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By *haz46 OP Woman over a year ago

Stockport

Hi, is there anyone on here whos partner wont swing, and what have they done about it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got my popcorn…

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By *arried BifemWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

Yes there’s plenty

Some swing with consent, some swing without

Simples

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"Hi, is there anyone on here whos partner wont swing, and what have they done about it?"

Not much you can do about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't swing either and stay with them.

Leave them due to not being on same page.

Cheat.

Those are the options I see available

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely that’s a conversation that should of been had before joining the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try & work on it.. fantasy role play etc..

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

If you can't come to some arrangement then you need to decide which is more important...swinging or your partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so choices are a) leave, b) respect her/his choice

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By *itvclaireTV/TS over a year ago

Birmingham

My partner no longer swings, but she's happy for me to.

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By *ffanotdykeCouple over a year ago

Telford

As has been said by others you have three options

1. Accept your partners preference

2. Go your seperate ways

3. Cheat and be prepared to accept the consequences.

What ever your choice someone is not going to be happy.

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By *haz46 OP Woman over a year ago

Stockport

hey still talking to my partner about swinging

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By *ickingdelightMan over a year ago

Cotswolds

There is always the option that your partner is happy for you to swing and they could be not involved at all, or involved by you showing pictures/ discussing afterwards etc.

They may want to explore in future.

Example being my wife is happy that I’m here and any meets/chats I have on here we discuss. She’s just given birth so not seeking this in her life but wants to explore in the future.

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By *e Platypuss de ErotiqueMan over a year ago

Bristol

Partner used to swing, we had a couple's profile but swings no longer. Occasionally we get the couple's profile out of mothballs but at the moment she's not interested. I have her consent and she has mine if she ever decided to rejoin.

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By *ripodius WillyusMan over a year ago

Here and there

So she wont swing so what i am single and love swinging.

But if in real life relationship I would not then go behind the ladys back. Very disrepectful.

Have the guts tell her you are on here see what she says.

Wheres the popcorn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi, is there anyone on here whos partner wont swing, and what have they done about it?"

Depends if they have had the conversation. I had two relationships with partners who swung with me and had open relationships. Most guys never seem to talk in bed.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple over a year ago

Back of the bins.

"Hi, is there anyone on here whos partner wont swing, and what have they done about it?"

Usually this question is asked by a guy, so I’ll give you the same advice as I’d give them. You can’t coerce or persuade or force this. If someone doesn’t want to do it. Then that’s it. Decide whether your relationship is more important than swinging and act accordingly.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple over a year ago

Back of the bins.

"So she wont swing so what i am single and love swinging.

But if in real life relationship I would not then go behind the ladys back. Very disrepectful.

Have the guts tell her you are on here see what she says.

Wheres the popcorn"

Op is female.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sher won't swap so it's just voyeurism /exhibitionist fun

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