So we've been chatting to a couple for about a year, lovely swinging couple just friends, however one half of the couple popped up on social media claiming to be single (profile created and used during this marriage), the profile basically just following the opposite sex and clearly made to look single.
Now do I say anything or do I stay clear as it's not my business?
I feel bad for the other half I'd personally want to know but I don't want to be interfering at the same time.
Moral dilemma.
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I guess it depends how close you are as friends. And if the role was reversed, would you want to be told?
If you have a group chat, you could drop a casual 'hey, I spotted your single profile on that site. How's that going?'. |
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"I guess it depends how close you are as friends. And if the role was reversed, would you want to be told?
If you have a group chat, you could drop a casual 'hey, I spotted your single profile on that site. How's that going?'. "
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If it’s on social media and not a sex site then I’d be more inclined to ask, if you could speak to them directly.
I’ve just told my ex wife something about her partner I seen on a site…but we have a good relationship and I’d want to know if it was the roles reversed. Purely for the fact my son has some involvement with him.
A random on here, I possibly wouldn’t say anything unless you can ask directly.
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I wouldn't say anything. I'd only ever tell someone this kind of thing if I was super close with them and felt like we had a lot of loyalty between us both. It's not my business otherwise. |
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