"Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around!
I'm sure you have the pick of the bunch
We find great profiles but there 100+ miles away haha
You mean me don't you "
By the looks you've certainly had some joy in last few weeks!
You come across like a gent, so we hope some ladies and couples notice you x |
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"Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around!
I'm sure you have the pick of the bunch
We find great profiles but there 100+ miles away haha
Hello, just looked at your profile and pics, all looks great. Would be interested to know what you’re looking for. Maybe I can apply "
It's no disrespect, but we like more than just a penis pick, that's our preference, has to be something that sparks interest, a nice grounded description.
There's no personal critiques, as we are sure you float many others.
Please let's not turn this into an enquiry/interrogation, as we said "this isn't an advertisement" haha.. |
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Thank you. You guys do to so I’m sure you’ll definatly be able to find the decent ones without an issue. But there’s always ones that can’t read and even though you say it’s not an advert they still try they’re luck on the forum haha! |
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As someone who is pretty new, what is the best way to get verifications? As a lot of people want verification before messaging etc? Is it a case of trying clubs and cams etc? |
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"Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around!
I'm sure you have the pick of the bunch
We find great profiles but there 100+ miles away haha
Hello, just looked at your profile and pics, all looks great. Would be interested to know what you’re looking for. Maybe I can apply
It's no disrespect, but we like more than just a penis pick, that's our preference, has to be something that sparks interest, a nice grounded description.
There's no personal critiques, as we are sure you float many others.
Please let's not turn this into an enquiry/interrogation, as we said "this isn't an advertisement" haha.."
Totally respect your preferences and I enjoy to share more than a penis pick lol,……but that’s privately and can not do that without a PM.
Thanks for replying though, any change for us guys to get a hint of how to get a foot up the ladder to some sexy couples is welcome! |
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"Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around!
I'm sure you have the pick of the bunch
We find great profiles but there 100+ miles away haha
Hello, just looked at your profile and pics, all looks great. Would be interested to know what you’re looking for. Maybe I can apply
It's no disrespect, but we like more than just a penis pick, that's our preference, has to be something that sparks interest, a nice grounded description.
There's no personal critiques, as we are sure you float many others.
Please let's not turn this into an enquiry/interrogation, as we said "this isn't an advertisement" haha..
Totally respect your preferences and I enjoy to share more than a penis pick lol,……but that’s privately and can not do that without a PM.
Thanks for replying though, any change for us guys to get a hint of how to get a foot up the ladder to some sexy couples is welcome! "
Of course, while we have filters on our messaging, we are by no means snobbs, we are all here as adults open to talking
Like we say, nothing necessarily wrong with your profile, just our perspective from what we like to see.
However it's posts like this discussing like adults giving chances for others to see kind gents operating. |
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"Thank you. You guys do to so I’m sure you’ll definatly be able to find the decent ones without an issue. But there’s always ones that can’t read and even though you say it’s not an advert they still try they’re luck on the forum haha!"
Haha this is true, but honestly we don't mind kindly saying the obvious, it's if people get rude that's when we'd draw the line. |
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"Your inbox is going to explode lol.
We generally only look for guys, yes it’s hard but there are some decent ones out there that makes it worth it, just need to be patient and not be put off by the 90%. Can be hard work and like an admin job, just have to not let things bother you as it’s not easy and some of the things/people that come into your inbox can put you off the site and your breakfast! But definatly worth it when you find them as when you do they’re decent. Can normally tell straight away if they are wrongens as they drop themselves in it and don’t stick around!
I'm sure you have the pick of the bunch
We find great profiles but there 100+ miles away haha
Hello, just looked at your profile and pics, all looks great. Would be interested to know what you’re looking for. Maybe I can apply
It's no disrespect, but we like more than just a penis pick, that's our preference, has to be something that sparks interest, a nice grounded description.
There's no personal critiques, as we are sure you float many others.
Please let's not turn this into an enquiry/interrogation, as we said "this isn't an advertisement" haha..
Totally respect your preferences and I enjoy to share more than a penis pick lol,……but that’s privately and can not do that without a PM.
Thanks for replying though, any change for us guys to get a hint of how to get a foot up the ladder to some sexy couples is welcome!
Of course, while we have filters on our messaging, we are by no means snobbs, we are all here as adults open to talking
Like we say, nothing necessarily wrong with your profile, just our perspective from what we like to see.
