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By *miles69 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There's a lot of them. Most are partnered and won't meet alone. Very few singles (in my area).
Even when I do get to speak to 'single' ones, a partner appears to get mentioned so far down the line"
This is exactly my problem ! |
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"Where are they all !!!  "
I would really recommend attending group organised socials.
It’s a great non pressured way to chat to people. We have found lots of couples where they are only looking for ladies, or single ladies who are super comfy to without a man are really chatty in that environment without maybe the expectation of a club.
Clubs are often more couples seeking other couples, or men. Not all though, bi nights are good too |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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best way to find fun bi women to have fun with is a night on the town ending in a gay club / or gay night or one of the several names they come under ive met loads of women that way single women and female couples once your in that group door open evrywhere and also private paties and get togethers great fun ... |
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By *miles69 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"best way to find fun bi women to have fun with is a night on the town ending in a gay club / or gay night or one of the several names they come under ive met loads of women that way single women and female couples once your in that group door open evrywhere and also private paties and get togethers great fun ... "
We are doing a girls weekend away in Manchester for bi women because they are so hard to find, there’s 19 of us far so it should be good fun… any other ladies welcome btw 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I message when I can but the decision to meet comes from the Boss.
This would put me off.. sorry "
Each to their own. He's my Dom so he makes the rules. |
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By *miles69 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I message when I can but the decision to meet comes from the Boss.
This would put me off.. sorry
Each to their own. He's my Dom so he makes the rules."
Sounds like your not a single bi women with her own mind and rules so most of the real bi women know wouldn’t play anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the site yes there is! Shame aswell!
You're contradicting yourself now  "
Leave him alone 
Can't blame the fella for trying and it's easily confusing, given that the subject matter is about enjoying twats.
Not the stupid or obnoxious kind but the woman's genitals.
Who knows, the guys may even like it if the women were to twat him.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey you never know I may like it "
Be careful what u wish for Joey, women can be very fesity, have been on the receiving end a few times and had to use the safe word.
You may live to regret it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everything and everyone is amazing xx
No they aren't. There are some proper t*ats on this site.
Took the words right out my mouth ! X"
WoW, u2 must have encountered some harsh behavioural patterns. Is what bullies have been doing for millennia: undermine, verbally attack and mock. Hope u find plenty fun, since there are lots of lovely peeps on site. Even the twats and dicks can be nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies, checkout Eventbrite online. You'll find lots in and around London that hosts Lesbian speed dating.
Failing that, start saving for holiday to Aqua Girl (Miami).
Every autumn Miami’s South Beach is home to one of the best lesbian festivals in the US. It’s five solid days of girl-on-girl fun and frolics. Dance parties, pool parties, tea parties – even some yoga for those who can manage downward dog on a hangover!
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By *miles69 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Ladies, checkout Eventbrite online. You'll find lots in and around London that hosts Lesbian speed dating.
Failing that, start saving for holiday to Aqua Girl (Miami).
Every autumn Miami’s South Beach is home to one of the best lesbian festivals in the US. It’s five solid days of girl-on-girl fun and frolics. Dance parties, pool parties, tea parties – even some yoga for those who can manage downward dog on a hangover!
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I’m in Cumbria so the London scene is lost on me ffs…and if gas and electricity keep going up I won’t be able to drive to work let alone fly to Miami  but hey ty sweetheart for looking into this your a bloody star xxxx |
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"Ladies, checkout Eventbrite online. You'll find lots in and around London that hosts Lesbian speed dating.
Failing that, start saving for holiday to Aqua Girl (Miami).
Every autumn Miami’s South Beach is home to one of the best lesbian festivals in the US. It’s five solid days of girl-on-girl fun and frolics. Dance parties, pool parties, tea parties – even some yoga for those who can manage downward dog on a hangover!
I’m in Cumbria so the London scene is lost on me ffs…and if gas and electricity keep going up I won’t be able to drive to work let alone fly to Miami but hey ty sweetheart for looking into this your a bloody star xxxx"
Felt that!
Going to give Her a whirl thanks. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies, checkout Eventbrite online. You'll find lots in and around London that hosts Lesbian speed dating.
Failing that, start saving for holiday to Aqua Girl (Miami).
Every autumn Miami’s South Beach is home to one of the best lesbian festivals in the US. It’s five solid days of girl-on-girl fun and frolics. Dance parties, pool parties, tea parties – even some yoga for those who can manage downward dog on a hangover!
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Oh wow!!  
Well you learn a something new everyday lol
Miss S x |
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By *miles69 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There’s a lot of them on here! I’m Pansexual so technically under the same umbrella.
C x"
There might seem loads but some don’t meet only chat or if they are in a couple it’s usually the man in the relationship that contacts the single women and some bi women like myself don’t want to meet couples and it puts them off, it’s hard work |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies, checkout Eventbrite online. You'll find lots in and around London that hosts Lesbian speed dating.
Failing that, start saving for holiday to Aqua Girl (Miami).
