I'd say I wasn't looking for a certain type of meet to be Vanilla or kink from the get go ,more just looking to meet and see where it gos,I'd be up for trying new kinks if it was something I felt comfortable with to though.

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

We’re just weird, but we play to the tune of the third party, mostly to try something new.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ideally looking for something a bit different but enjoy trying new things x

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I always like to start off with vanilla, I need a connection before I'll consider anything else. There has to be a certain level of trust if you're going to engage in anything kinky/BDSM.

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I prefer vanilla, with a flake please.

No crushed nuts

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By *eyeYCouple over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I always like to start off with vanilla, I need a connection before I'll consider anything else. There has to be a certain level of trust if you're going to engage in anything kinky/BDSM."

What she said!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

mostly vanilla, but sometimes go off-piste when the situation is right

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I always like to start off with vanilla, I need a connection before I'll consider anything else. There has to be a certain level of trust if you're going to engage in anything kinky/BDSM."

This does make the most sense as the dom sub can only happen if you are comfortable. It's quite funny how so many "doms" don't actually know its a woman's choice to submit and litterally just think it's rough stuff but hey ho we move as best we can!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All talk!'no action.

Most time energy is spent window shopping,brainstorming

Than the actual act.

Its the chase and game,most minds need!!

Lol

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

Definitely vanilla here! kink and dom/sub scenarios are the biggest turnoff for me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say vanilla with a twist of something when the right person or mood comes along

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

one mans kink is another mans vanilla

id also say the fact that we are on a swingers site looking for fun would suggest no one is vanilla as such as swinging to the normal person would be kinky in its self

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By *akeanyoneMan over a year ago

Presumably, if you're on this site then you're a swinger. I think most would consider that a kink.

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By *ob.42Man over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

I don't know what constitutes kink or vanilla, is oral a kink? To some it will be. Same for rimming or anal, normal sexual behaviour is very subjective.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I just like sex.

*shrug*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do we have to be one or the other?

Very much a middle man here

Miss S x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

"I just like sex.

*shrug*"

Agree sex it's the best.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

N and I have a D/s dynamic that we don’t enact when we’re swinging. Consent gets shady and negotiation is very tough. We’ve found that swinging and the reconsenting at each stage as things escalate can be a big turnoff for vanilla swingers as well. We’re open about what we’re into, and if people want to explore stuff with us, we check experience and comfort levels first.

That said, beyond foot stuff we’ve not found anyone on here that wants to do kink stuff and it’s perfectly fine with us. This site is amazing for swing. There are far better sites for kink.

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By *ingeringfunMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've always been more on the vanilla side I think.. not into dom or sub thing so compared to many profiles I see here I always considered myself rather tame.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both mixed as a cocktail.

"Bruce said , be formless "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say I wasn't looking for a certain type of meet to be Vanilla or kink from the get go ,more just looking to meet and see where it gos,I'd be up for trying new kinks if it was something I felt comfortable with to though.

This is exactly the same wavelength that we are on

Mrs

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