However it's posts like this discussing like adults giving chances for others to see kind gents operating."
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
Well your profile is clearly written and your pics have set my pulse racing...
It must be frustrating not to find what you want by searching but I've found the forums a really useful way to speak to people and make connections. This thread is a great example but have a look at some of the others. There are some good people around  |
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We are very much in the same boat as you, OP. And have experienced the same as you with regards to single guys, we've even talked about visiting a club as well.
I've seen other posts saying the same thing too - I don't think it's hard for guys to actually make an effort with their profiles but so few of them do
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"We are very much in the same boat as you, OP. And have experienced the same as you with regards to single guys, we've even talked about visiting a club as well.
I've seen other posts saying the same thing too - I don't think it's hard for guys to actually make an effort with their profiles but so few of them do
Mrs"
Come on guys we aren't that bas |
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I completely understand what you're saying. From my point of view it's really difficult to keep veris on your profile. I'm far from prolific and have only met about 6 couples on here. If people leave the site their veris seem to disappear with them and then there's one couple who just said that they never veri anyone...Great,thanks.
I'm sure you come up against much worse than I do as I've had couples genuinely surprised that I actually turned up to a meet I said I'd turn up to...apparently plenty of people don't.
It's a tricky site for all, it seems. How on earth genuine people find each other is both a mystery and a lottery. Good luck.
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"We are very much in the same boat as you, OP. And have experienced the same as you with regards to single guys, we've even talked about visiting a club as well.
I've seen other posts saying the same thing too - I don't think it's hard for guys to actually make an effort with their profiles but so few of them do
Mrs"
You'd think with stigma and general 20 guys to 1 girl ratio, a lot would want to stand out from the crowd, but we suspect some profiles are just for looking as not entirely honest, not all but some.
Some are just lazy.
Like we say, they ones we found brilliant are X amount of miles away which realistically wouldn't happen. |
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"Single guys aren’t all bad and not all couples are good lol"
Absolutely.
We always give chances to those who appeal to us, don't get us wrong, we've been stung by more couple profiles than any other. |
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The person i have a verification from left the site so all I can show is that i have been verified not what was said, bit of a shame as think that's one thing that doesn't help me |
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"I completely understand what you're saying. From my point of view it's really difficult to keep veris on your profile. I'm far from prolific and have only met about 6 couples on here. If people leave the site their veris seem to disappear with them and then there's one couple who just said that they never veri anyone...Great,thanks.
I'm sure you come up against much worse than I do as I've had couples genuinely surprised that I actually turned up to a meet I said I'd turn up to...apparently plenty of people don't.
It's a tricky site for all, it seems. How on earth genuine people find each other is both a mystery and a lottery. Good luck.
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It's never about quantity of veris about quality, from respected viewable profiles helps massively as you can imagine trust is the biggest test.
Basic photo veri too.
And a profile that gives us some insight, pics, let them be variation, some imagination, not just bam... there's ma dick haha.
We expect many guys not to have many veris that's understandable, we aren't unrealistic of course. |
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"Well yes... Pic Veri is basic need, when that's not there and there suspicious veris given, says it all."
Does it though? My veris are kept private purely because I don't want to display to the entire interweb who I've had sex with |
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"The person i have a verification from left the site so all I can show is that i have been verified not what was said, bit of a shame as think that's one thing that doesn't help me"
But least you have a pic veri, it's about balance. |
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"Well yes... Pic Veri is basic need, when that's not there and there suspicious veris given, says it all.
Does it though? My veris are kept private purely because I don't want to display to the entire interweb who I've had sex with"
Re read, "pic veri is a basic need.." |
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"Well yes... Pic Veri is basic need, when that's not there and there suspicious veris given, says it all.
Does it though? My veris are kept private purely because I don't want to display to the entire interweb who I've had sex with
Re read, "pic veri is a basic need..""
I noticed that as soon as I hit post lol Was speed reading 
My point, though misplaced when responding to your comment, remains though......keeping your veris private isn't necessarily suspicious |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
Yup, welcome to trying to find the diamonds amongst the rough |
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"Well yes... Pic Veri is basic need, when that's not there and there suspicious veris given, says it all.
Does it though? My veris are kept private purely because I don't want to display to the entire interweb who I've had sex with
Re read, "pic veri is a basic need.."
