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I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on. |
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"Either they have problems reading or they're so arrogant that they think they can convince you to make them an exception..."
I think arrogance is closest to the mark. I think some are making assumptions on why I’m specifying black men, as I’ve seen an awful lot of white penises. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
They think they'll be the exception
I had a bloke change his age to message me ,he added 5 years
When I called him out on it he got arsey saying age was a number & I wouldn't have guessed he was younger and what did it matter .
It mattered to me & your preference matters to you,anyone who can't accept my choices won't get anywhere with me. |
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over a year ago
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"It is not the men's fault, it's because it's their penis eye reading the status, then waggling about on the keyboard sending the message. Xx"
Your giving us far too much credit |
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on. "
At least 90% of messages we receive are from people who don't match our criteria. All get blocked immediately, or if the message is really bad, insulted then blocked! People be idiots  |
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on.
At least 90% of messages we receive are from people who don't match our criteria. All get blocked immediately, or if the message is really bad, insulted then blocked! People be idiots "
I take the same approach. Frustrating isn’t it? |
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over a year ago
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That's fab for you.
People like to shoot their shot to see if they can get lucky I suppose or they are just too lazy to bother reading profiles.
We are only seeking single ladies and a couple where they are both bi/bi-curious yet straight couples or male half is straight still continue to message or wink us, people are just lazy I think.
I was going to put it in our main headline on our profile but I thought you know what no. If they can't be bothered to read our profile than we can't be bothered to politely reply or if they haven't read our other preferences then we can't be bothered with them neither.
Miss S x |
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"That's fab for you.
People like to shoot their shot to see if they can get lucky I suppose or they are just too lazy to bother reading profiles.
We are only seeking single ladies and a couple where they are both bi/bi-curious yet straight couples or male half is straight still continue to message or wink us, people are just lazy I think.
I was going to put it in our main headline on our profile but I thought you know what no. If they can't be bothered to read our profile than we can't be bothered to politely reply or if they haven't read our other preferences then we can't be bothered with them neither.
Miss S x"
It’s on my headline and has been in various forms in the years I’ve been here, it makes zero difference  |
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We state on our profile that as we’ve made an effort on here, we’d like people who think they match with us to do so too.
We get people with just dick/action shots pics/hi messages - people don’t read profiles and when they do, if THEY think they’ll be the exception then they’ll message… 
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on. "
Much like when the men are told to search for previous threads when they start a new 'i cant get any meets' thread, i would suggest you now go and search for prior threads on this exact subject, of which there have been many |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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When that happens to me and someone hasn't read my profile I don't reply to them. I just shrug it off and forget about it they are just chancing their arm hoping it might work. |
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"It is not the men's fault, it's because it's their penis eye reading the status, then waggling about on the keyboard sending the message. Xx"
Thats it got it in one |
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on.
At least 90% of messages we receive are from people who don't match our criteria. All get blocked immediately, or if the message is really bad, insulted then blocked! People be idiots
I take the same approach. Frustrating isn’t it? "
Yup! Still, we got to enjoy your pics and know we don't have to message as we don't match your shopping list! Easy |
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on.
Much like when the men are told to search for previous threads when they start a new 'i cant get any meets' thread, i would suggest you now go and search for prior threads on this exact subject, of which there have been many"
I don’t think there’s a new subject on any of the forum tbh. All gets recycled. But thanks for your kind advice.
Following me here to start trolling because you didn’t like what I said in the other thread isn’t cool btw. |
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"When that happens to me and someone hasn't read my profile I don't reply to them. I just shrug it off and forget about it they are just chancing their arm hoping it might work. "
That’s not what happened here though, although I often think it is that, these guys have read my status, quoted parts of me but left out the bit about being black Baffling. So I was hoping for some insight into that mindset. |
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"We state on our profile that as we’ve made an effort on here, we’d like people who think they match with us to do so too.
We get people with just dick/action shots pics/hi messages - people don’t read profiles and when they do, if THEY think they’ll be the exception then they’ll message…
K"
What a spectacular profile! Your pictures are incredible *chefs kiss |
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on.