Every autumn Miami’s South Beach is home to one of the best lesbian festivals in the US. It’s five solid days of girl-on-girl fun and frolics. Dance parties, pool parties, tea parties – even some yoga for those who can manage downward dog on a hangover!
I’m in Cumbria so the London scene is lost on me ffs…and if gas and electricity keep going up I won’t be able to drive to work let alone fly to Miami but hey ty sweetheart for looking into this your a bloody star xxxx"
 I hear u sis. but we never say never. Look on the plus side, the massive advantage of moving to Cumbria from London is that the house prices are so much lower. More chance of Londoners moving and coming to you . Also, summer is around the corner so you'll not be spending that much more on gas and electricity.
Besides, I'm not entirely convinced that you're that hard up that you can't afford an outing to London for a bit of fun (weekend away for a bit of fun).
Also, you've Cumbria Lesbians at PinkCupid.com
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"There’s a lot of them on here! I’m Pansexual so technically under the same umbrella.
C x
There might seem loads but some don’t meet only chat or if they are in a couple it’s usually the man in the relationship that contacts the single women and some bi women like myself don’t want to meet couples and it puts them off, it’s hard work "
I read through after you commented and realised you’re wanting single women. In general there are less single women than coupled women on here and of those single women, even less will be in to women. There are some of us in couples who will meet with women solo. I can imagine it is hard work!
C x |
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By *miles69 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There’s a lot of them on here! I’m Pansexual so technically under the same umbrella.
C x
There might seem loads but some don’t meet only chat or if they are in a couple it’s usually the man in the relationship that contacts the single women and some bi women like myself don’t want to meet couples and it puts them off, it’s hard work
I read through after you commented and realised you’re wanting single women. In general there are less single women than coupled women on here and of those single women, even less will be in to women. There are some of us in couples who will meet with women solo. I can imagine it is hard work!
C x"
It is hard work and commitment nfusing, you get straight women looking for bi women which is weird you get bi women that have blocked women and just looking for men that’s confusing you get bi women that don’t meet and you get bi women in couples who will meet alone but want to take videos or pictures which is a nooooo and to top it off you get the man pleasers which are women saying there bi but they ain’t they just wanna please the guy !
It’s hard work finding a normal bi women |
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By *miles69 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There’s a lot of them on here! I’m Pansexual so technically under the same umbrella.
C x
There might seem loads but some don’t meet only chat or if they are in a couple it’s usually the man in the relationship that contacts the single women and some bi women like myself don’t want to meet couples and it puts them off, it’s hard work
I read through after you commented and realised you’re wanting single women. In general there are less single women than coupled women on here and of those single women, even less will be in to women. There are some of us in couples who will meet with women solo. I can imagine it is hard work!
C x
It is hard work and commitment nfusing, you get straight women looking for bi women which is weird you get bi women that have blocked women and just looking for men that’s confusing you get bi women that don’t meet and you get bi women in couples who will meet alone but want to take videos or pictures which is a nooooo and to top it off you get the man pleasers which are women saying there bi but they ain’t they just wanna please the guy !
It’s hard work finding a normal bi women "
oops that should say can be confusing * (bloody phone) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi Polly, another venue for u2 consider is "Vanilla" which is supposed to be a premier lesbian bar in Manchester. It's been running since 1998 and is known to be the “lesbian mecca of the north.”. Check it out online and consider going to have some fun. Is open: Sun - Sun 19:00 - 01:00; Thu - Thu 19:00 - 02:00; Fri - Sat 16:00 - 04:00 Nothing ventured nothing gained. Enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Polly, another venue for u2 consider is "Vanilla" which is supposed to be a premier lesbian bar in Manchester. It's been running since 1998 and is known to be the “lesbian mecca of the north.”. Check it out online and consider going to have some fun. Is open: Sun - Sun 19:00 - 01:00; Thu - Thu 19:00 - 02:00; Fri - Sat 16:00 - 04:00 Nothing ventured nothing gained. Enjoy "
Disclaimer - I’ve not been to Manchester since 2007 so I’ve very little/no personal experience.
A quick google search for vanilla doesn’t give very good reviews and lots of comments about trans discrimination. No idea how valid these are or whether it’s just grumpy people trying to make a point but it doesn’t inspire me |
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By *miles69 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Hi Polly, another venue for u2 consider is "Vanilla" which is supposed to be a premier lesbian bar in Manchester. It's been running since 1998 and is known to be the “lesbian mecca of the north.”. Check it out online and consider going to have some fun. Is open: Sun - Sun 19:00 - 01:00; Thu - Thu 19:00 - 02:00; Fri - Sat 16:00 - 04:00 Nothing ventured nothing gained. Enjoy
Disclaimer - I’ve not been to Manchester since 2007 so I’ve very little/no personal experience.
A quick google search for vanilla doesn’t give very good reviews and lots of comments about trans discrimination. No idea how valid these are or whether it’s just grumpy people trying to make a point but it doesn’t inspire me "
I’ve heard of vanilla before a few times and also had mixed reviews about it, from most of the lesbians I’ve met and chatted to they aren’t really into bi women but that could just be the ones I’ve come across.