I noticed that as soon as I hit post lol Was speed reading
My point, though misplaced when responding to your comment, remains though......keeping your veris private isn't necessarily suspicious"
It's the ones without basic photo veri that do it, hence we mentioned basic.
It's the users choice to do with there veris what they will, but ours to interact with those we feel some form of trust to message first with.
Again as mentioned earlier, our standards, what we look for isn't to critique anyone in particular they are doing things wrong, just our choices. |
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"Did that straight away can't see why people don't get picture verified unless they are not serious."
Exactly, we found it not with just single males, but females too, so many more female profiles who do that, so credit to many single guys for doing so, but also.. the ones who don't, slap on the nose haha. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
Yup, welcome to trying to find the diamonds amongst the rough"
Haha the ever tough journey of fab. |
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"Did that straight away can't see why people don't get picture verified unless they are not serious.
Exactly, we found it not with just single males, but females too, so many more female profiles who do that, so credit to many single guys for doing so, but also.. the ones who don't, slap on the nose haha."
How hard does anyone think it would be for the site admins to have photo-verifying as part of the sign-up process?
Kind of, thanks for signing up....please follow this photo-verification process, then you can start using your profile?
Would certainly reduce the amount of fake profiles I think |
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"Did that straight away can't see why people don't get picture verified unless they are not serious.
Exactly, we found it not with just single males, but females too, so many more female profiles who do that, so credit to many single guys for doing so, but also.. the ones who don't, slap on the nose haha.
How hard does anyone think it would be for the site admins to have photo-verifying as part of the sign-up process?
Kind of, thanks for signing up....please follow this photo-verification process, then you can start using your profile?
Would certainly reduce the amount of fake profiles I think "
Most dating sites our friends told us have that as compulsory, otherwise it restricts messaging, they said the other day we instantly thought fab could benefit from it. |
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"Did that straight away can't see why people don't get picture verified unless they are not serious.
Exactly, we found it not with just single males, but females too, so many more female profiles who do that, so credit to many single guys for doing so, but also.. the ones who don't, slap on the nose haha.
How hard does anyone think it would be for the site admins to have photo-verifying as part of the sign-up process?
Kind of, thanks for signing up....please follow this photo-verification process, then you can start using your profile?
Would certainly reduce the amount of fake profiles I think "
I'm pretty sure a few sites do this as part of the sign up. Not a bad idea at all. |
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"Did that straight away can't see why people don't get picture verified unless they are not serious.
Exactly, we found it not with just single males, but females too, so many more female profiles who do that, so credit to many single guys for doing so, but also.. the ones who don't, slap on the nose haha.
How hard does anyone think it would be for the site admins to have photo-verifying as part of the sign-up process?
Kind of, thanks for signing up....please follow this photo-verification process, then you can start using your profile?
Would certainly reduce the amount of fake profiles I think
Most dating sites our friends told us have that as compulsory, otherwise it restricts messaging, they said the other day we instantly thought fab could benefit from it."
I'm pic verid and lucky enough to have a meet veri and I haven't checked but I imagine a lot if not all the guys on here are verid in some way. So there is hope |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
Yup, welcome to trying to find the diamonds amongst the rough
Haha the ever tough journey of fab."
Just think how hard us decent guys have to try to meet Couples it's not easy for us, I would of thought being a couple you would easly find Guys who fit the bill |
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"Did that straight away can't see why people don't get picture verified unless they are not serious.
Exactly, we found it not with just single males, but females too, so many more female profiles who do that, so credit to many single guys for doing so, but also.. the ones who don't, slap on the nose haha.
How hard does anyone think it would be for the site admins to have photo-verifying as part of the sign-up process?
Kind of, thanks for signing up....please follow this photo-verification process, then you can start using your profile?
Would certainly reduce the amount of fake profiles I think
Most dating sites our friends told us have that as compulsory, otherwise it restricts messaging, they said the other day we instantly thought fab could benefit from it.
I'm pic verid and lucky enough to have a meet veri and I haven't checked but I imagine a lot if not all the guys on here are verid in some way. So there is hope "
You'd be surprised haha. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
Yup, welcome to trying to find the diamonds amongst the rough
Haha the ever tough journey of fab.
Just think how hard us decent guys have to try to meet Couples it's not easy for us, I would of thought being a couple you would easly find Guys who fit the bill "
Just because we hold some power of choice, doesn't mean its easy to choose or find, we are faced with challenges like yourselves. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Did that straight away can't see why people don't get picture verified unless they are not serious.