Much like when the men are told to search for previous threads when they start a new 'i cant get any meets' thread, i would suggest you now go and search for prior threads on this exact subject, of which there have been many
I don’t think there’s a new subject on any of the forum tbh. All gets recycled. But thanks for your kind advice.
Following me here to start trolling because you didn’t like what I said in the other thread isn’t cool btw. "
What? |
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over a year ago
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It probably depends on your experiences and what to expect.
I personally have met with women who said they wanted sonmething else from online sites. I have had one night stands from been on a night out where they said I'm not usually there type. Therefor I might try my luck based on my exoerience of this
When a man or tv has messaged me (before I've blocked them), I get there just trying there luck. Doesn't bother me, though I do understand you get alot more mail than me
If we had a colour filter on here there would be hell on lol |
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"That's fab for you.
People like to shoot their shot to see if they can get lucky I suppose or they are just too lazy to bother reading profiles.
We are only seeking single ladies and a couple where they are both bi/bi-curious yet straight couples or male half is straight still continue to message or wink us, people are just lazy I think.
I was going to put it in our main headline on our profile but I thought you know what no. If they can't be bothered to read our profile than we can't be bothered to politely reply or if they haven't read our other preferences then we can't be bothered with them neither.
Miss S x
It’s on my headline and has been in various forms in the years I’ve been here, it makes zero difference "
Just lazy ignorant people then! It'll never change unfortunately
Miss S x |
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on.
Much like when the men are told to search for previous threads when they start a new 'i cant get any meets' thread, i would suggest you now go and search for prior threads on this exact subject, of which there have been many
I don’t think there’s a new subject on any of the forum tbh. All gets recycled. But thanks for your kind advice.
Following me here to start trolling because you didn’t like what I said in the other thread isn’t cool btw.
What? "
Which part was unclear? |
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on.
Much like when the men are told to search for previous threads when they start a new 'i cant get any meets' thread, i would suggest you now go and search for prior threads on this exact subject, of which there have been many
I don’t think there’s a new subject on any of the forum tbh. All gets recycled. But thanks for your kind advice.
Following me here to start trolling because you didn’t like what I said in the other thread isn’t cool btw.
What?
Which part was unclear?"
All of it to be honest. I have no idea what youre on about |
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"When you say "And I’m partial to a big, thick cock… " is probably leading to the confusion.
I mean I'm partial to a KFC ( breast please , lol ) But I'll also enjoy a Maccy D, or a Burger King. "
I does say above that though, in bold, that I’m only into talk black guys. Maybe I need to edit to be more specific at the end |
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"When you say "And I’m partial to a big, thick cock… " is probably leading to the confusion.
I mean I'm partial to a KFC ( breast please , lol ) But I'll also enjoy a Maccy D, or a Burger King. "
Profile amended lol |
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Sadly Miss Lovely there are a great range of people (especially single males) who simply don’t bother reading the profiles.
They then sadly spam all and sundry not really saying anything interesting or enticing with an almost ‘entitled’ air
And then should you ignore or politely decline some, evidently don’t know how to deal with rejection and react with abuse or nastiness.
Annoyingly for the genuine single guys this behaviour means that you’re treated with suspicion (and fair enough) from the off. Annoyingly for you, there doesn’t seem to be much that can be done about it and even if you were to entertain them, they probably wouldn’t turn up anyway lol
Ahh well, wonderful world of fab |
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"When you say "And I’m partial to a big, thick cock… " is probably leading to the confusion.
I mean I'm partial to a KFC ( breast please , lol ) But I'll also enjoy a Maccy D, or a Burger King.
Profile amended lol"
After reading the text then checking out your pics... I've forgot what the text said |
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"When you say "And I’m partial to a big, thick cock… " is probably leading to the confusion.
I mean I'm partial to a KFC ( breast please , lol ) But I'll also enjoy a Maccy D, or a Burger King.
I does say above that though, in bold, that I’m only into talk black guys. Maybe I need to edit to be more specific at the end "
I did see that, and was going to reference it in my post. But the "Partial " was what may have confused some guys.
But yeah a lot of people certainly don't read profiles fully, or choose to ignore parts that exclude them, and you are entitled to like what you like.
