I'm quite new to this but have chatted to a few couples where I eventually find out that the guy wants to meet alone as the Mrs is not into me, Am i right in thinking this sounds dodgy especially as the messages are deleted straight away. I'm a BBW so I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Is there an easy way to spot the dodgy ones? K x |
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lol do what we do, ask where the other half is and dont chat etc untill you get the other half on cam or message. We have had loads of fakers, some are easy to spot others are quite clever but always stick to your guns, dont let the yeah shes asleep or away on business but i have permission bull****. Many of us are genuine but many cpls profiles are men without the wives permission. |
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"I'm quite new to this but have chatted to a few couples where I eventually find out that the guy wants to meet alone as the Mrs is not into me, Am i right in thinking this sounds dodgy especially as the messages are deleted straight away. I'm a BBW so I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Is there an easy way to spot the dodgy ones? K x"
What you've described is "a dodgy one" that's how you spot them. If it feels dodge. Then it probley is. Always go with gut and be safe  your gorgeous by the way x |
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"I'm quite new to this but have chatted to a few couples where I eventually find out that the guy wants to meet alone as the Mrs is not into me, Am i right in thinking this sounds dodgy especially as the messages are deleted straight away. I'm a BBW so I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Is there an easy way to spot the dodgy ones? K x"
same with me too, only the man wants to meet me, nearly all the time. |
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I know it happens but I don't see the point of a single guy pretending to be a couple because obviously if someone was looking for a couple, they wouldn't ever meet without the above sort of phone call with the lady verification. Timewasting again! The bane of all genuine swingers.
OP: I bet there's loads of couples out there for you!  |
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It's not just you, it's the reason I changed my profile. If I want to meet with a couple then I message them,
I would want a phone chat with the fem, even then, as I find my single men, a different way  |
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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm quite new to this but have chatted to a few couples where I eventually find out that the guy wants to meet alone as the Mrs is not into me, Am i right in thinking this sounds dodgy especially as the messages are deleted straight away. I'm a BBW so I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Is there an easy way to spot the dodgy ones? K x"
Probably single guy pretending to be a couple, hard to believe we know lol. |
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"I'm quite new to this but have chatted to a few couples where I eventually find out that the guy wants to meet alone as the Mrs is not into me, Am i right in thinking this sounds dodgy especially as the messages are deleted straight away. I'm a BBW so I understand that I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Is there an easy way to spot the dodgy ones? K x"
I would guess that is really single men pretending to be a couple. Hence wanting to meet alone, saying wife not into you etc. |
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It's got dodgy written all over it.
Anyone on here who is 100% wouldn't meet like that .
Your a single lady so there will be plenty of great men an women and couples on here who will want to meet.
As others have said if your not got that feeling in the pit of your tummy that its real then it's more than likely not.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't talk to many couples, only because they're not on my looking to meet list but it does sound dodgy! Don't get disheartened though there are plenty genuine ones, especially on the forums, so welcome x |
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I always say to them that I only meet both from a couple profile and if he wants to play alone he should have a single male profile to use and join the ranks of all the other single males then XD |
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does being a BBW matter?
to me no.
but i would exercise caution here.
you have said the mail is being deleted and that tells me he doesnt want the other half to see what he is up to.
does she even exist? are any pics really her?
personally when i arrange to meet a couple i have at the very least spoken to both of them on the same phone call.
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