Exactly, we found it not with just single males, but females too, so many more female profiles who do that, so credit to many single guys for doing so, but also.. the ones who don't, slap on the nose haha.
How hard does anyone think it would be for the site admins to have photo-verifying as part of the sign-up process?
Kind of, thanks for signing up....please follow this photo-verification process, then you can start using your profile?
Would certainly reduce the amount of fake profiles I think "
Only having limited access if not verified is what most sites do which is a great Idea but here it's all within the filters for active members so taking the option away for new users or unverified would be useful. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
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We have actually found the right single guy for a MFM to be the most illusive Unicorn of all on the scene (despite the ratio's). Not much insight to give in terms of advice, just to say we feel where your coming from.
Although we mainly do our swinging in clubs and from our point of veiw your more likely to find it easier with less time wasted to find the right guy in a club. Because any guy you meet in a club you instantly know what he looks like in real life and after a the exchange of some smiles, eye contact and conversation get a feel for him as a human. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
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We have actually found the right single guy for a MFM to be the most illusive Unicorn of all on the scene (despite the ratio's). Not much insight to give in terms of advice, just to say we feel where your coming from.
Although we mainly do our swinging in clubs and from our point of veiw your more likely to find it easier with less time wasted to find the right guy in a club. Because any guy you meet in a club you instantly know what he looks like in real life and after a the exchange of some smiles, eye contact and conversation get a feel for him as a human."
Yeah we've kept an eye out at clubs, sadly last couple of times it's picking from the crowd of what we call "the wanking dead" haha, however we have been to clubs on nights we prearranged meets with others and seen single males and now kicked ourselves for not approach, but one of those things. |
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By *educerMan
over a year ago
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Unfortunately, there are many profiles whether it be male/female or couples that are either fake or just do not make the effort. That is FAB I am afraid...
Have to wade through the shit to get to the good stuff |
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"Unfortunately, there are many profiles whether it be male/female or couples that are either fake or just do not make the effort. That is FAB I am afraid...
Have to wade through the shit to get to the good stuff "
Of course, we are vigilant with all. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
Sadly I’m not surprised by this and have been told similar by other couples. There are some genuine people around but a lot of people do seem to like the pics and fantasy but not the reality.
Clubs could be an option. So could looking further afield a little. If they’re genuine there’s no reason so suggest they couldn’t make it work. After all your pics and profile suggest it would certainly be worth someone’s time and effort |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
90% that's quite a high stat"
i think 85%/90% sounds about right |
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"then add that most of the poor womens and couples account (not all) are mostly mes pretending to be the woman /couple..
but its good as a filter because the good ones stand out"
This is also true |
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over a year ago
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"Did that straight away can't see why people don't get picture verified unless they are not serious.
Exactly, we found it not with just single males, but females too, so many more female profiles who do that, so credit to many single guys for doing so, but also.. the ones who don't, slap on the nose haha.
How hard does anyone think it would be for the site admins to have photo-verifying as part of the sign-up process?
Kind of, thanks for signing up....please follow this photo-verification process, then you can start using your profile?
Would certainly reduce the amount of fake profiles I think "
It would also put off many genuine people who don't want to photo verify. |
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90% sounds about right !for various reasons though and we've met afew good genuime males over the years and can be frustating though and even worse now as the odds are overwhelming and even worse for those like us who refuse to go down the "Club" route !!!  |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
How long do you spend looking? I'm quite ruthless when looking and bin crap profiles immediately. Then hotlist ones I am interested in and cut it down from there.
If you change your postcode to the next town it puts you in a new search area. Or look at different times of day as some may be working or with family.
If you use the advanced search you can tick the box where they are looking for couples so you don't get any men only wanting to meet single women. |
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We have found exactly the same OP, and we’ve now been on here long enough that most locally (within 40miles) have already contacted us at some point.
We opened our minds to the possibility of guys from further away and were pleasantly surprised by a few who made the time and effort, which we are very grateful for.
We can’t tell you if clubs are the answer, as we don’t have the experience, but the guys are out there it just takes a lot of patience (which can be disheartening at times)
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It depends on what you are looking for. Some on here can't stand dick pics but others look exclusively for them, some want to chat and others are irritated by it. There are so many single guys on here it may seem like looking for a needle in a haystack finding the right one for you but, to continue the metaphor, there are lots of needles in there!