Hope you have a lot of fun. xx |
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"Probably because most people aren't racist and don't see colour. "
Seeing colour doesn’t make you racist.
Are you suggesting that because I don’t really find the appearance of a white penis appealing, I’m a racist? |
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"Probably because most people aren't racist and don't see colour.
Seeing colour doesn’t make you racist.
Are you suggesting that because I don’t really find the appearance of a white penis appealing, I’m a racist? "
I'd ignore tbh. I don't think any reasonably intelligent person found you or your post racist.
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"Probably because most people aren't racist and don't see colour.
Seeing colour doesn’t make you racist.
Are you suggesting that because I don’t really find the appearance of a white penis appealing, I’m a racist? "
Aside from the colour of the skin, what makes a white penis more unattractive? |
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"Probably because most people aren't racist and don't see colour.
Seeing colour doesn’t make you racist.
Are you suggesting that because I don’t really find the appearance of a white penis appealing, I’m a racist?
I'd ignore tbh. I don't think any reasonably intelligent person found you or your post racist.
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It’s frustrating. I don’t entertain any kind of race play (BBC, QOS terminology etc) because I don’t like it. I have sex with white women, but invariably get accused of being racist because i only find black men sexually attractive  It grinds my gears |
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"Probably because most people aren't racist and don't see colour.
Seeing colour doesn’t make you racist.
Are you suggesting that because I don’t really find the appearance of a white penis appealing, I’m a racist?
Aside from the colour of the skin, what makes a white penis more unattractive?"
Nothing. It’s purely visual. |
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"Probably because most people aren't racist and don't see colour.
Seeing colour doesn’t make you racist.
Are you suggesting that because I don’t really find the appearance of a white penis appealing, I’m a racist?
Aside from the colour of the skin, what makes a white penis more unattractive?"
The veins  |
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"Probably because most people aren't racist and don't see colour.
Seeing colour doesn’t make you racist.
Are you suggesting that because I don’t really find the appearance of a white penis appealing, I’m a racist?
I'd ignore tbh. I don't think any reasonably intelligent person found you or your post racist.
It’s frustrating. I don’t entertain any kind of race play (BBC, QOS terminology etc) because I don’t like it. I have sex with white women, but invariably get accused of being racist because i only find black men sexually attractive It grinds my gears "
Don't rise to it. You like what you like. |
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"It is not the men's fault, it's because it's their penis eye reading the status, then waggling about on the keyboard sending the message. Xx"
FAO op I read the status with penis. Won’t message the box because it’s not the one I want to stretch   |
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"It is not the men's fault, it's because it's their penis eye reading the status, then waggling about on the keyboard sending the message. Xx
FAO op I read the status with penis. Won’t message the box because it’s not the one I want to stretch "
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"Sadly Miss Lovely there are a great range of people (especially single males) who simply don’t bother reading the profiles.
They then sadly spam all and sundry not really saying anything interesting or enticing with an almost ‘entitled’ air
And then should you ignore or politely decline some, evidently don’t know how to deal with rejection and react with abuse or nastiness.
Annoyingly for the genuine single guys this behaviour means that you’re treated with suspicion (and fair enough) from the off. Annoyingly for you, there doesn’t seem to be much that can be done about it and even if you were to entertain them, they probably wouldn’t turn up anyway lol
Ahh well, wonderful world of fab"
I suppose it helps the decent ones stand out, that must be a positive of sorts. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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I can understand your frustration at not getting exactly what you want, but at the end of the day does it really matter? I would have thought it would make anyone happy to be inundated by messages from guys, whatever colour or shape, who want to fuck you. It's flattering....or at least I find it flattering. |
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"The website is full of chancers."
Yes it certainly is. Used to put up statuses in the past, clearly stating looking for those that can accommodate. Most of ten replies were from guys who couldn't, yet still thought I'd meet them.
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"I can understand your frustration at not getting exactly what you want, but at the end of the day does it really matter? I would have thought it would make anyone happy to be inundated by messages from guys, whatever colour or shape, who want to fuck you. It's flattering....or at least I find it flattering."
