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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I hope everyone’s having a good time.
Is it me or are there more bi men around now than ever before.
Are they truly bi or are they using that so they can play with the lady.
Be interesting to see what people think. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think there's more than before...I doubt very many are pretending to be bi to play with ladies..."
I have experienced it twice. That may be just unlucky. |
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I am happily fully bi. Happy to go with guys or girls or gender-whatever or all. Doesn't matter to me. I just enjoy sex.
I think it's just more people are open to bisexuality as a real thing. I only really "came out" 5 years ago, even though I never hid it. When I first discovered my sexuality, I found that if I told anyone they'd dismiss it as either me being confused about my sexuality and that I was either gay or straight. It's much more widely accepted that sexuality is a spectrum these days. You can be 100% straight or 100% gay but a lot more people will fall somewhere in the middle. |
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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago
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"I am happily fully bi. Happy to go with guys or girls or gender-whatever or all. Doesn't matter to me. I just enjoy sex.
I think it's just more people are open to bisexuality as a real thing. I only really "came out" 5 years ago, even though I never hid it. When I first discovered my sexuality, I found that if I told anyone they'd dismiss it as either me being confused about my sexuality and that I was either gay or straight. It's much more widely accepted that sexuality is a spectrum these days. You can be 100% straight or 100% gay but a lot more people will fall somewhere in the middle."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am happily fully bi. Happy to go with guys or girls or gender-whatever or all. Doesn't matter to me. I just enjoy sex.
I think it's just more people are open to bisexuality as a real thing. I only really "came out" 5 years ago, even though I never hid it. When I first discovered my sexuality, I found that if I told anyone they'd dismiss it as either me being confused about my sexuality and that I was either gay or straight. It's much more widely accepted that sexuality is a spectrum these days. You can be 100% straight or 100% gay but a lot more people will fall somewhere in the middle."
100000% agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many of the "bi" guys here are actually gay pertaining to be bi so they can attract the cock they wouldn't get if they listed themselves with their "true" sexuality |
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"I am happily fully bi. Happy to go with guys or girls or gender-whatever or all. Doesn't matter to me. I just enjoy sex.
I think it's just more people are open to bisexuality as a real thing. I only really "came out" 5 years ago, even though I never hid it. When I first discovered my sexuality, I found that if I told anyone they'd dismiss it as either me being confused about my sexuality and that I was either gay or straight. It's much more widely accepted that sexuality is a spectrum these days. You can be 100% straight or 100% gay but a lot more people will fall somewhere in the middle."
Totally agree with you on this Panda. I’m pretty much the same as you  |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi. "
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I have no doubt you're right 
As Panpanda says, once over you were supposed to be one or the other but
most people now accept that sexuality ban be a scale |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi.
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I have no doubt you're right
As Panpanda says, once over you were supposed to be one or the other but
most people now accept that sexuality ban be a scale "
I disagree
I think your take on it very much depends on your social and professional circle
I would say there is far more acceptance of homosexuality than there is bisexuality
Bi-phobia is still strong in the circles in which I mix and that is across sexes, sexualities and ages |
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Absolutely, I said it is more widely accepted but it's still not normalised. I actually get more pushback in gay bars for being bisexual than I do anywhere else. If I try explaining what pansexuality is, it blows most people's minds. It's easier to say I'm bi, which is something that I didn't feel comfortable doing 10 years ago. It's easier to be yourself but it's still not perfect as there are a lot of people stuck in their ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am happily fully bi. Happy to go with guys or girls or gender-whatever or all. Doesn't matter to me. I just enjoy sex.
I think it's just more people are open to bisexuality as a real thing. I only really "came out" 5 years ago, even though I never hid it. When I first discovered my sexuality, I found that if I told anyone they'd dismiss it as either me being confused about my sexuality and that I was either gay or straight. It's much more widely accepted that sexuality is a spectrum these days. You can be 100% straight or 100% gay but a lot more people will fall somewhere in the middle."