Good luck on your search. |
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it's tricky, we have had good meets, and not so good meets.. And clubs are even more of a lottery.... Th goal is regular guy who we get along with, who is near enough for a spur of the moment booty call.. Oh, and a local woman, and a local couple.. etc etc |
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" 90% sounds about right !for various reasons though and we've met afew good genuime males over the years and can be frustating though and even worse now as the odds are overwhelming and even worse for those like us who refuse to go down the "Club" route !!! "
Admittedly club nights there probably same percentage in terms of going and finding, however it's a far more at ease then Internet scrolling. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
How long do you spend looking? I'm quite ruthless when looking and bin crap profiles immediately. Then hotlist ones I am interested in and cut it down from there.
If you change your postcode to the next town it puts you in a new search area. Or look at different times of day as some may be working or with family.
If you use the advanced search you can tick the box where they are looking for couples so you don't get any men only wanting to meet single women. "
We spent over an out last week on one night, tried all sorts, problem is you keep changing the postcode etc you get further afield, one of our cold feet was probably due to X amount of miles away. |
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"They are out there. Keep looking. "
We will, ad mentioned won't tare everyone with the same brush, just while frustrating it was some what ironic with how many posts we see.
Ah well, just another of fabs challenges haha. |
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"it's tricky, we have had good meets, and not so good meets.. And clubs are even more of a lottery.... Th goal is regular guy who we get along with, who is near enough for a spur of the moment booty call.. Oh, and a local woman, and a local couple.. etc etc "
We'd like with both male and female single, as it would open so many potential doors. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
This is the biggest issue on this site… obviously there are genuine single guys here, but the sheer amount of dross makes it too much hassle for people to bother looking.
As a genuine single guy who would love to meet a couple such as yourselves, my advice would be to try clubs and organised socials to meet guys |
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OP this is not the sole privilege of single guys on here . I get messages daily from fantasist couples on here with rubbish profiles no verifications and crass conversation. Unfortunately because it’s so cheap to be on here it will attract the fakes and idiots. Look harder and qualify hard |
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As a single guy who was part of a couple I can sympathise with you and also explain a lot. With verifications as people leave the site or hide their profiles during periods of inactivity they can look fake. My most recent is probably 8 months old as I took a break while working on my relationship with my partner and the subsequent collapse of my marriage. Some of my verifications mention my wife I haven’t taken them off yet but I am debating that as it’s a double edged sword. I work in a job where i don’t care if people see me as It would not affect my job in any way but for others face pics can be a big issue and as a man having a bunch of dick pics can be off putting or at least I’m led to believe from forum post and taking imaginative pictures as a man is hard. Im a relatively confident guy and understand I’m not going to be everyone’s person preference. And my personal preferences limit my opinions further. A less confident man might just give up on constantly updating pictures and profile.
I fully understand your frustration and hope that from the remaining 10 or so percent you find what you are looking for.
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
This is the biggest issue on this site… obviously there are genuine single guys here, but the sheer amount of dross makes it too much hassle for people to bother looking.
As a genuine single guy who would love to meet a couple such as yourselves, my advice would be to try clubs and organised socials to meet guys"
We already attend clubs and always keep an eye out. |
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"As a single guy who was part of a couple I can sympathise with you and also explain a lot. With verifications as people leave the site or hide their profiles during periods of inactivity they can look fake. My most recent is probably 8 months old as I took a break while working on my relationship with my partner and the subsequent collapse of my marriage. Some of my verifications mention my wife I haven’t taken them off yet but I am debating that as it’s a double edged sword. I work in a job where i don’t care if people see me as It would not affect my job in any way but for others face pics can be a big issue and as a man having a bunch of dick pics can be off putting or at least I’m led to believe from forum post and taking imaginative pictures as a man is hard. Im a relatively confident guy and understand I’m not going to be everyone’s person preference. And my personal preferences limit my opinions further. A less confident man might just give up on constantly updating pictures and profile.
I fully understand your frustration and hope that from the remaining 10 or so percent you find what you are looking for.
Ashley x"
Trust us we know when we spot a fake, someone here for pic collecting and or behind there wives back etc, that's not just single males, we find countless of couples profiles and females with the same.