You see I don’t. Messages from guys who think so little of me that they ignore the basics of what I might be looking for don’t flatter me one bit.
Different things suit different folk I suppose.
I’d rather 1 from someone who is what I’m looking for who has taken the time to check than 100 others. |
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"I can understand your frustration at not getting exactly what you want, but at the end of the day does it really matter? I would have thought it would make anyone happy to be inundated by messages from guys, whatever colour or shape, who want to fuck you. It's flattering....or at least I find it flattering.
You see I don’t. Messages from guys who think so little of me that they ignore the basics of what I might be looking for don’t flatter me one bit.
Different things suit different folk I suppose.
I’d rather 1 from someone who is what I’m looking for who has taken the time to check than 100 others. "
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lol Been on so many swinger and adult sites over the years both as a married couple and now as a single guy. The number of woman and couples that Blame men for being men is pretty un-nerving to say the least lol.
People (Not just men lol and def not just black or white) come onto these sites in the hope of meeting someone who is looking for sexual fun. I'm not particularly interested in BBW but if one chats to me either in chat or messages, I don't tell them Im not into big woman. I do continue to chat because I believe they, like me, have more to their personalities than just the one sexual desire. My Ex used to Block pretty much all those who had issues with single men lol but again it is more about the individuals sexual expressions more than anything. Those that did block you I have no idea why but it might be possibly be because they are looking a lot and find it easier to not see your profile when doing their hunting. There's more than one reason to blocking lol. My profile says pretty much exactly what I desire but it certainly hasn't stopped me chatting and in some cases meeting those outside of my limits. Experiences of all types are great. |
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"I can understand your frustration at not getting exactly what you want, but at the end of the day does it really matter? I would have thought it would make anyone happy to be inundated by messages from guys, whatever colour or shape, who want to fuck you. It's flattering....or at least I find it flattering."
Why on earth is it flattering?!
I get messages from men offering to fuck me and I just wonder what's wrong with them.
They say it was worth a try.
They really need to get a life. |
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on. "
Arrogance, stupidity, entitlement, disrespectful, who knows.
Woman on sex site = will fuck anyone who offers (they think)
It's difficult not to tar them all with the same brush.
Hope you get some offers from men within your preferences. |
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"lol Been on so many swinger and adult sites over the years both as a married couple and now as a single guy. The number of woman and couples that Blame men for being men is pretty un-nerving to say the least lol.
People (Not just men lol and def not just black or white) come onto these sites in the hope of meeting someone who is looking for sexual fun. I'm not particularly interested in BBW but if one chats to me either in chat or messages, I don't tell them Im not into big woman. I do continue to chat because I believe they, like me, have more to their personalities than just the one sexual desire. My Ex used to Block pretty much all those who had issues with single men lol but again it is more about the individuals sexual expressions more than anything. Those that did block you I have no idea why but it might be possibly be because they are looking a lot and find it easier to not see your profile when doing their hunting. There's more than one reason to blocking lol. My profile says pretty much exactly what I desire but it certainly hasn't stopped me chatting and in some cases meeting those outside of my limits. Experiences of all types are great."
Oh the blocking doesn’t bother me, I hammer the block button daily. They blocked me because I rejected them for not being what I’d clearly asked for, and couldn’t take it
I think we all do things different ways. I’m not here for an ‘all types of experiences’ experience when it comes to sex. What I like is pretty niche, I do my socialising with any and everyone via the forum. |
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on.
Arrogance, stupidity, entitlement, disrespectful, who knows.
Woman on sex site = will fuck anyone who offers (they think)
It's difficult not to tar them all with the same brush.
