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"Hi there, i have been on this site and other sites mostly met just single females or hotwifing couples, id like to know how can i find a genuine couple thats into cuckolding?" pal theirs loads on here into cuckolding might just need to widen your search  | |||
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"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics." Exactly this. | |||
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"There are loads of cuck and FLR couples, but you’ll tend to find them that does the searching, not the other way around. Otherwise it’s just a third wheel fuck." That’s so true, glad you agree. | |||
"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics." | |||
"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics. "Glad you are in agreement and it’s not just us ! | |||
"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics. "Ditto Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs. | |||
"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics." THIS | |||
"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics." Exactly......and the so called "bulls" who assume I am submissive do my head in | |||
"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.
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Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs. "Most cucks enjoy seeing our wives with other guys, it’s what keeps us going and most wives enjoy the fact that they have the freedom to fuck other guys and their hubbies love to see the wife being pleasured. Most bulls seem to forget that cuckold meets are primarily about the hotwife getting what she needs, the cuck enjoying the hotwife getting what she needs and the bull is last in the line, basically he’s a cock to provide a service. But loads of so-called bulls you talk to think it’s all about them and that’s why they aren’t bulls ! | |||
"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.
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Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs.
Most cucks enjoy seeing our wives with other guys, it’s what keeps us going and most wives enjoy the fact that they have the freedom to fuck other guys and their hubbies love to see the wife being pleasured.
Most bulls seem to forget that cuckold meets are primarily about the hotwife getting what she needs, the cuck enjoying the hotwife getting what she needs and the bull is last in the line, basically he’s a cock to provide a service.
But loads of so-called bulls you talk to think it’s all about them and that’s why they aren’t bulls !"They are the ones that talk a load of "Bull" lol  | |||
"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.
Ditto
Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs.
Most cucks enjoy seeing our wives with other guys, it’s what keeps us going and most wives enjoy the fact that they have the freedom to fuck other guys and their hubbies love to see the wife being pleasured.
Most bulls seem to forget that cuckold meets are primarily about the hotwife getting what she needs, the cuck enjoying the hotwife getting what she needs and the bull is last in the line, basically he’s a cock to provide a service.
But loads of so-called bulls you talk to think it’s all about them and that’s why they aren’t bulls !" | |||
"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics." It’s more complex than I realised when I first entered the scene. But worth it. | |||
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"Most guys think cuckholding is just fucking another guys wife whilst calling him names, and it’s so much more than that. Experienced cuck couples are looking for a subservient connection which involves time and effort, and on that basis they probably search themselves rather than respond to approaches from others" Totally agree, that’s why us cuckold couples find it difficult to get serious meets arranged. | |||
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"Most guys think cuckholding is just fucking another guys wife whilst calling him names, and it’s so much more than that. Experienced cuck couples are looking for a subservient connection which involves time and effort, and on that basis they probably search themselves rather than respond to approaches from others Totally agree, that’s why us cuckold couples find it difficult to get serious meets arranged." You mean you find it difficult to get serious meets from the men you want. | |||
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"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.
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Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs. "Totally agree. Have to spend as much time acknowledging the male as the female if not more. End of the day it’s the male letting you play with his wife | |||
"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics.
Ditto
Most ‘bulls’ wanting a cuckold couple just want the female and forget there is a male in the couple who still has his cuckold needs.
Most cucks enjoy seeing our wives with other guys, it’s what keeps us going and most wives enjoy the fact that they have the freedom to fuck other guys and their hubbies love to see the wife being pleasured.
Most bulls seem to forget that cuckold meets are primarily about the hotwife getting what she needs, the cuck enjoying the hotwife getting what she needs and the bull is last in the line, basically he’s a cock to provide a service.