That being said we constantly look or keep an eye out it doesn't smear our view. |
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"it's tricky, we have had good meets, and not so good meets.. And clubs are even more of a lottery.... Th goal is regular guy who we get along with, who is near enough for a spur of the moment booty call.. Oh, and a local woman, and a local couple.. etc etc
We'd like with both male and female single, as it would open so many potential doors."
Shame you're out of our 'local regular' range |
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Plenty of quality singles on this site and I find loads while reading couples' profiles. You have to bear in mind that the site is very coupels/female orientated so 90% of single guys will not have many veris and see much action if any.
Most couples are looking for couples and the single females are mostly playing with other couples so there's not much left for single guys.
Some of the lucky ones like myself who actually met people on here prefer to keep their veris private. I'm a shy person and don't like any attention whatsoever so I put all my videos and pictures in the friendzone. This has limited me a lot on this site but I'm comfortable with that.
There are alot of single female profiles with nothing on them. I found a few gems like this but yes its hardwork. Good things don't come easy. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
Most men are not verified because after years of trying are lucky to get a one word reply let alone meet. So hoe are they going to get verified.
Would ut nit be better if you said hello and tried getting to know a man on here and get the ball rolling instead of relying on someone else to do it for you? |
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over a year ago
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
Not all single men are like that on here |
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over a year ago
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
Limiting lots of options by blocking single blokes.
Happy to chat if you want to send me a mail |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
Limiting lots of options by blocking single blokes.
Happy to chat if you want to send me a mail "
Limiting isn't a bad thing, its on our terms, if we are interested we will engage with you, it's a regular practice, also avoids awakward messages of dick pics. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
Most men are not verified because after years of trying are lucky to get a one word reply let alone meet. So hoe are they going to get verified.
Would ut nit be better if you said hello and tried getting to know a man on here and get the ball rolling instead of relying on someone else to do it for you? "
If your not pics verified then why would we? We understand the challenges ahead of single men, but we are also of the mindset flicking through dick pics, short descriptions and suspicious alerts such as we have outlined is why we don't.
Also if your in a far out radius to us then unless there's something exceptional we won't, that's on the bases of cold feet syndrome we have fell prey too, that isn't limited to just single men.
These replies would be easier if you read the entire forum chat here haha... |
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over a year ago
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"Just so we don't keep repeating ourselves guys, please read this post, it may just help.."
It’s odd though how your profile is blocked to men so they can’t message you
Just saying |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"Just so we don't keep repeating ourselves guys, please read this post, it may just help..
It’s odd though how your profile is blocked to men so they can’t message you
Just saying "
It's the best way, as they can message the guys they are interested in. |
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"Just so we don't keep repeating ourselves guys, please read this post, it may just help..
It’s odd though how your profile is blocked to men so they can’t message you
Just saying
It's the best way, as they can message the guys they are interested in. "
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"Just so we don't keep repeating ourselves guys, please read this post, it may just help..
It’s odd though how your profile is blocked to men so they can’t message you
Just saying "
I’d say so they can message the men they want instead of like many couples being sent tons of messages that aren’t right from them? |
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"Just so we don't keep repeating ourselves guys, please read this post, it may just help..
It’s odd though how your profile is blocked to men so they can’t message you
Just saying
I’d say so they can message the men they want instead of like many couples being sent tons of messages that aren’t right from them? "
I get that now after someone already said |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics.
90% that's quite a high stat"
Agree.
My profile doesn't exhibit those traits. Lack of verifications is not an indication of fake, it's actually an indication of realism !!!!! .. getting meets on here as a genuine single guy is like rocking horse shite...
When you scan through the 'popular' guys it's very apparent they are shagging around prolifically and that's just the verifications that they choose to display ! Yet almost all women on here don't want to 'shag the site' but are evidently queuing up to 'shag the site bike' lol .. always makes me laugh..
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By *erto94Man
over a year ago
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Because at the end of the day this site is out weighed by single blokes or fake accounts i try and get meets on here but its virtually impossible then not able to verified in person on here
Best thing for you guys is meet people in clubs and then go from there as atleast there no way of them being fake if you meet them in person |
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"Just so we don't keep repeating ourselves guys, please read this post, it may just help..
It’s odd though how your profile is blocked to men so they can’t message you
Just saying
I’d say so they can message the men they want instead of like many couples being sent tons of messages that aren’t right from them?
I get that now after someone already said "
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"Because at the end of the day this site is out weighed by single blokes or fake accounts i try and get meets on here but its virtually impossible then not able to verified in person on here
Best thing for you guys is meet people in clubs and then go from there as atleast there no way of them being fake if you meet them in person "
Clubs is a great way for sure |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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The tools that work for us.