Hope you get some offers from men within your preferences. "
So far I’d say it’s 95% unsuccessful
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If a white guy posted a similar thread saying he was only into black women he would get ripped into . I haven’t got an issue with your preferences btw OP it’s the hypocrisy of the forums that winds me up |
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"If a white guy posted a similar thread saying he was only into black women he would get ripped into . I haven’t got an issue with your preferences btw OP it’s the hypocrisy of the forums that winds me up "
I don’t think he would, if it was the equivalent kind of post. |
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Oh the blocking doesn’t bother me, I hammer the block button daily. They blocked me because I rejected them for not being what I’d clearly asked for, and couldn’t take it
Sorry I don't normally go logical etc lol But how do you know they Blocked you because of how you replied lol. Did they tell you they would be blocking you for being rude? Besides from what you are saying I'd have thought you would be happy they blocked you as then they wont repeat the same mistake. |
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"Oh the blocking doesn’t bother me, I hammer the block button daily. They blocked me because I rejected them for not being what I’d clearly asked for, and couldn’t take it
Sorry I don't normally go logical etc lol But how do you know they Blocked you because of how you replied lol. Did they tell you they would be blocking you for being rude? Besides from what you are saying I'd have thought you would be happy they blocked you as then they wont repeat the same mistake."
Ok. I ASSUME they blocked me because I rejected them and thought I was rude, because their reply gave that impression. And I honestly don’t care that they did, or what their reasons are. That wasn’t the point of the post. I’m not complaining about being blocked by men I’m not interested in.
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Well good for you. But I think there is a hint of annoyance there lol. Maybe we should put a site request in for auto blocking people that are not in our needs lists. Also add a few extra needs as well. |
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"Well good for you. But I think there is a hint of annoyance there lol. Maybe we should put a site request in for auto blocking people that are not in our needs lists. Also add a few extra needs as well."
I’m annoyed that they contact me knowing that they’re not what I’m looking for and then get snippy with me when I don’t want them.
The blocking is irrelevant. |
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"I see all your filters ladies and couples. Totally out of a white man's reach but I'll look, admire and fab and smile. Have fun. Xxx"
I do this to lol but have had a few messages from both females and couples who have NO SINGLE males in their profile. Had some good chats and learnt a lot more about them than what is in their profiles. Some amazing things happen on these sites lol |
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" I’m annoyed that they contact me knowing that they’re not what I’m looking for and then get snippy with me when I don’t want them.
The blocking is irrelevant. "
Ok so like I said request some Auto Blocking for profiles. Make life a lot easier and happier for you. |
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" I’m annoyed that they contact me knowing that they’re not what I’m looking for and then get snippy with me when I don’t want them.
The blocking is irrelevant.
Ok so like I said request some Auto Blocking for profiles. Make life a lot easier and happier for you."
If I was able to use filters to only receive messages from people I was looking for, it sound make my Fab experience much happier. |
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"Well good for you. But I think there is a hint of annoyance there lol. Maybe we should put a site request in for auto blocking people that are not in our needs lists. Also add a few extra needs as well.
I’m annoyed that they contact me knowing that they’re not what I’m looking for and then get snippy with me when I don’t want them.
The blocking is irrelevant. "
Have you tried just deleting their messages instead of replying if they aren't what you seek? That might cut down on any snash |
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"Well good for you. But I think there is a hint of annoyance there lol. Maybe we should put a site request in for auto blocking people that are not in our needs lists. Also add a few extra needs as well.
I’m annoyed that they contact me knowing that they’re not what I’m looking for and then get snippy with me when I don’t want them.
The blocking is irrelevant.
Have you tried just deleting their messages instead of replying if they aren't what you seek? That might cut down on any snash "
Yeah mostly that’s what I do. Or sometimes I reply and then block. |
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"I posted a status a little while ago saying that I was dreaming of having various sexy things done to me by a big, beautiful black man (it’s Sunday, I’m horny, it happens often)
My profile states clearly that I am only attracted to tall, black men…
So WHY ON EARTH is my inbox full of messages from white men offering to come and sort me out? They reference every part of the status apart from the black bit, so I know they’re read it.
I don’t understand what makes a man, and often couples, read what someone is looking for, see it’s not them, but message anyway.
When I’ve replied and said that they’re not a black man I’ve been blocked by 2 and told I’m rude.
Can anyone who would take this approach help me to understand why please. I don’t get it. If I see a profile that says they’re looking for petite, young blondes I don’t message them as big, old, brunette and expect to be the answer to their prayers. I respect that they know what they like, and move on. "
because they love your arse they haven't looked at your profile because what difference would it make to their eyes none they are firmly glued to your arse |
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