But loads of so-called bulls you talk to think it’s all about them and that’s why they aren’t bulls !"agree with you on all, its not about the fuck as so many so called bulls think , for us its about all 3 having fun and enjoyment,, we like to build up and get to know the guy we are going to have fun and games with , and the more meets we have the better it gets for all, with long term meets we all get more relaxed and open and this leads to the rule book getting thinner, | |||
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"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics." We second this | |||
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"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics." This is exactly it | |||
"The issue tends to be distance on this site when you find someone who ticks the boxes and to play this scenario it has to be someone local and more than a one off" You can say that again. I've never struggled to find likeminded couples. For me the struggle has always been finding a couple that that lives local enough to make it possible to get the most out of this lifestyle. One offs don't really do it for me so I miss out on a lot of instant gratification scenarios but I'd still rather hold out for a couple that's a good match for me. | |||
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"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics." Exaclty this | |||
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"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics." Nailed it right there! | |||
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"There’s a fair few of us on here, but we are selective and most of us like a bit more creativity in messages other than just the normal ‘how are you’ or I’m in your area today’. Cuckolding is something that takes a lot of planning and interaction and most guys on here are just after a quick fuck and don’t understand the cuckold dynamics." | |||
"There are so many nuances to cuckolding. The interaction with the cuck is as important as with the female. Not every couple wants the same thing. There are things I won’t do to just get laid. It has to work for everyone involved. But when it does, it’s very rewarding " Well explained | |||
"We find, most Bulls think sending the cuck out of the bedroom is what it is all about. I follow my cuck out of the bedroom on the way home. Our dynamic is all three need to be involved. Talking face to face with cards on table helps. Fully straight Bulls seems to be a recipe for issues for us as at times cuck needs to be shown who is where in the pecking order. I enjoy private times with my Bull/Lover, but not all the time and certainly not every time we meet. "That's the kind of balance that I prefer over time too. However for me personally I'd prefer it if the cuck is there for the very first meet. I love the imagery and symbolism when the cuck guides my cock into his lady for the very first time while all three of us watch. | |||
"We find, most Bulls think sending the cuck out of the bedroom is what it is all about. I follow my cuck out of the bedroom on the way home. Our dynamic is all three need to be involved. Talking face to face with cards on table helps. Fully straight Bulls seems to be a recipe for issues for us as at times cuck needs to be shown who is where in the pecking order. I enjoy private times with my Bull/Lover, but not all the time and certainly not every time we meet.
That's the kind of balance that I prefer over time too. However for me personally I'd prefer it if the cuck is there for the very first meet.
I love the imagery and symbolism when the cuck guides my cock into his lady for the very first time while all three of us watch."That’s pretty much symbolic in cuckolding, not for everyone though, but something more experienced loving cuckold couples will do. | |||
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"We find, most Bulls think sending the cuck out of the bedroom is what it is all about. I follow my cuck out of the bedroom on the way home. Our dynamic is all three need to be involved. Talking face to face with cards on table helps. Fully straight Bulls seems to be a recipe for issues for us as at times cuck needs to be shown who is where in the pecking order. I enjoy private times with my Bull/Lover, but not all the time and certainly not every time we meet.
That's the kind of balance that I prefer over time too. However for me personally I'd prefer it if the cuck is there for the very first meet.
I love the imagery and symbolism when the cuck guides my cock into his lady for the very first time while all three of us watch.
That’s pretty much symbolic in cuckolding, not for everyone though, but something more experienced loving cuckold couples will do."Indeed, naturally it has to be fun and consensual for all concerned but if a couple wants to go down the rabbit hole it's something I'd want to explore with them  | |||
"We find, most Bulls think sending the cuck out of the bedroom is what it is all about. I follow my cuck out of the bedroom on the way home. Our dynamic is all three need to be involved. Talking face to face with cards on table helps. Fully straight Bulls seems to be a recipe for issues for us as at times cuck needs to be shown who is where in the pecking order. I enjoy private times with my Bull/Lover, but not all the time and certainly not every time we meet. " | |||
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"I know it's a cliche but really, every couple, including cucks, is different. The cuck may be submissive or he may be a full blown alpha-male - with a kink! Same goes for the wife. However, imho for any "arrangement" to have the characteristics of a cuckold relationship, it needs to be something that has some duration - not a one off, or a few quick meets and done. It needs to be something where both halves of the couple get their needs (diverse as they may be) satisfied - and it is the wifelover's responsibility to listen, understand and meet those needs. The couple are central to this, theirs is the stable relationship - the extra man can and should be discarded and replaced once if and when they "grow out of him". He'll just have to find a new couple as they will find a new man. It is NOT just about sex and certainly not, necessarily, about overt humiliation. There is an enormous psychological element to it - without that, it just ain't cuckoldry (again imho!). In my, sadly limited, experience it is the couple who find and select the guy rather than the other way round - but, by heck, it's good when they choose you!" This is excellent and agree all  | |||
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