1. Being proactive. Going looking instead of waiting for incoming mail.
2. Decent filters. Make sure you have them set up. Cuts down on inbox admin.
3. Be ruthless with the block button. If you find a profile you'll never be interested in just block it. Saves coming across it again in future searches and guarantees they'll never message you.
4. Be flexible on distances. You never know how far someone will be happy to travel and trips away are also fun for you.
5. Clubs. They're great but no magic wand. You get to skip the 'can you send a face pic' stage but there's still no guarantee you'll fancy anyone there. If organised nights have a guest list then browse it in advance and make contact before the night.
6. And always remember. As a couple at least you have eachother. Singles don't, so they can (sometimes) be less choosy in who they'll meet. Never take one for the team or drop your standards because you're struggling to find the right guy.
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"The tools that work for us.
1. Being proactive. Going looking instead of waiting for incoming mail.
2. Decent filters. Make sure you have them set up. Cuts down on inbox admin.
3. Be ruthless with the block button. If you find a profile you'll never be interested in just block it. Saves coming across it again in future searches and guarantees they'll never message you.
4. Be flexible on distances. You never know how far someone will be happy to travel and trips away are also fun for you.
5. Clubs. They're great but no magic wand. You get to skip the 'can you send a face pic' stage but there's still no guarantee you'll fancy anyone there. If organised nights have a guest list then browse it in advance and make contact before the night.
6. And always remember. As a couple at least you have eachother. Singles don't, so they can (sometimes) be less choosy in who they'll meet. Never take one for the team or drop your standards because you're struggling to find the right guy.
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I totally agree with all this |
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The strange thing is that in all our searching we've never once come across a guy who wasn't photo verified, or wasn't verified by meeting, or who didn't have public pictures, or who wasn't looking to meet a couple, or for who we weren't the right age.
Not one. They all ticked every box.
Maybe you're not using advanced search? |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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Keeping the filter, not looking for singles guys, is a good approach if 90% of the message you get are crap. It's the best feature of fab in my opinion.
The forums can be a good way to find people I find. Either the forum games or specific topics that have been posted can be a good way to get a chat started and you can then pm the people you think might suit.
Hopefully things pic up soon OPs. |
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"Just so we don't keep repeating ourselves guys, please read this post, it may just help..
It’s odd though how your profile is blocked to men so they can’t message you
Just saying
It's the best way, as they can message the guys they are interested in. "
Said thus probably 4 times now hahaha... Again why we block, if a forum can't be read with hints and tips... |
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"The tools that work for us.
1. Being proactive. Going looking instead of waiting for incoming mail.
2. Decent filters. Make sure you have them set up. Cuts down on inbox admin.
3. Be ruthless with the block button. If you find a profile you'll never be interested in just block it. Saves coming across it again in future searches and guarantees they'll never message you.
4. Be flexible on distances. You never know how far someone will be happy to travel and trips away are also fun for you.
5. Clubs. They're great but no magic wand. You get to skip the 'can you send a face pic' stage but there's still no guarantee you'll fancy anyone there. If organised nights have a guest list then browse it in advance and make contact before the night.
6. And always remember. As a couple at least you have eachother. Singles don't, so they can (sometimes) be less choosy in who they'll meet. Never take one for the team or drop your standards because you're struggling to find the right guy.
A"
These points already covered already, we do all this, it's just a journey like most, will take time, but just highlights of frustrations.
Some that soke guys may see and they may use to fix there own and benefit from.
Community spirit and all... |
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"Keeping the filter, not looking for singles guys, is a good approach if 90% of the message you get are crap. It's the best feature of fab in my opinion.
The forums can be a good way to find people I find. Either the forum games or specific topics that have been posted can be a good way to get a chat started and you can then pm the people you think might suit.
Hopefully things pic up soon OPs. "
Exactly! Forums are brilliant topics of discussions but also a way to filter like minded people! |
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"Keeping the filter, not looking for singles guys, is a good approach if 90% of the message you get are crap. It's the best feature of fab in my opinion.
The forums can be a good way to find people I find. Either the forum games or specific topics that have been posted can be a good way to get a chat started and you can then pm the people you think might suit.
Hopefully things pic up soon OPs.
