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Winks, Picture fab or messages,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s always nice to receive the trio. Fabs of pic and videos knowing people are enjoying viewing, wink to show interest and a message to take it further |
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Depends what the person wants. I wouldn't assume a picture fab means they are interested in taking things further, but a wink or message is more likely to mean they are (unless the message says otherwise). |
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We ignore anything that is not a message with face pics attached. We just want to know up front - before getting into any other bullshit - who you are, why you want to meet us and whether we find you attractive in return. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We ignore anything that is not a message with face pics attached. We just want to know up front - before getting into any other bullshit - who you are, why you want to meet us and whether we find you attractive in return."
This is awesome. We respect blunt and direct |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No preference at all! If people wink we have a look and if we like them, we’ll wink back. If we get a message we always reply even if it’s just a polite no thank you. We look at fabs and may wink the odd one or two who stand out |
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Winks and messages can be flattering, particularly if they are within 20mile of PO30 friends requests get binned if we haven't spoken. Fabbing pictures is nice to recieve and may open doors to a conversion if they aren't contrived from a fab me thread. |
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We love it all, but a carefully thought out message from someone who is local-ish, has read our profile and sends some face pics goes to the top of the pile. More so if you’re a sexy couple or fem |
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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago
Telford |
Never look at our winks Historically they’ve never led anywhere.
Fabs are good and we’ll sometimes check out who’s been perving our pics.
Messages we prefer above anything, and we always reply. |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
just somewhere around here |
We ignore anything other than well written thought out messages. Not those one liners "how are you" or those that say "wanna fuck tonight".
The small talk messages are just so tedious.....get to the point and tell us what you are after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We ignore anything that is not a message with face pics attached. We just want to know up front - before getting into any other bullshit - who you are, why you want to meet us and whether we find you attractive in return." ..totally!
In the uk its a known fact . To Dilly dally!! Many piss around on here alot.
People only do what you allow them to do!
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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago
North cotswolds |
We use winks to show interest and message after receiving one back. We do respond to most messages received even if it's a polite no thanks and fabs, we had a fair few of them to do too much about |
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We prefer winks.
We don't waste our time writing out unique prose for those who aren't interested and won't waste their time responding. It's inefficient aside from anything else.
A wink should be a pretty much universally understood indicator of "we're prospectively DTF unless you give us a reason not to be" |
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"We prefer a message as long it’s not one of the mass copy and paste messages though"
The thing is, and I mean this in the nicest possible way, why would any professional, time poor swingers take the time to write anything other than that for a first message?
It's about a 1-5% success rate for even getting an initial response, closer to 1% for getting as far as a meet. That's 100 bespoke messages for every time you play.
I commend those who have the time, but ultimately I'm not certain that having time on one's hands is necessarily an indicator of a quality playmate. |
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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago
Telford |
"We prefer a message as long it’s not one of the mass copy and paste messages though
The thing is, and I mean this in the nicest possible way, why would any professional, time poor swingers take the time to write anything other than that for a first message?
It's about a 1-5% success rate for even getting an initial response, closer to 1% for getting as far as a meet. That's 100 bespoke messages for every time you play.
I commend those who have the time, but ultimately I'm not certain that having time on one's hands is necessarily an indicator of a quality playmate. "
For us we’re not looking for a copy of war and peace - doesn’t have to be clever or witty.
Maybe a reference to our profile. Maybe a reference to some snippet of information from our profile, like a common interest or so, something shows they have an interest in us as people rather than just a statistic or fish in a sea that their wide net of copy/paste message is trying to snag.
An expression of some sort on investment will always garner some interest from the receiver.
Surely that’s something a professional, or indeed any hard working, or busy decent person, can find a moment to put a bit of investment in? |
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"We prefer a message as long it’s not one of the mass copy and paste messages though
The thing is, and I mean this in the nicest possible way, why would any professional, time poor swingers take the time to write anything other than that for a first message?
It's about a 1-5% success rate for even getting an initial response, closer to 1% for getting as far as a meet. That's 100 bespoke messages for every time you play.
I commend those who have the time, but ultimately I'm not certain that having time on one's hands is necessarily an indicator of a quality playmate.
For us we’re not looking for a copy of war and peace - doesn’t have to be clever or witty.
Maybe a reference to our profile. Maybe a reference to some snippet of information from our profile, like a common interest or so, something shows they have an interest in us as people rather than just a statistic or fish in a sea that their wide net of copy/paste message is trying to snag.
An expression of some sort on investment will always garner some interest from the receiver.
Surely that’s something a professional, or indeed any hard working, or busy decent person, can find a moment to put a bit of investment in? "
When put in those terms, it seems very easy to do. And it is. Once or twice or even a dozen times. But fab is a numbers game |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I prefer a wink first. It's more an indication that someone's profile has caught my eye and vice versa. If so then I'll message to introduce myself but everyone has their own ways of making the first approach |
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