Couldn't have put it better myself, I'm fairly low down the bi spectrum so still say I'm curious with experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it me or are there more bi men around now than ever before.
Are they truly bi or are they using that so they can play with the lady.
Ah that's what I've been doing wrong all these years! I should pretend to be bi to play with women - great logic |
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"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi.
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I have no doubt you're right
As Panpanda says, once over you were supposed to be one or the other but
most people now accept that sexuality ban be a scale
I disagree
I think your take on it very much depends on your social and professional circle
I would say there is far more acceptance of homosexuality than there is bisexuality
Bi-phobia is still strong in the circles in which I mix and that is across sexes, sexualities and ages "
I fully concur |
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There's certainly more who are open about being bi, compared to say 15 years ago when I was active on another site, and I get far more 'looks' from guys than even four years ago when I was more active in seeking meets.
Maybe some have changed from bi-curious to bi over time, as well as it being more acceptable to couples now - mmf seems very popular. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been bi for many years always had a girlfriend or partner as well, been bi top for the last 15 years but happy to suck on a cock and share with my girlfriend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im bi opp but my profile sayes straight. Its not to decieve anyone. Its because im fully bi in a couples situation only and not on M M meets and it keeps men away. |
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"I hope everyone’s having a good time.
Is it me or are there more bi men around now than ever before.
Are they truly bi or are they using that so they can play with the lady.
Be interesting to see what people think. "
Sorry to say we will not meet bi guys also a good number of single ladies it will help with some but put as many off..
But you answer your question I think being bi is far more socially acceptable these days so more people are willing to come out.
No more no less
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hopefully, it just means it's more socially acceptable for a guy to be bi.
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I have no doubt you're right
As Panpanda says, once over you were supposed to be one or the other but
most people now accept that sexuality ban be a scale
I disagree
I think your take on it very much depends on your social and professional circle
I would say there is far more acceptance of homosexuality than there is bisexuality
Bi-phobia is still strong in the circles in which I mix and that is across sexes, sexualities and ages "
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I think everyone is more open now and not ashamed to be what they want to be. I'm old enough to remember "contact" magazines before the Internet existed. Even in these secret days people would never show their faces in adverts to avoid being recognised. Look on here now and people are showing their faces in their public photos because people simply don't care anymore about getting recognised. It's the same with bi men and women as it's accepted now. |
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Perhaps it's more about acceptance these days. A few decades ago being gay was mostly hidden, societal prejudice made it that way.
Sexuality is freer now.
I've been bi from my youth, but it's far more open now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps it's more about acceptance these days. A few decades ago being gay was mostly hidden, societal prejudice made it that way.
Sexuality is freer now.
I've been bi from my youth, but it's far more open now"
Its certainly getting easier.. I still think its us bi guys that carry the most societal stigma |
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I think society has always been quick to pigeonhole people whereas it’s not as simple as that.
What’s wrong with enjoying licking pussy and sucking cock ?
Both at the same time with a couple even better ! |
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"I hope everyone’s having a good time.
Is it me or are there more bi men around now than ever before.
Are they truly bi or are they using that so they can play with the lady.
Be interesting to see what people think. "
Fab bi. Only suck cock in hope to fuck pussy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sexuality is freer now.
I've been bi from my youth, but it's far more open now"
Same here male been bi for almost 40 years bi top for the last 15 years. When I sucked my first cock all those years ago you didn't dare tell anyone big secret. |
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"Absolutely, I said it is more widely accepted but it's still not normalised. I actually get more pushback in gay bars for being bisexual than I do anywhere else. If I try explaining what pansexuality is, it blows most people's minds. It's easier to say I'm bi, which is something that I didn't feel comfortable doing 10 years ago. It's easier to be yourself but it's still not perfect as there are a lot of people stuck in their ways."
I'm pansexual but not interested in everybody. I like feminine and androgynous people, whatever is in their underwear.
I generally don't want to meet masculine men, but because the choices are limited, I've opted for 'Bi' on here. |
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