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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ugly"
Looks help but they aren't the most important factor.
Your outlook, personality, sense of humour and treating people with respect will go a long long way to having success in the swinging world.
On Fab there's 100 single guys for every 1 single lady or couple. The ratio is crazy. Just in my postcode there's been 10 single guys sign up in the last 24 hours.
If your serious about swinging and all that entails then get along to a local swinging social event or go to your nearest swinging club.
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I would suggest that using skills for chatting girls up in the real world are used also online.
Just because people are online and their profiles read like giving it up, you still got to have game.
I would suggest you read books like:
The rational male
The game
Key rules:
Good profile and pictures
Don't be desperate
Let the girls chase
Have good opening lines and an ability to hold conversation
Don't chase, loads of girls
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would suggest that using skills for chatting girls up in the real world are used also online.
Just because people are online and their profiles read like giving it up, you still got to have game.
I would suggest you read books like:
The rational male
The game
Key rules:
Good profile and pictures
Don't be desperate
Let the girls chase
Have good opening lines and an ability to hold conversation
Don't chase, loads of girls
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A lot of guys who have zero skills when engaging with women in real day to day life come to Fab thinking it's a short circuit by pass to free easy pussy.
Where the truth is it's actually harder to be successful here as a single male than it is in real life and you really need to up your "game" to do well.
(Yes I'm the male part of a couple but we also meet separately as well so I understand the challenges a solo male faces)
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Being ugly or thinking you’re that doesn’t really apply on here , it’s a sex site , look at me for instance, I’m fabulously handsome, rich and famous ….. at the moment I couldn’t get a meet for love nor money ,it’s double edged sword |
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"I would suggest that using skills for chatting girls up in the real world are used also online.
Just because people are online and their profiles read like giving it up, you still got to have game.
I would suggest you read books like:
The rational male
The game
Key rules:
Good profile and pictures
Don't be desperate
Let the girls chase
Have good opening lines and an ability to hold conversation
Don't chase, loads of girls
A lot of guys who have zero skills when engaging with women in real day to day life come to Fab thinking it's a short circuit by pass to free easy pussy.
Where the truth is it's actually harder to be successful here as a single male than it is in real life and you really need to up your "game" to do well.
(Yes I'm the male part of a couple but we also meet separately as well so I understand the challenges a solo male faces)
KJ"
Yep, totally agree with you.
Just because girls are on a dating site does not mean they are desperate.
In fact, quite the opposite, a good looking girl in the real and internet world has no shortage of attention.
In the internet world even the mid level girls are not short of attention.
As a bloke you really do need to stand out from the crowd. There is a reason why they are single. 
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I don't get what you want people to say in reply on this thread. You don't want advice you say so that's out. Do you want people to say you're good looking,well in my opinion you're not bad looking at all like you claim you are,but that alone won't guarantee a reply on here either. In fact nothing does but the one thing that usually works against someone is a thread where someone is knocking themselves down. Especially unfortunately when you're a man on here. Women will get told they are stunning regardless men will be told the opposite by a lot.That is the way fab goes a lot of the time.
Good luck on your journey,it is tougher for men to get chatting on here. The only thing I will say is don't let it effect your confidence it's just fab and not that important at the end of the day. |
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By *jc65 OP Man
over a year ago
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Thanks,I have started to let it get to me
"I don't get what you want people to say in reply on this thread. You don't want advice you say so that's out. Do you want people to say you're good looking,well in my opinion you're not bad looking at all like you claim you are,but that alone won't guarantee a reply on here either. In fact nothing does but the one thing that usually works against someone is a thread where someone is knocking themselves down. Especially unfortunately when you're a man on here. Women will get told they are stunning regardless men will be told the opposite by a lot.That is the way fab goes a lot of the time.
Good luck on your journey,it is tougher for men to get chatting on here. The only thing I will say is don't let it effect your confidence it's just fab and not that important at the end of the day. "
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"Just to be clear as forum rules prevent us from giving unsolicited advice on profiles. Are you asking for feedback on yours ?
You can give advice of it's relevant. As it would be here."
Unless someone's asks for profile advice you can't...you will be put on the naughty step as it's against fab rules x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Green banner saying open to fuck
Swinger coach
Content which ladies/couples want to read
Sexual achievements/bucket list
Try all that n ull get somewhere
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We have replied to people we aren’t initially attracted to solely on how they put themselves across on their opening message to us… a big key is confidence this post tells me your lacking that a little if your confident in your messages it will help you but don’t confuse confidence with ego….good luck we hope things change for you |
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