But ty lovely for the info xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is hard work and commitment nfusing, you get straight women looking for bi women which is weird you get bi women that have blocked women and just looking for men that’s confusing you get bi women that don’t meet and you get bi women in couples who will meet alone but want to take videos or pictures which is a nooooo and to top it off you get the man pleasers which are women saying there bi but they ain’t they just wanna please the guy !
It’s hard work finding a normal bi women "
This is an excellent summing up and I’ve experienced them all.
Recently been chatting to a woman and it was all looking very promising until the inevitable….. “My boyfriend would love to watch us together “
So disappointing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Polly, another venue for u2 consider is "Vanilla" which is supposed to be a premier lesbian bar in Manchester. It's been running since 1998 and is known to be the “lesbian mecca of the north.”. Check it out online and consider going to have some fun. Is open: Sun - Sun 19:00 - 01:00; Thu - Thu 19:00 - 02:00; Fri - Sat 16:00 - 04:00 Nothing ventured nothing gained. Enjoy
Disclaimer - I’ve not been to Manchester since 2007 so I’ve very little/no personal experience.
A quick google search for vanilla doesn’t give very good reviews and lots of comments about trans discrimination. No idea how valid these are or whether it’s just grumpy people trying to make a point but it doesn’t inspire me "
Always good to read the reviews to gain an understanding. However, experience has shown me it's good to check the clubs out for oneself, knowing someone's dislike can be another person's like. In addition, no two nights in a club scene is the same. I've been going to club(s) for a while now & selected one that I enjoy more than others; have had some gr8 times there and on other days not as gr8 dependent on footfall on day. Like I said, nothing ventured nothing gained. Reviews are important but they are other peeps opinions, and I believe it's always good to have one of your own by experiencing the club scene for yourself. Similar to kinks knowing someone elses likes can be anothers dislike. Be lucky and enjoy. |
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"Always good to read the reviews to gain an understanding. However, experience has shown me it's good to check the clubs out for oneself, knowing someone's dislike can be another person's like. In addition, no two nights in a club scene is the same. I've been going to club(s) for a while now & selected one that I enjoy more than others; have had some gr8 times there and on other days not as gr8 dependent on footfall on day. Like I said, nothing ventured nothing gained. Reviews are important but they are other peeps opinions, and I believe it's always good to have one of your own by experiencing the club scene for yourself. Similar to kinks knowing someone elses likes can be anothers dislike. Be lucky and enjoy. "
This is so true, hence my disclaimer
All internet reviews should be taken with a little pinch of salt. It’s much more likely that people who have had a bad experience will get all keyboard warrior and put their thoughts on the screen. Most people who are happy will just go home and tell their friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Google is our friend (do some homework and go and have some fun). Plenty opportunities out there if you're willing to make a little effort.
What is the lesbian capital of England?
Hebden Bridge
Nestled in West Yorkshire's Upper Calder Valley, Hebden Bridge is affectionately known as the 'lesbian capital of the UK'.
What is the biggest lesbian party in the world?
Club Skirts Dinah Shore Weekend, popularly known as “The Dinah”, is a five-day weekend getaway and music festival catering to the lesbian community that takes place annually in Palm Springs, California, United States.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always good to read the reviews to gain an understanding. However, experience has shown me it's good to check the clubs out for oneself, knowing someone's dislike can be another person's like. In addition, no two nights in a club scene is the same. I've been going to club(s) for a while now & selected one that I enjoy more than others; have had some gr8 times there and on other days not as gr8 dependent on footfall on day. Like I said, nothing ventured nothing gained. Reviews are important but they are other peeps opinions, and I believe it's always good to have one of your own by experiencing the club scene for yourself. Similar to kinks knowing someone elses likes can be anothers dislike. Be lucky and enjoy.
This is so true, hence my disclaimer
All internet reviews should be taken with a little pinch of salt. It’s much more likely that people who have had a bad experience will get all keyboard warrior and put their thoughts on the screen. Most people who are happy will just go home and tell their friends "
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By *miles69 OP Woman
over a year ago
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It is hard work and commitment nfusing, you get straight women looking for bi women which is weird you get bi women that have blocked women and just looking for men that’s confusing you get bi women that don’t meet and you get bi women in couples who will meet alone but want to take videos or pictures which is a nooooo and to top it off you get the man pleasers which are women saying there bi but they ain’t they just wanna please the guy !
It’s hard work finding a normal bi women
This is an excellent summing up and I’ve experienced them all.
Recently been chatting to a woman and it was all looking very promising until the inevitable….. “My boyfriend would love to watch us together “
So disappointing "
Get this all the time… instant nope ! |
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Get this all the time… instant nope ! "
Same here. It’s really annoying, kind of feels like they’ve had an ulterior motive all along.
I’m now on the lookout for women only club nights. If such a thing exists! |
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