Exactly! Forums are brilliant topics of discussions but also a way to filter like minded people! "
Typically fab curse but yes it’s’ also difficult to find a couple that’s interested in single men so it’s down to club meets at the moment.. but you have a interesting profile x |
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6. And always remember. As a couple at least you have eachother. Singles don't, so they can (sometimes) be less choosy in who they'll meet. Never take one for the team or drop your standards because you're struggling to find the right guy.
A"
Single can be less choosy - what an insulting thing to say. I don’t lower my standards for anyone and I am doing ok. |
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6. And always remember. As a couple at least you have eachother. Singles don't, so they can (sometimes) be less choosy in who they'll meet. Never take one for the team or drop your standards because you're struggling to find the right guy.
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Single can be less choosy - what an insulting thing to say. I don’t lower my standards for anyone and I am doing ok."
100% agree.
Fussy/choosy/standards call it what you will.
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6. And always remember. As a couple at least you have eachother. Singles don't, so they can (sometimes) be less choosy in who they'll meet. Never take one for the team or drop your standards because you're struggling to find the right guy.
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Single can be less choosy - what an insulting thing to say. I don’t lower my standards for anyone and I am doing ok."
Agree with you mate, the arrogance of some couples on here takes your breath away sometimes |
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6. And always remember. As a couple at least you have eachother. Singles don't, so they can (sometimes) be less choosy in who they'll meet. Never take one for the team or drop your standards because you're struggling to find the right guy.
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Single can be less choosy - what an insulting thing to say. I don’t lower my standards for anyone and I am doing ok."
Yeah we elected to not react to that, we have said time and time again that just because you are not our taste your not someone else's, but disregard and degrade someone's value because they are "single" is a bit much. |
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"Before we start, this is not a advertisement either
We have noticed we have been looking to branch out towards males now mmf, slowly on our terms.
However when we try looking for single guys profiles, we find 90% have a combination of no pics, no public veris or potential fake ones as 1 or 2 veris you click on them and there's no profile to be seen who's veried them, poor descriptions.
It's a massive challenge, we are now thinking clubs only, but that limits, its frustrating many will complain no action but the poor profiles really make it hard to find anyone we like..
Anyway just a general post haha, we are always on the look out, even check who's fabbed our pics."
Set what/who you’re looking for to a specific search you can save. Then cut the wheat from the chaff using the block button. You’ll soon whittle down to potential matches.
From a single guy’s point of view; my experience of finding couples and solo ladies who are actually genuine, is equally frustrating. But this is Fab! Fakes/time wasters come with the territory. Just block and move on. Good luck! |
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"We are very much in the same boat as you, OP. And have experienced the same as you with regards to single guys, we've even talked about visiting a club as well.
I've seen other posts saying the same thing too - I don't think it's hard for guys to actually make an effort with their profiles but so few of them do
Mrs
Come on guys we aren't that bas"
No, we know you're not all like that - however the number of messages we get from single guys that are just unsolicited dick pics or "wanna fuck?" is unreal. Finding the genuine guys feels like an impossible task for us right now, we'd love to get to know people for some regular fun...
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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6. And always remember. As a couple at least you have eachother. Singles don't, so they can (sometimes) be less choosy in who they'll meet. Never take one for the team or drop your standards because you're struggling to find the right guy.
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Single can be less choosy - what an insulting thing to say. I don’t lower my standards for anyone and I am doing ok.
Yeah we elected to not react to that, we have said time and time again that just because you are not our taste your not someone else's, but disregard and degrade someone's value because they are "single" is a bit much."
We started out on here as two singles.
It's funny how some people get so defensive over an observation though. Time and time again, couples and single women have remarked on forum posts about the gushing compliments they receive in messages - even when displaying no photos at all. Similarly the frequency of abuse some get the second they turn someone down where they go from being 'stunning' one second to 'fat/overweight/a.n. other insult' minutes later.
I've been to enough clubs in the last 15 years to have seen guys late into the night desperately trying to hook up with the only women left unaccompanied regardless of any attraction.
I used the word 'sometimes' which several posters seem to have ignored. I didn't say every single.
If you honestly believe that some singles won't drop standards to get sex during a dry spell then I have a bridge to sell you........
The point being made was that couples have eachother. Sex on tap. No need to include others in order to have an active sex life unless they choose to. Singles don't.
Take offence should you choose. It doesn't make the point any less valid.
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